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Oh wow! That's amazing!

After 345 days it's finished!

My queen sized Pride blanket.

This blanket means so much to me because the day I started it was the day I came out of all the closets.

I kicked those doors down after decades and risked everything doing so.

And it was fucking hard. I lost a lot. But I gained so much more.

Fully embracing all those parts of me that I had to keep so tightly under lock and key because it wasn't safe.

I'm free now.

And I'm so glad I did it. I'm proud of myself.

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Okay hear me out…

Also, in case you don't know the flag with violet and brown, it's the Gender Apathetic flag :)

Edit: OMG, not even a day has passed, but already +140 notes? Oh my gosh, thank you all so much, I love you!

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Happy birthday!!!

Yippee! My birtday (I am now 21)

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close enough

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Dismantling the Lies of Abusive Parents Masterlist

Resources

Giving you food and clothing is the bare minimum

You don’t owe gratitude for food and clothes you needed as a child

You had the right for basic resources

Parents shaming you for costing money is ironic and stupid

What it means when they say ‘This is MY house’

My house = my rules is blackmail

Children don’t owe absolute obedience for being fed and sheltered

Physical abuse

You are allowed to refuse any touch, not only violence

If they ‘don’t know they’re hurting you’, why do they ignore or punish you when you protest?

Hitting children is irrational and doesn’t work

You cannot ‘provoke’ your parents to abuse you if they’re not abusive

Why do parents hit, manipulate and traumatize children

Blatant Lies

Care, nurture and affection do not make you weak

They’re lying when they say it ‘wasn’t that bad’‘

You wouldn’t have grown up spoiled if not for abuse

You got too affected by it’ is a lie

Your parents are not ‘just too emotionally immature’ to understand abuse

‘You’re not living in the real world!’ is nonsense

You’re not worthless, a burden, ungrateful, or stupid, and your parents know that.

Constant undermining of your accomplishments is abuse

Not being allowed to talk about the past is symptom of abuse

Parents who want you to be happy vs look happy

You are not abusive for resisting abuse

When they claim ‘they didn’t mean it’, it’s still abuse

Your parents are responsible for their own actions regardless of how badly they try to shift blame on you

Psychological abuse

Blind Obedience is not required in a healthy upbringing

Disgust is a weapon abusive parents use on their kids

If they say they love you, but walk all over your feelings, they don’t 

Parents don’t have the right to enter your room to scream at you

Parents insisting for you to be ‘tough’ are doing it to hide the trauma

Even if a kid acts like ‘they can take it’, it’s still abuse

Pretending abuse is discipline will leave children permanently scarred

It’s inhumane to control and shame children’s reactions to abuse

Why don’t you already know this? vs Teaching you necessary skills

Acting like they’ll change is escape sabotage

Parents are responsible for protecting children from harm

References to how healthy parenting looks like

Not being allowed to be angry with your parents is psychological abuse

If parents want you to act the way you did when you were little, they’re dangerous

Threats about how hard your life will be later on, are bad for you

Lack of continuity and ever-changing rules will cause anxiety

Forced obedience will lead you to abusive relationships

Parents acting like you’re a ‘bad child’ is a shame tactic to control you

There’s healthy and abusive ways to give children chores

Revisioning the past and insisting you remember it wrong is gaslighting

If your parents make you suicidal, they’re abusive

Parents threatening ‘they could be worse’ is abuse

Always assuming the worst intentions for your actions is wrong

Keeping children hostage in abuse is torture

If this hits home, also read Recognizing Abuse Masterlist

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i saw the art of all the vessels together and thought "hehe vesselverse" and now im intrigued by that concept. now im thinking all of the vessels/souls are just in the void whenever theres a long wait or theyre not resetting and they just. talk about mundane stuff

"kris ate all the pie again, goddamnit.."

"can you blame them? dark world food doesnt satisfy hunger"

"GUYS I HAVE HOMEWORK I GOTTA GO"

Never interrupt Angel when they're writing about their conspiracy theories

(Featuring: @purplebehittindifferent @ultrabean @deltasaviorthemaker and @missowo)

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DREW SPAMTON WITH STICK AND FIRE

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No matter what, I always seems to enjoy listening in the voices of my beloved ones. Even if I have nothing to say, I'll let them tell me every little detail about their day or favorite thing under the sun.

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New reaction image lmao

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Comic from an incorrect quote by @flamie-42

WHY IS THE QUALITY SO GOD DAMN BAD?!

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headcanon atsushi’s ability the tiger does not know what to do when it likes someone

like in general atsushi is bad with knowing what to do with the ppl he likes and showing affection – like he tries to mimic others but he himself is still working on something that feels natural if that makes sense

but the tiger

the tiger is far worse becuz the only positive thing it can associate with positive emotions is food so every time it gets closer to the full moon the tiger starts whispering in the back of his mind that he should eat dazai and kunikida

then kyouka and junichiro

and ranpo and yosano and fukuzawa and kenji and naomi and haruno

at first atsushi panics (naturally) worries he’s a cannibal, thinks the tiger hates the agency, panics more, especially after dead apple when he and the tiger gained an understanding of each other and he realized that the tiger was protecting him so he’s like why r u trying to kill the agency members

but gradually he realizes that actually the tiger just doesn’t know how to deal with positive emotions and yeah

anyway:

atsushi: dazai-san is so nice to me :)

the tiger: yeah :)

the tiger: we should eat him

atsushi: NO????

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kunikida, patting atsushi’s head: good job on ur report atsushi

the tiger: use his arm against him and eat him

kunikida: atsushi u look weird are u feeling unwell

atsushi: hahaha dont worry about no weird thoughts here hahahaha

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atsushi, literally just working:

the tiger: the small candy one eats a lot of sugar. he would taste sweet. Eat him.

atsushi: NO??????????????

ranpo, looking up: i’ve actually always wondered what i would taste like-

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and so on

is this incredibly dumb? yes but is it also funny, yes

atsushi realizes he likes akutagawa because at some point when he spots him the tiger immediately starts wondering what he’d taste like

atsushi, sees akutagawa: oh there’s that basta-

the tiger: i bet he’d taste really nice

atsushi:

atsushi: oh 

atsushi: oh no

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akutagawa: how did you figure out you liked me?

atsushi: i couldn’t stop thinking about what you’d taste like

akutagawa, blushing: oh-

atsushi: yeah it was insane how much the tiger wanted to kill and eat u

akutagawa, slightly confused and horrified: oh-

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eventually as atsushi learns to deal with his feelings so does the tiger but unfortunately it’s still an animal so its more like

atsushi: dazai’s so nice :)

the tiger: yeah :)

the tiger: lets hunt a deer for him 

atsushi: no??????????????

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kunikida, petting atsushi’s hair: good job on the job atsushi

atsushi, not thinking about what he’s saying: kunikida i like u so much should i kill a bear for u?

kunikida, slightly confused, slightly flattered: uhh no???????

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atsushi, at the store: lemme just get something for kyouka-

the tiger: we shall hunt until we find something suitabl-

atsushi: no.

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atsushi: im sorry i transformed last night, snuck out of ur place, hunted down a goose, broke back in, left it in the living room table, and then climbed on top of u, still a tiger, and then fell asleep and only transformed back now, after u had to use rashomon to get tiger me off u 

akutagawa, dead tired: yeah i don’t know what the appropriate response is but ur cleaning the bloo-

akutagawa: wait wtf do u mean theres a dead goose in the living room

atsushi: do u not like goose :(

akutagawa: that is NOT the issue here

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yeah

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yosano: how long have you been sleeping with chuuya?

dazai: that's disgusting, and wrong! i don't even get- why would- i've never had sex with anyone, anywhere. it's none of your- you have- the nerve, the audacity? chuuya is my former partner, technically. and he is terrible, face-wise. and how- how do i know, frankly, that you're not sleeping with him, huh? maybe you are. maybe you're just trying to throw me off, ha! check and mate.

yosano:

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bsd textposts!! i'm obsessed

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"can we keep him??"

lil bonus after the cut :3

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If I had a nickel everytime I went in the wrong account then I'd have more than 10

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[!]—Hey there. You seem pretty tired.

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Feeling lonely? Well, I hope you wouldn't mind some extra company at this time. After all, things must've been pretty hectic on your end. Same here with me; honestly knew nothing on what was happening until I broke down and settle aside my thoughts. Maybe you should try that too sometime. It's pretty relieving rather than popping open a bottle of sake or lighting up a cigarette. Coming from me, as well!

I'm just glad to see that you're here and alive.

Anyway, if you're not facing too much of a struggle, that's fine by me too. On that note, I'm glad. I'm glad to be hearing it. Though I might not know the full details, I only want to provide a hint of comfort every now and then. But if you're comfortable enough, tell me how you're feeling right now. I don't mind you telling me a part vaguely or sharing the entire thing with full details, really—Nothing else matters at the moment than confronting and admitting to yourself.

So... Tell me, how are you?