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Ok, I say this not as a feedist but an American, our whole deal as Americans should be that we have incredible food and like to party. Projecting America as like strong and tough and manly sucks ass and everyone outside of the US hates it. We should lean into being the place that has the best burgers, bbq, a melting pot of incredible food, and knowing how to have a good time. Every region of the US has a different way of letting loose and I think that’s one of our best qualities, and something we should embrace. Everyone likes someone who is a great hang and brings great food. That could be us, but instead we’re doing evil empire shit.

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damn people rly hate type 2 diabetics don't they

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btw if you’re fat and your partner doesn’t love you wholeheartedly, if they’re attracted to you “despite” your body, if they avoid touching you, if they look away from certain parts of you, you’re allowed to break up with that person. look at me. you can do better. you are not unloveable and you don’t have to settle i fucking promise.

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More money = fatter feedees. Not sure why people aren’t getting that.

Thank you for this! It’s 100% true! My OF is absolutely how I feed myself. It allows us to keep doing what we do, it’s how we make a living! I’m single, I do not have handouts. I post weekly and go live every Friday in order to pay my bills. This is our livelihood. We are running a small business. Paying for porn allows sex workers to keep creating content for your sexual pleasure.

I think it’s only fair to pay the feedees/fats that help you out with your sexual pleasure, ESPECIALLY right now. We aren’t losing weight during a time when it’s very popular to do so. Thin is in. Fat is out. We don’t have places to shop. We are discriminated against. We are being scrutinized more than ever because weight loss drugs exist. Most importantly, ppl in this community would be LOST without feedee sex workers. These dudes wouldn’t be able to masturbate 10 times a day or fuck their wives without the feedees they obsess over.

‼️You pay for groceries, your Spotify subscription, your medication, your rent, PAY FOR YOUR PORN‼️

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In the era of ozempic, fatphobia, and weight loss…you better be subscribing your fats/gainers/stuffers/f**dees (I can’t believe I’m censoring this, fuck tumblr) content!!

You should be on your hands and knees thanking us for our existence!!! Especially since we’ve lost a few due to the time we’re in rn. Being a f**dee doesn’t mean you don’t feel societal pressure to lose weight.

SUB TO UR FUCKING F**DIST CONTENT CREATORS THAT AREN’T SUBMITTING TO THE SOCIETAL PRESSURES OF WEIGHT LOSS OR BEING THIN. WE ARE DOING THE LORDS WORK AROUND HERE AND I EXPECT TO BE TREATED LIKE IT!!!

LIFE IS HARD, PAY US FOR THE WORK WE ARE DOING!!! YOU COULDN’T GET UR DICK UP WITHOUT US!!

(Feel free to reblog this with links to your sites. We deserve to make a living doing what we do best, providing this community with the masturbation material they would wither away without.)

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One of the best things I think you can do, feedist or not, is learn how to cook. Not just to get a few recipes under your belt but to learn technique, how flavors go together, how to improvise, and what to look for in your ingredients. Cooking/baking for people is one of the ways I express my love for those around me, and there is something really special about showing someone you understand them and that you’re there for them through food.

Sharing food is such an ingrained part of life that it transcends language barriers and even species. Human and animal alike appreciate the gesture of a shared meal. It is my favorite form of artistic expression, it binds people closer together and builds community, and nothing really shows people you care about them quite like cooking them a dish that you clearly put effort into.

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The Fat Protestor

by @sparklejams and @jordallenhall

For everyone showing up to protest the US government funding of a genocide -- be loud, be safe. Your body is a force. If you are able, use it.

Police identify people by body type/clothing. Be aware (as if you could possibly forget) that you don't have the privilege of blending into the crowd.

Be aware that fatmisic police protocol and infrastructure can endanger your life during arrest.

Let this inform the risk that you take.

If you get arrested: raise hell about being cuffed with your hands in front of your body.

Mid-fat, super-fat, and infinifat people are especially at risk of positional asphyxia when cuffed with their arms behind them. Be especially vocal about any stress position where your knees are raised (sitting on a low police van bench, for instance).

Police typically don't listen to folks when concern is expressed over being cuffed in the back -- be loud. Verse yourself and your community in de-arresting practice. These risks are not commonly known, though are present not only for fat people, but also those with asthma and other breathing difficulties.

Make sure the people you are with are informed of these risks before protesting.

Direct action is sweaty. Prepare against crease rashes (yep - it's a normal self care maintenance thing if you have skin rolls/folds. It's normal. It's common. It's nothing to be ashamed about.) by drying with paper towels, using antiperspirant or cornstarch under your breasts/belly. When you get home, shower and treat with a wound cleanser (shoutout bactine spray) or a tea tree oil balm or soap as needed.

Our fat bodies are magnificent contributions at protests. Our fat bodies take more effort to move - think of all the wonderful ways we can use this to our advantage at a protest or direct action. We can block pathways and hold precious land with our fat bodies. We can shield and protect precious people with our fat bodies.

Bring:

• Change of socks. If you get caught in the rain or doused with water, or even if you sweat through your socks - walking around in wet socks will cause bad blistering.

• Light first aid/bandaids

• Water, snacks, meds

• A physical copy of your emergency contact in case of arrest

Try to go with other fat people. Comrades in normative bodies may not always consider your body and what is safe for you - so make sure you loudly advocate for yourself and your needs within whatever group you are with.

Stay cool. Take breaks. Sit or stop when you need to. Try to be hyper-mindful of getting overheated.

In case of hospitalization:

• Make a packet containing all medical info, advance directives, and emergency contacts. Put it in a clear sleeve with a humanizing photo of you with loved ones at the front.

• Learn more about how to make a Connection Kit and humanize yourself to healthcare workers in the Know Your Rights Guide on nobodyisdisposable.org

Remember that there is so much to do beyond the front lines.

• Provide jail support (wait to greet released protesters with water, snacks, hugs, and rides home).

• Provide your home as a central prep and recovery space before/after.

• Stay near the action and offer your car as a mobile phone charging station.

• Provide childcare.

• Drop off supplies.

Honor your body as a resource for civil disobedience. Center your needs.

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the wheelchair situation for fat disabled people is bleak and fucked

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Idk i can't fuck with queers who consider being a thief or a whore or a druggie a bad thing. Like babe if you made it this far within the current structures of American oppression without somehow actively rejecting both law & custom I'm just assuming you'd be a volunteer fed in a heartbeat

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My lukewarm feedist take is every feeder should know how to cook (I mean, everyone should know how to cook period), but like cook well. Know what your feedee likes and what they don't like, try new stuff, do what the feedee wants. Idk. Whenever I see comments like "you should drink 8 glasses of cream and down a pound of butter" My first thought it always "their ass can't cook"

Idk. I was in therapy today and we were talking about pleasure and hedonism, between non-sexual pleasure and sexual pleasure, and it brought me back to when I was in Italy and the best parts of the trip there was all of the food. Unironically, it made me fall in love with the country

The idea of a feedee basically being a balloon full of fattening cream is hot, but I'd rather have a home-cooked meal. Idk it feels a lot more personal to me and that to me is a big part of the experience.

THAT BEING SAID, it does take time and money to do that kind of stuff, not everyone - a lot of people don't - have the luxury to do a hearty, home-cooked meal day in and day out.

THAT ALSO BEING SAID, If you want to keep your feedees well fed, drop a few bucks to them if and when you can!!

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i bring a sort of "it doesnt matter if youre into porn or not, getting elitist and mad at people for being horny aligns you with the agenda of the alt right" vibe to the conversation that some ppl dont like

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If T makes you gain weight and E and antidepressants do it too, and so does enjoying good food and not being hungry all the time, then perhaps maybe sometimes joy & weight gain come hand in hand and that's good

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can we kill the idea that gaining is easy? obviously in kink scenarios it hot to pretend that all that weight slipped on without trying but fr I see so many feedees of all sizes work so hard on gaining that deserve to be recognised and it would do us all good to have realistic understandings of the time and effort put in to build the bodies we find so hot!

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This is so fucking funny