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Also to anyone out there who has an f/o of someone from Kc media or has a kinsona of a character they were really attached to I think you're really awesome and I still love you (platonically)

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F/O kissing your tummy.

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(waiter! waiter! another self indulgent selfship imagine please!!)

Imagine your f/o with your plushies. Imagine them handling and holding them. Imagine them calling them by the little names you give them.

If your f/o is more serious and tough, imagine them getting more caring and soft holding them. Imagine them letting their softer side show cause of your plushies.

Ok now I really need you to imagine finding them holding one of your plushies in their sleep. Maybe they just needed something soft to hold, maybe the plush has your scent on it.

DNI PR0 SHIPPERS/C0M SHIPPERS

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how i sleep knowing my f/o respects my boundaries and hates the people that wronged me

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“I can fix them!” “I’ll can make them worse!!”

Well I CAN LOVE HIM HOW HE IS. He’s perfect already, he’s a lil fucked up. sure. but he’s still perfect.

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Self shippers with self-esteem issues and deep seeded self worth issues that make it hard for you to believe that your f/o truly loves you, I see you and I love you.

Having these issues doesn't mean you're hard to love or that you're a burden to your f/o. That's what they're here for. They want you and every piece of you, even if you think its too much to handle. They love you, and they will remind you everyday if that's what you need.

Using our f/os to punish ourselves or inflict emotional self harm is a hard habit to break and it may feel like its deserved, but its not. Your f/o doesn't want that. They want to be a light in the dark for you. Please remember when your brain is being cruel to you, your f/o wouldn't say or do those things.

They love you. Now and forever. 🧡

[proship dni]

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in another universe your f/o selfships with you

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gentle reminder that “gay panic” is not a cutesy way of describing a gay character freaking out over another character or their sexuality. gay panic is a legal defense tactic used in the US until very recently to get homophobes out of facing consequences for killing or assaulting queer people. it is neither cute nor funny.

if you didn’t know this, that’s ok, now you do! proceed accordingly.

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If he's so evil and heartless, why is he cuddling with me oh so gently and kissing me?

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If he's so evil and heartless, why is he cuddling with me oh so gently and kissing me?

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If he's so evil and heartless, why is he cuddling with me oh so gently and kissing me?

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If he's so evil and heartless, why is he cuddling with me oh so gently and kissing me?

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If he's so evil and heartless, why is he cuddling with me oh so gently and kissing me?

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♡ a little something for those with Villain F/Os ♡

Villain F/O who yells at your bully/abuser being shitty towards you then apologizing for yelling in front of you Villain F/O actually getting violent and punching your bully/abuser and apologizing that you had to see that Villain F/O humiliating your bully/abuser to the point your bully/abuser crumbles like a coward. Villain F/O who's not afraid to make your bully/abuser feel small and insignificant Villain F/O who's definitely not afraid to absolutely ruin your bully/abuser's life for all that they've done to you. Villain F/O who cares about you so much, that they will happily tear your bully/abuser apart just to make you happy again

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This is to every selfshipper who may feel obliged to stay with an f/o or continue your relationship for one reason or another, even if you aren’t enjoying it.

You can take a break. You can walk away from your relationship. You can break up, divorce, whatever. You can find new f/os and selfship with them. It is better to take a break or to end a relationship or put a pause to a relationship than to risk burnout by continuing it. Doing those things will not decrease the value of the relationship you have/had with your f/o. And if the time comes, if you want to start selfshipping with that f/o again, they and this community will welcome the relationship back with love.

proship dni

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Imagine getting scary dog privilege from being with your F/O! Whether it's because they outright look dangerous, or they have a notorious reputation that surrounds them, imagine the high feeling you'd get walking next to them. Imagine nobody ever daring to mess with you, because how could they, with your F/O always by your side. Imagine a crowd separating to allow you both to walk through, your F/O's arm over your shoulder. If someone ever did dare to give you a hard time, the moment your F/O walked up to your side, the person would no doubt begin falling all over themselves to apologize and run off. Just scary dog privilege stuff!!

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Imagine making sure your f/o rests.

Maybe not even specifically going to bed, because often that’s easier said than done. It can be as small as bringing them a hot drink and making sure they take a five minute break from work to drink it with you. If you’re able to, help them out with whatever work or activity they just have to finish. Buying them decaf tea and coffee so it’s easier to get to sleep without sacrificing routine. Just the little things that help so much.

(for any kind of f/o)

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