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A group of rough looking boys walked past me today and all I heard of their conversation was “he’s got that anxiety disorder bro so I went with him so he’d be more comfortable” and it made me realise the world isn’t all that bad

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how to radically improve ur experience on tumblr.com:

mercilessly block all Fuckers. do not reply to them, do not “justify” blocking them. the goal is to get them out of ur life, not “win” a conflict

unfollow anyone who isnt actively improving ur quality of life. u dont owe the people u follow ur attention. if they arent producing content/posts that your benefit from in some way, u dont have to stick around. its not personal.

u dont have to care at maximum capacity about everything. ppl like to signal boost and spread awareness and thats great, but its ok to just not have the energy to do that. u dont have to feel guilty about using ur blog for YOUR purposes. thats what its for

if u need to, turn anon off. theres no shame in that. it works.

if someone is raising a concern with you or reacting critically to something youve said or done, listen to them with empathy rather than getting angry. not everyone is trying to start a fight when they call u out on doing something hurtful, and if u react angrily on a knee-jerk reaction to someone who was just trying to help, ur gonna look like an asshat

if u feel like ur about to look like an asshat, its advisable to get up and do something else for a while until youve cooled down and can think rationally. u dont have to reply right away

 “tone” is pretty subjective, so try not to fight with people over it

u dont have to fight with every motherfucker who says some ignorant or passive aggressive shit on ur posts. just block them. they can be wrong all by themselves.

just block them

abuse the block function

it is there for u to use it

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I understand that nobody understands me, but I can’t be someone I’m not.

Audrey Tautou (via wordsnquotes)

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the phrase “curiosity killed the cat” is actually not the full phrase it actually is “curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back” so don’t let anyone tell you not to be a curious little baby okay go and be interested in the world uwu

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The Houses When They Have a Crush

Hufflepuff: Tries to figure out their likes and dislikes

Gryffindor: Some hardcore flirting

Slytherin: Lowkey seduces them

Ravenclaw: Sweats nervously and vehemently tries not to ask them what fandom they’re in

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Podcasts are millennials’ AM radio. We used to think it was so boring our parents listened to talk radio, now we are grown up and listen to a modern variation of it.

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I never realized what a big deal that was. How amazing it is to find someone who wants to hear about all the things that go on in your head.

Nina LaCour, Hold Still (via wordsnquotes)

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If you think about it, when somebody says hold your horses, they’re telling you to be stable

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Only introverts could hate themselves for going to a social event and hate themselves for not going to a social event.

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Ten years from now, make sure you can say that you chose your life, you didn’t settle for it.

Mandy Hale  (via wordsnquotes)

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My friend made this for gift wrap. How awesome is that? He's even managed to fit "this machine pwns n00bs" on the guitar! He didn't forget to be awesome 😎 DFTBA!

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I was an observer. I liked to listen rather than openly express myself. This trait is something that I’ve retained over the years.

Giorgio Armani (via stuffgurlswant)