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Reblogging and posting about raw animal sex is very fun, but please remember that real life sex looks a lot of different ways. It’s not always you deep in her guts while she screams your name, it’s not always hot and heavy and panting and moaning and fucking for hours through five orgasms.

Sometimes someone can’t orgasm, sometimes you pull a muscle in a new position, sometimes your bodies make funny noises, sometimes you get tired or turned off halfway through, sometimes the strap is too big, sometimes a few fingers are too many, sometimes you desperately want to come and you can’t, sometimes you can’t get into the mood for sex for weeks, or months, or longer, sometimes the chemistry is bad, sometimes there are textural issues, sometimes you cry, sometimes (hopefully often) you laugh, sometimes there’s talking and adjusting and “you’re at the wrong angle” or “it came out,” and sometimes your period starts.

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telling my femme i love and respect her so much before i fuck her like i don’t

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We NEED more BIPOC lesbian bars I’m not joking. We NEED more lesbian bars period. WE NEED them EVERYWHERE!!

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“there’s no point in sucking strap” “no one gets anything out of sucking strap” have you thought about how pretty a femme is sucking strap? cmon now

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ovulating rn, need to breed my femme actually

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i love being a butch, I love loving femmes, I love protecting femmes and taking care of them and giving them praise. I love being strong, being a caretaker for my pretty femme, being a protector and a loverboy. being a butch is beautiful, it's history, it's more than just being masculine.

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I know butch chivalry isn’t for everyone, but I love being generous and doing things for people and being reliable and kind and trustworthy for other women

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in honor of black history month 2025, i’ve put together a list of books written by black sapphic authors for you to read in the month of february

non-fiction essays/memoirs:

all about love: new visions by bell hooks

black lesbian in white america by anita cornwell

sister outsider: essays and speeches by audre lorde

mouths of rain: an anthology of black lesbian thought by briona simone jones

blues legacies and black feminism by angela davis

does your mama know?: an anthology of black lesbian coming out stories by lisa c. moore

fiction:

the color purple by alice walker

loving her by ann allen shockley

the gilda stories by jewelle gomez

in another place, not here by dionne brand

pomegranate by helen elaine lee

the summer we got free by mia mckenzie

these letters end in tears by musih tedji xaviere

dead in long beach, california by venita blackburn

young adult:

honey girl by morgan rogers

escaping mr. rochester by l.l. mckinney

this ravenous fate by hayley dennings

faebound by saraa el-arifa

so let them burn by kamilah cole

where sleeping girls lie by faridah àbíké-íyímídé

adult:

the deep by rivers solomon

sweet vengeance by viano oniomoh

come back (love concealed) by terri ronald

house of hunger by alexis henderson

short stories:

girl, woman, other by bernadine evaristo

the secret lives of church ladies by deesha philyaw

additional info:

-> “why wasn’t this book listed?” probably because it wasn’t black sapphic-centric, the author isn’t a black sapphic themself, or i just simply haven’t heard of it! so feel free to add on if it meets those two criteria

many of these books require trigger warnings, especially some of the older ones that are more likely to feature racial struggles of the time. please do your due diligence and search for tws if you want to read them!

please feel free to add onto this list in the rbs or comments! happy black history month

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where are the people that start t seeking a few changes and then stop when they've reached them. how do I google search for them

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gf said if the eagles win i gotta send her strap pics. i love it here

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a butchfemme dynamic isn’t about the butch doing everything for the femme or vice versa… it’s both of us looking at each other and saying “you do so much for me, let me take care of you” and i think that’s so important to recognize. you shouldn’t be doing everything for your partner without them giving you everything in return. the ways you spoil each other might look completely different and that’s okay, but one person shouldn’t be carrying the brunt of the relationship. that’s not what being butchfemme means.

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as a femme i think it’s so important that we see and perceive butches not only as complimentary or opposite part of our identity, potential gf/bf, sex partners or lovers, but also as friends.

make butch friends without any intention beyond genuine friendship. hang out with butches, laugh with butches, talk with butches, take care of butches and let them take care of you.

we need to stop centring both our identity and butch identity around sex and love only. they’re our friends, family and the strangers in the street that brighten up our days.

make friends with butches!

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had amazing lesbian sex yesterday. never kill yourself

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yall ever just put the strap on and do poses in the mirror? me too

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you ever just hear your femme laugh and it's like the clouds parted and the sun's coming through just right and everything will be ok?

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my new years resolution for 2025:

1. get hotter

2. lesbian sex

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want to spoil a femme so bad. get her a fresh set of nails, take her out to dinner, buy her new teddies, new clothes, games, ill get her a fucking princess crown, anything she wants and more.