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Attempting to articulate a concern I have in the simplest way possible

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The aftermath:

Finn x shrimpo anyone?

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I love terrible wiki edits

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chat hear me out on this awesome rairpair

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inspired because of @eyedruple's reblog

^ og pic

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Alright, seriously. I cannot upload another post here if it isn't "Let's talk about Shrimpo."

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my only kind of problematic alter thing is that i really, REALLY want to tell our host's boyfriend to go fuck himself and break up with him.

they've been friends for years before they started dating (even pre syscovery), and the person knows our host is part of a system for almost an year now, but he hasn't done ANY kind of research about DID like ever. not to accommodate his friend, nor his boyfriend now that they're dating.

he doesn't even know the bare minimum, doesn't care to ask about our system, basically ignores it until he's forced to face it (aka when another alter besides the host is fronting). then, when that happens, he starts messaging us less and doesn't seem to want to get to know the alter who's fronting at all, it's like he really only cares about the host.

this whole thing is making all of us really uncomfortable (even the host is getting a little bothered by the person's lack of respect for us) but me specifically? i'm mad. i hate this guy, i don't think he's doing our host any good, and i want to tell him in great detail how he's a fucking failure as both a boyfriend and a best friend and he doesn't deserve the host at ALL, but i can't. the host doesn't want me to, and everyone in the system seems to agree that i'd be way too rude and just fuck up their friendship entirely, instead of giving the guy a chance to learn. i do not think he deserves any chances whatsoever but alright whatever ya'll say

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tommy finally saying that the dsmp would be nothing without him oh we’re in the good timeline 🙏

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hi guys

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Shout out to all the kids who always picked shape-shifting as their hypothetical power growing up and assumed it was for gender affirmation but now realize it was also a plurality thing.

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Shout out to people with Complex Dissociative Disorders (parents edition):

If your parents genuinely changed and improved overtime

If your parents were absent when you were a kid because they were sick / ill / working / otherwise indisposed

If your parents were not your abusers

If your parents would have acted differently if they knew you were being abused

If your parents didn't have the resources or knowledge to help / understand you

If your parents were loving and yet still neglectful

If your parents inadvertently invalidated / didn't believe you, but now do

If your parents weren't your primary caregivers when the abuse happend

If you weren't abused at all and your trauma was medical / environmental / etc

Had emotionally and physically present parents but you still had disorganized attachment with them as a kid because of your delusions / paranoia / etc.

If your parents regret how they treated you

If your parents loved and love you but acted the way they did because of substances / mental illness

If your parents are not completely bad people, or bad people at all

If you still get along with your parents regardless of what they did

If you ever invalidated your own traumatic childhood experiences because your parents were "too nice"

Your trauma is not less valid if you get along with your parents today. Sure, you needed disorganized attachment to your primary caregivers as a kid to develop a CDD. But that can take plenty of formes, and they don't all include your parents being monsters.

Edit: any other emotions regarding your parents are also valid and okay, and I couldn't mean that more. Childhood trauma survivors go through so many rough emotions, and self-invalidation is sadly way too common. Your feelings are a direct result of what happened and that makes them normal.

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System culture is: learning by trial and error when the host's cats act totally differently depending on which of us main fronters go on rotate. Seriously, that fuzzy little baby man knows exactly when his daddy is around or not. I have a favorite cat but it's not him and she knows when it's just me fronting.

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guess we're not 3 guys

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Plurality

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Being a system is so weird like my mummy and daddy didn't like me so now I'm sans the skeleton

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sys culture is hating thoes videos on yt about “this person faked DID” and we have no proof other than “they have a lot of alters” or “they have hazbin hotel alters” like genuinely those videos piss us off especially by a certain YouTuber because YouTube keeps suggesting him to us because how many DID faking videos he’s made (we watch a lot of system content and apparently you think that means we want his videos which we don’t)

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