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Don't judge someone based on what they hide.

Have you ever experienced a déjà vu feeling? I recently went to a mall to get some things for the Gratitude Mistress of the Parsonage. She shops so much that I occasionally have to assist her.

This time, as I was strolling through the mall, I suddenly came to a complete halt. Someone who reminded me of my late aunt Elsie was approaching me. I was astonished because my aunt Elsie passed away more than 20 years ago and she was wearing the same clothes and hairstyle.

There was a brief desire for me to approach her and enquire about her relationship to my aunt Elsie. Sure, and what's that to you?" was the response I was afraid she would give. It would have persuaded me that aunt Elsie was who she claimed to be.

I simply stood aside and let her pass, making sure not to even look her way. One of the ancestors in my family who dates back a long time was Aunt Elsie. Once you'd met her, it would be impossible for you to forget her. She belonged to the category.

She was not who you initially perceived her to be when you first met her.

You initially assumed she was an elderly woman who was lovely and charming. When you first met her, her smile was contagious. But trust me when I say that occasionally first impressions are incorrect. Everyone, I guess, has an aunt like Aunt Elsie. I learned from her not to judge others by their deception. They might not be who you believe them to be. And aunt Elsie was just that.

She constantly made an effort to make things revolve around her.

If you went to a picnic with the family, the entire talk had to be about her. She would always interrupt someone else to talk about herself or something else she wanted people to know. Whether or not what she was saying was genuine was unimportant; what mattered was that she was attracting the attention she desired. As we arrived at the mall, I assisted her in getting out of the car and assisted her as she limped up to the entrance. When she entered, I remarked, "Can you take care of yourself, Aunt Elsie? I have some things to pick up at the mall's other end."

She gave me one of her often dejected expressions and added, "OK, but don't linger too long. I don't feel as energetic today."

As we parted ways, I saw that she was still limping as she always did. I so decided to follow her covertly.

She stopped, looked back to see if I was anywhere in sight, and then walked off like a teenager while I watched her from cover. Absolutely no limping.

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Any pie à la mode is OK for me.

Making decisions is a crucial aspect of daily living. Because of the decisions I made yesterday, I am who I am now. While I would prefer to place the blame elsewhere, the fact of the matter is that my decisions have led to who I am today.

I have to admit that I have made a number of poor decisions in my life. In fact, I'm trying to forget most of them so I won't list them here. I'm glad I can't go back to yesterday.

I have, however, made a few decisions in my life that have been quite good. I avoid dwelling on my poor decisions because doing so could demoralise me. But, I do concentrate on my wise decisions because they are a genuine source of inspiration.

I must admit that being married to the Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage was the best decision I've ever made in my life. Although I'm not entirely convinced that was my decision, I'll nonetheless claim ownership of it. We once travelled with a group of people while still dating, and when we were sitting together, she remarked, "Wouldn't it be lovely to get married?"

How was I to know it was an unofficial proposal? I initially believed the question was rhetorical.

I answered, "It really would be lovely," in my ignorance.

Well, I made that decision in that respect.

It was a prophecy as well I was unaware that I was a prophet. Yet I was right on point when I said it would be "good." It has been pleasant.

The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage and her husband will commemorate 50 years of blissful marriage in August of this year. It must have happened when I was very little because I can't believe it's been that long. But fifty years might pass quite quickly. What can you do differently for your 50th wedding anniversary after celebrating for 49 years?

I frequently hear stories about couples who are struggling in their marriages and having conflicts. Even some of my friends have reached the point where they simply divorce, as though this will cure all their issues.

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The Whisperer of the Blossoming Flower

I am at the height of ignorance when it comes to flowers. I have absolutely no knowledge about plants. Red, blue, and yellow is all I can see.

Please understand that I like flowers. I am alien, though, when it comes to names. To truly appreciate a flower, I don't need to know its name. Instead, I prefer the aesthetics and aroma of a row of flowers.

Flowers wouldn't last more than a day if I had to take care of them. It doesn't necessarily follow that you know how to take care of something just because you like it. The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage, who is on the other side of this marriage, is a real pro when it comes to growing plants and flowers. She knows how to take care of plants because she grew up on a farm and her father was also a farmer. I give her a lot of room in this area because I'm a considerate husband. Yet I am aware of the things I ought to avoid, and this is one of them.

I am aware that she would not be a happy planter if one of her flowers didn't turn out the way she had hoped. I therefore avoid the flowers to support her in this area. Instead, I gaze longingly upon them and laud my wife's beauty. That gives me a few compliments, and I could use all of them.

A few weeks ago, I overheard my wife speaking as I was walking through the glass door leading to the porch. I figured she was speaking to our neighbours and didn't want to interrupt. It occurs frequently. It comes pretty close to being "gossip," though I won't claim it is.

I simply dismissed it and went about my day. The following day, I overheard her saying the same thing, but I couldn't make out what she was saying, so I simply assumed she was speaking to our neighbour again. This occurred rather frequently, and because I belong to the curious subset of humanity, I was curious to find out who she was speaking to and what they were discussing.

I don't gossip, but I sure enjoy hearing it to keep up with current events.

I heard her say, "Oh, you look so beautiful today," as I tried to hear her.

That piqued my interest. The neighbours have never said how gorgeous they are to me. I so simply dismissed it as local foolishness.

A day later, I heard her say as I was walking by the door, "Don't stress over the rain. I'll look after you." She then made an unusual remark, saying, "I'll be careful, and guarantee this won't hurt; it is something I need to do."

I then heard three clips. "I overheard her say, "See, I told you it wouldn't hurt," in a really loving tone. So you'll appear much more attractive now."

I was unwilling to learn what was happening at the moment. I had no idea who she was speaking to or what was happening.

I was torn between leaving and pretending I hadn't heard anything. Or should I venture outside and investigate the situation on my own?

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Children Like Treasure Seeking

Remember when you were a child. Do you remember going in search of Easter eggs? Do you recall "finding out" what candy was in your bag after Halloween? Do you recall how fun it was to open presents at Christmas? Have you ever gone on "treasure hunts" with your friends? Maybe you've heard a rumour about a hidden treasure chest full of bank robbers' loot. Maybe it was a pirate's loot. or the Lost Dutchman Mine, as in my case.

Children adore treasure hunts. They relish exploration. Kids enjoy discovering hidden objects. It is important to tailor the hunt and the treasure to the participants' interests and age. For smaller children, hiding a "treasure" of treats, games, and trinkets about the house can inspire them to participate. It's thrilling to find a first clue in an ancient book that leads to more clues buried throughout the home and eventually to the cache.

For usage on a family visit to a nearby park or picnic spot, older children can be given their own metal detector. Have a family strategy to "go after it" and give your children some books and periodicals when they are old enough with tales of "actual" treasures that have been lost or hidden nearby. We all know that being "idle" can lead to some "worse than acceptable" activities, so once they catch the treasure seeking bug, you'll notice that they'll be much more engaged in planning and preparing for the next expedition. Yet, finding hidden or lost treasures is not the only purpose of treasure hunting. Gold panning (or nugget shooting, or sniping, or mossing, or sluicing, or high banking, or dredging), bottle hunting, rock hounding, or even just wandering through abandoned towns can pique an interest in "the hunt" that can last a lifetime.

How do you begin? Demonstrate your own interest. Have a few books lying around that you're reading with tales and activities related to treasure hunting in them. Inquire of them if they are aware of any local "treasures." Identify whether their buddies have ever mentioned it. To see if they reach the same conclusions as you after reading the story, ask them to do likewise. Begin making plans to look for it yourself, and include them in the process. The more curiosity you demonstrate, the more probable it is that they will develop interest on their own. That is the concept.

Encourage them to create their own interest and motivation to "go for it." Make your first adventure one they will actually remember as a "good time," even if it's only stopping for burgers and shakes on the way home. Discuss "the next time" and what you'll do differently to improve your relationship. create some eagerness for the "next journey." In all of its forms, treasure hunting is a fantastic family activity that may create lifelong memories. And who knows? Maybe you're nurturing the next Mel Fischer, who will unearth a long-lost treasure trove of unfathomable riches. There is no time like the present to get going!

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It's So Tempting To Give Up To It

The Gracious Mistress of the Parsonage told me at the beginning of the week that she and a few of her friends would be going thrift store shopping on Thursday.

Not understanding where she was going with this, I smiled and nodded my head.

"You must now take care of your meal, she replied. You you believe you can accomplish that?"

I struggled to keep my internal smile from showing on my face since it was so strong.

"Oh, I think I can handle that, I said as calmly as I could. No issue."

That allowed me to eat my lunch whenever I pleased. My wife is very rigid about following the law.

Everything must be completed at a specific time and in a specific manner.

Do you recall what's going to happen today, the gracious mistress of the parsonage asked on Thursday morning.

Did I recall? How on earth could I possibly forget?

If I recall well, you and a few of your pals are going thrift store shopping, I added as I stared sombrely at her.

Are you certain you can purchase your own lunch? she asked while grinning.

I continued to try to conceal the giddy smile within and responded, "I'll be able to handle.

When she drove out of the driveway and into the sunset, I led her to the door and waved joyfully.

I mentally prepared for this situation. To get me through the day, I intended to visit McDonald's and purchase a large quantity of double cheeseburgers, French fries, and milkshakes.

Apple Fritters, one of my favourite sweets, are available at McDonald's. Today was different, so even though I'm not allowed to take them home, I chose to purchase two Apple Fritters.

I went to McDonald's right before noon and bought my opulent lunch, complete with Apple Fritters.

I couldn't wait to get home and enjoy a lunch that would make my wife unhappy. I'm going to have the fun of my life at lunch, though, because she isn't here and I'm not telling her. particularly those mouthwatering Apple Fritters.

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