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Underrated Ben Sisko moment was when he spent the first 7 and a half episodes insisting Jadzia was still his same old friend Dax even if she looked different now, then IMMEDIATELY switched to "Jadzia Dax? I hardly know her! ComPLETEly different people" when the Klaestron government tried to extradite her to stand trial for crimes allegedly committed by Curzon Dax.

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frankly i feel absolutely no, probably even negative, kinship with childfree people who hate children lol that’s not why i’m childfree… i’m actually childfree because i love and respect children enough to know that i am not the kind of person to give them the kind of childhood and parent they rightfully deserve

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a man so. so very boobless and assless that you could. you could probably use him as a bookmark even. if you so desired

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the real problem with intuitive eating is that food admin (prep, cooking, grocery shopping, etc) sucks incredibly turbo bad it's awful and it takes forever and it costs a million dollars and there is no food on earth I would rather spend time eating over doing just about anything else with my hands like I could be crocheting I could be whittling I could be drawing but no I have to do food admin and THEN after all THAT bullshit I have to actually eat the food and I already have autism and arfid so if I made it there's a 90% I will find it inedible simply from the fatigue of preparing it which is how I end up eating like seven granola bars in bed at 1230 in the morning because that's the only time I have the appetite to eat anything at all

I'm tired and I'm hungry and I would really like it if my body could work like At All. like is the problem me. like do i just lack discipline. does everyone find everything this hard all the time. they don't right. you guys don't continue to tolerate discomfort because you lack inertia right.

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I think parents don't understand how punishing a child isn't for when they make you upset, it's for when they do something wrong. Like, you don't just punish them for stress relief, it's so they can learn right from wrong.

So if your kid learns, for example, that helping mom make dinner = getting in the way, but not helping = being lazy, but asking if mom needs help = being annoying and asking stupid questions, then you have basically trained a person to see the only option that doesn't lead to scolding as 'hide and don't be thought of until dinner is done'. So now what relationship is your kid going to have with cooking or cleaning or chores in general? How is that going to affect them as an adult?

If there is no right answer regarding the things that bother a parent, then your kid is going to associate those things with being punished no matter what they do. If talking during a car ride is bad and annoying, but being quiet and staring out the window is bad and disrespectful, then what are they going to do every time they're in the car with you but count every word they say? If texting is suspicious, but why don't they have friends, but going out with people is irresponsible, but why don't they ever leave their room, but their friends are all bad influences, but why did they stop hanging out with them, they were nice kids, then what are you even doing?

If playing video games is lazy, going outside is unsafe, playing is ignoring chores and doing chores is being in the way, then YOU'VE CREATED A CHILD WHO'S LEARNED THE ONLY WAY TO AVOID BEING SCOLDED IS TO DISAPPEAR WHENEVER YOU'RE IN A BAD MOOD! You've created a person who is hardwired to feel guilty no matter what they choose to do. You turned them into a confrontation ninja, who can vanish as soon as a hard conversation enters the picture. You've trained a person to disregard why rules exist and instead focus on who they can placate and suck up to in order to make the rules change. Because to them, rules and punishments are just who gets on the bosses nerves at the wrong time.

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check out this wild combo of pins i found at my local value village

omfg

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the thing about having Globes (be they boobs or butt or any other mighty mounds), is you must occasionally, while walking around naked, cup them in the palms of your hand and give them a good JIGGLE, like Justice balancing her scales

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Duuude don't question my version of events I'm such a reliable narrator. I'm literally the protagonist and the main character. You can literally read some of my internal thoughts, that clearly means you have complete access to an objective view of my thoughts and feelings and a correct impression of my characterization and the events unfolding around me. I'm not omitting any information from the audience. Nevermind that timeskip just now

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i think this is probably true of every office, but there's a middle aged woman working in business who doesn't hold any particular place in the chain of command but is Sovereign. i was running support and she has access to more secure network drives than i do. im pretty sure she has an admin account. i was having trouble with my parking pass and my boss just said to talk to kristen- one day later i had parking in any garage on campus. she's not even in charge of parking in our building

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just remembered how as a kid my go-to stress-response was to make a peanut butter banana sandwich

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please stop accepting value judgments from people too afraid to ride the bus

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on survival

-// @aridante // @orivu // @buzzkillgirls // ? // ? // richard siken// @cemeterything // moomin, tove jansson// @disenchanted-killjoy // isn't that enough, shawn mendes// @ prettytheyswag on twitter// @ coletyumuch on twitter// ? // ? // bird by bird, anne lamott// undertale// @strawberrycircuits

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ROLLER DERBY KISSES, Acrylic on MDF and leather, Riikka Hyvönen

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i am some sort of fey creature and my cat is the human who i have arbitrarily decided is my favorite human.