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Attention ASBs: It's That Time of Year Again!!

It's the end of summer, and every good schoolboy, and every naughty one too, knows what that means! 

For all you ASBs, Headmasters, Coaches, and other school-based age-players out there, now's a good time to stock up on your school supplies.  If you lived where I do, you'd also be starting your first day of school here (if adults were allowed to be in adult schoolhouses for ASB play). Yup, today's the first day of school.

If you need a traditional American school paddle, Amazon sells the cheapest paddles on the planet!

If you're into frat hazings, there's no time like the present to find yourself a new frat paddle at PaddleTramps. 

If you're a headmaster, there are canes available at the best prices, check out Cane-iac today!  

If your a stickler for tradition and want to use a tawse on boy's hands or bottoms, here's where you can get a few: and gosh are they expensive! 

May all your back to school needs get met before "school" starts!

Big thanks to Copper for his artwork and the permission from him directly to repost it here.

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The Hairbrush as Dance Instructor

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In today's post...we're going to revisit the Spanking dance that can ensue when a boy is paddled soundly. While I'm not aware of any study that's been done on this, a deep examination of many Spanking videos confirms, that done properly, a boy's legs will respond almost automatically and without effort when a Spanking Stick is applied across his backside in the right way. 

This presupposes that there's a wrong way, but I'm not really implying that. I think that when this happens, however, something very specific and important is happening.

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The Venn Diagram of the Spanking Community

The World of Spanking

by Academic Spanking, M.Sc.*  

"There is a misconception that having "just" a spanking fetish is simply fixating on a single branch of the BDSM tree when in reality our fetish encompasses a vast and diverse collection of sub-disciplines that can provide as much variety and choice as the rest of BDSM."

For me, Academic Spankin's Venn diagram is helpful but doesn't show all the various intersections that there can be. For me, Roleplay or age play Spankings usually come hand-in-hand with Disciplinary Spankings, Punishment Spanking, Corrective Spankings, and Maintenance Spankings. For my Venn diagram, the center on the left would be Roleplay Spanking and MS, PS, and DS and CS would all touch with the same connections that DC, PS, and CS already have.

It's funny how this Venn diagram can vary depending on who you are. Thanks to Academic Spankin for the insights here!

*originally posted by Academic Spanking to Twitter Jun 21, 2022

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A boy's-Eyed View

Cornertime Confidential was on Twitter and our friend VellRuss posted this pic below*. It so well-showcased an adult boy problem. You spend all that time organizing your life so that you do get a Spanking, only to find most of your time looking at the carpet and Daddy's ankle or shoe.  If you are truly in the moment, you squirm and kick to get away. Or you put your hand in front of your behind or maybe even try looking up to get a better vantage point. 

But speaking for myself, this pic above seems to be the sum total of my view into what the Spankings I get look like. I was tweeting with VellRuss about this and told him how this was a pic I've not really seen before, despite knowing what it was immediately! 

He tweeted back:

Yeah, these are rare, because face it, when you’re being threatened with a Spanking or go over your partner’s knee, your first instinct isn’t exactly “Hey let me snap a pic of this”. I have no idea what made me back then...

...that actually is me and my Daddy now I also remember why I took it. He usually never wears a suit but this was in a hotel room when we were at a family party… and I thought wow it feels a little different and wanted to save that feeling. Glad I did, lol

Another tweeter, Werner, posted saying, "It's a very hot pic because it suggests more than it shows and because most Spanking pics are more from the Spanker's point of view."

boys like us see this

One of the things that pics and vids online do a lot of is convey a sense that Spankings involved the unattainable: you have to be super hot, super young, super Daddy, super Masculine, super bottom. These are not the true representations of a life filled with Spankings. This blog is as guilty as most. We post far too many pics of the perfect Daddys, the perfect boys, the perfect Spankings. But in truth, these things don't exist in a vacuum.

In one of my first interviews with boyadam, I met what I'd consider to be the perfect boy. But wow did he have a hell of a time finding the perfect Daddy. It just isn't that easy. And rest assured, he is super super cute and boyish, and exciting. We were Spanked together at the DC Spanking party we wrote about years ago.

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Spanking Community Celebrations Today

It's International Spanking Day!

by Justin

Taken from the Justin and Trevor blog, here's their post about this important day for the CP community.

August 8 is recognized as International Consensual Spanking Day.  We hope that you all find a pleasant - or painfully pleasant - way to enjoy the 24th annual celebration of this day!  

But what are the origins of this most fitting day?  In our book, Bad Lads, Strict Sirs, and the World of Adult Male Spanking, we noted that “The origins of this date are unknown” (page 258).  Happily, we have now discovered the exact history for International Consensual Spanking Day!  It took some online searching and cross-referencing of multiple links, but here we go…

In March of 2005, a Spanish-language blog titled “Azotes y Nalgadas” was launched.  For those interested in linguistics, the translation of “nalgadas” is, essentially, “spanking,” derived from “nalgas” as the Spanish word for buttocks.  “Azotes” is a bit more broad, as it can signify the activity of spanking, whipping, lashing, or slapping (of the face or bottom), as well as implements such as a whip or cat-o’-nine-tails, all depending on context and regional usages; this is derived from the verb “azotar,” which means to whip, flog, or physically punish.  (For those who studied Spanish as a second language and struggled with the subjunctive mood, here’s a subjunctive conjugation of “azotar” that you might enjoy:  “Quiero que me azotes,” meaning “I want you to spank me”).  Perhaps a future blog will explore spanking in multiple languages, but let’s return to our story.

The first post to the “Azotes y Nalgadas” blog noted that there were many English-language blogs about spanking, but that it would be the first in Spanish to focus exclusively on erotic spanking, or, in the author’s words, “whatever you want to call our delicious practice.”

On July 24, 2006, blog author Fer noted that July 24 was recognized as the International Day of BDSM (because when written as 24/7, the month/date format recognized in many countries outside of the United States, it signifies 24/7 Domination and submission).  This led Fer to observe that “it is very positive that the different ways of living and enjoying sexuality…are designating special days and writing their collective history.”  And, it led Fer to wonder, “Will there ever be a spanking day?  It would have to be with very round numbers that look like buttocks.”

Several readers commented on the blog post.  On August 5, 2006, Ana K. replied with the following:  “I propose as spanking day 06/06 or 08/08, that is, June 6 or August 8 ... all round days, especially August 8, as the 8 looks like a side butt, right?”  Another poster agreed with the August 8 recommendation, even speculating that “08/08/08 will be a great spanking day” (and we hope it was for you!).

Fer took these comments to heart, and on August 7, 2006, proposed moving forward with the date, soliciting comments from Blog followers.  There was support for doing so.  One poster playfully asked, “How do we celebrate?  What a silly question, isn't it?”  Another observed that it allows the spanking community to “differentiate ourselves from BDSM.”

The following year, Ana K. offered her own blog post on August 3, 2007, reiterating the day’s history and suggesting the following:

“Now, how each person celebrates it is up to the imagination and desire of each spanker.  Perhaps the lovers of disciplinary spanking will scold more than ever and keep trying to offer correction by means of spankings and punishments for each one of their “students,” sending them to the corner, putting them on their knees, or sending them to stand with their butts on display to spank them properly. Those who like erotic spanking will look for a way to find the perfect reason to to spank their spankee properly and to be able to finish the session with the best sex. I also know more than one spanker who does not need a reason to spank their spankee, because they do it as a way to show their affection, their love for the other person, so that the spanking becomes something enjoyable and joyful for both of them. So, dear friends, I invite you to enjoy a day of spanking, each one in his own way. Have a wonderful time…”

Indeed, here’s to us all having as wonderful a time as we can.  If you aren’t able to arrange an actual spanking, reach out to a fellow spanko - and if you know a spanko who may be unspanked today, reach out to him, and let’s remind ourselves of how wonderful our kink and our community can be!

Thanks to Fer and Ana K., wherever you may be!

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It's National Underpants Day here in America!

We thought we'd celebrate with some facts and figures to get you excited!

Underwear By The Numbers:

215 — the record for the most pairs of underwear worn by 10-year-old Jack Singer in 2010.*

9% — the percentage of men in America who own underwear that is at least 10 years old.

1,613 — the number of underwear stolen by Greg Flaherty in 1935.

1935 — the year when men’s briefs were invented.

*In June 2010, 10‑year‑old Jack Singer of Warwick, New York set a record by putting on 215 pairs of underwear at once during the course of about 18 minutes. He broke the previous record of 200 pairs, and at the end the underwear weighed over 13 kg (about 30 lbs) YouTube+11worldrecordacademy.com+11goldenbookofworldrecords.com+11.

Key details:

The event took place on June 18, 2010 (he celebrated his 10th birthday that day) worldrecordacademy.comwww.advertisernewsnorth.com.

When he reached around 195 pairs, his legs went numb and he had to lie down, but his parents helped him keep going for the final sets ABC7 Los Angeles+2www.advertisernewsnorth.com+2.

It was done as part of a birthday party fundraiser, with guests asked to bring donations for a wounded U.S. Marine instead of gifts www.advertisernewsnorth.comGIGAZINE.

Thus, the number 215 refers to Jack Singer’s Guinness‑style record for most pairs of underwear ever worn by a person under 18, achieved in mid‑June 2010.

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In today’s post, we have modified a M/f Spanking post from Substack  publisher “Spanking Theatre” for the Cornertime Confidential reader. Sometimes there are helpful tips straight men can provide Daddys and boy in M/m relationships that integrate Spankings. In today’s post, Spanking Theatre helps reenvision the use of The Hairbrush.

See what you think. Are there elements here that might work well for the next Old-Fashioned Hairbrush Spanking you administer?

The Hairbrush Brings Discipline but Comfort Too*

 by guest blogger, Spanking Theatre

I think it’s time I taught you “The Proper Way to Use The Hairbrush.”

When it becomes necessary to smack your boy’s bare bottom, one mustn’t forget to actually brush the boy’s hair too. Before you Spank, and afterwards, use The Hairbrush for it’s original purpose.

Tell him in your most polite, yet most unequivocal tone: “Fetch The Hairbrush." Then remind him to leave his underpants on.

As you wait on The Spanking Chair, your boy should be obediently undressing and stowing his neatly folded clothes in the drawer where The Hairbrush “lives.”

Handing over The Hairbrush to you is an act of compliance and respect and accept his gift of submission with appreciation and grace. Invite him to seat his soo-to-be sore bottom on your welcoming lap, so his feet dangle, adorably, just above the floor. Brush his hair out of his face or neatly from the top of his head down, pull The Hairbrush that is about to paddle his bottom through his hair

Gently push his legs apart with your other hand. Cover the intimate region just revealed. And continue to brush his hair. This will help him feel vulnerable and helpless.

Sweep through his hair, with slow strokes. Hold him tight. Reassure him he’s your precious treasure. And tell him why The Hairbrush is going to be used on his bare behind.

As you wait on The Spanking Chair, your boy should be obediently undressing and stowing his neatly folded clothes...in the drawer where The Hairbrush “lives.”

Cup his testicles or wrap your hand under his un-Spanked rump cheeks. Remind him The Hairbrush in your other hand isn't just for combing hair. Wait for his response. Does he shiver a little? Did he cringe? Does he ask, "Daddy, what do you mean?" Continue to brush, touch, and pat. No need to respond verbally.

Caress until you can feel his acceptance, washing over him like a rising tide, until his scalp and all his whole body is tingling. And brush his hair gain. Playfully tap The Hairbrush against his bottom to let him know it’s time to stand up.

Now it’s time to bend over your knee. For this part, you might want to stand up and put your whole foot on The Spanking Chair and then tip him right over with his fanny high in the air. If you feel you aren’t strong enough to do that safely, consider just taking your boy’s wrist and crane him over your lap as you sit on The Spanking Chair.

Take Your boy’s Wrist and Crane him OverYour Lap As You Sit on The Spanking Chair.

Time for the other side of The Hairbrush to serve it’s important purpose. Rub its cool flatness over his expectant cheeks. And smack his behind firmly. 

Remind him, this is what happens to naughty boys. And smack his bottom again.

Cover his rumpus and fill the room with repeatedly firm slaps — pause to let a silence fall away. And then begin The Spanking again. 

The cool hard surface of The Hairbrush will now be getting hotter against his pliant stinging rurmpus. And he’ll feel that. Smack again. If sexual touching is allowed between you two, pull his pink pert cheeks apart, and witness just how excited your strictness makes him. And smack his bottom again.

Whisper into his ear to check in to make sure you can go farther and really blister his bottom now. Make him yearn again for the intimate grip of your firm hand on his bottom. And if he’s begging for you to be his Daddy with The Hairbrush, smack his heinie again and again so you don’t have to do this again for some time.

Smack his bottom until his squirming ceases.

Smack his rumpus until his torso falls limp.

Smack his behind until his mind goes clear.

Squirming → Falling limp → Clearing his mind

Imagine, a simple, ordinary Hairbrush did all that in the time you had together.

When you are ready, pat his head, run your fingers through his hair, using the hand that once gently rubbed his fanny before you had to Spank him. Such a sore red bottom, you might think. Maybe you want to consider voicing that, if your boy is responsive to Daddy/boy talk like that.

“Such a sore, red bottom you have now.”

Depending on the age that your boy presents as, you might consider speaking to him like a little boy or a ‘tween boy: “Well, by the look of your fanny, Mister Hairbrush sure looks like he was pretty angry. Do you intend to make him angry again?” Or “This Hairbrush must be wondering if you intend to do that again. I know I'm wondering. Do you think you can behave now for Mister Hairbrush now?”

 “Maybe you should apologize for having to get a Spanking.”

You may be very proud, too, if he took his Spanking well. Or pleased with his responses. This might be a good time to sit him on your lap and hug your whimpering, sore-bottomed boy.

Alternatively, you may not be happy with how he took his Spanking, and you might say so. Share your disappointment and ask him what you should do about that. He’s unlikely to provide you the answer you want to hear, so you may have to just act in a way that you see fit. Maybe you’ll have to smack his bottom with The Hairbrush again. Or maybe you’ll have to send him to The Corner to think about why everyone in the room can see his red, raw bottom sticking out from where the two walls meet. Or maybe you can have him write lines, so he remembers not to do what he did during his Spanking.

“I will not put my hands in the way next time Daddy paddles me with The Hairbrush.” Have your boy write that 50 times, and he sure won’t forget it the next time.

Once you’ve decided the Disciplining is done, have him sit on your lap, so you feel the heat of his stinging cheeks burning against your own thighs. Brush his hair, and with gentle praise, let him know just how special you think he is. Maybe tell him how hot his bottom is on your lap. That's both embarrassing, and very true all at the same time, and he should know that.

Part his legs wide and make him crave your loving touch. Resume brushing his hair. After all, that’s also what The Hairbrush is ...ahem, actually...for.

His mind will eventually calm, and the brushing can make everything better again without saying a word. 

The Hairbrush brings Discipline but comfort too. Just like you.

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"Double Dash" is the word of the day! They are "dashing!" Such great condition those briefs are in!

Happy tighty whities Tuesday! Do these old school JC Penney briefs look "dash-ing"?

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Mr. Aftercare Speaks: The Art and Practice of Aftercare

On RedSpankScott's exceptional podcast, DudesSpankinDudes, he interviewed a leading figure in the Bad Ass Weekend event, Bruce. 

[Sidenote: We here at Cornertime Confidential assume and trust you all know about this incredible resource in the Spanking Community, but DudesSpankingDudes needs to be on your phone's notifications list. Don't miss a single episode!]

At any rate, within the Spanking Community, Aftercare is often one of the most undervalued yet essential parts of a adult boy/Daddy playtime. Bruce—also known as “Mr. Aftercare”—has become a trusted figure, ensuring bottoms are both physically and emotionally supported after intense Spankings. 

In a candid interview, Bruce shared with Scott his insights, best practices, and evolving community norms surrounding Aftercare, emphasizing its importance, its negotiable nature, and the tools that make it both restorative and intimate.

Here are some of the highlights of Bruce’s experience and philosophy, focusing on the best practices and takeaways he offers for Tops, bottoms, and switches who are navigating the essential terrain of post-Spanking care.

1. How Bruce Became "Mr. Aftercare"

Bruce’s journey into Aftercare began organically through events like Bad Ass Weekend (BAW) and Hot Seat Retreat (HSR), where he noticed a recurring need: many bottoms—especially those in group play scenes—lacked a designated Top to provide Aftercare. Bruce offered himself as a neutral, safe, and supportive figure to fill that void. Over time, his commitment to Aftercare blossomed into a community role, culminating in the affectionate nickname “Mr. Aftercare.”

At events, Bruce openly invites anyone in need to approach him—even if he didn’t participate in their Spanking. “I don’t have to Spank your butt to rub it,” he jokes. At gatherings, he offers clear availability and provides reassurance, especially for bottoms who may feel unsure about who to turn to after intense scenes.

2. The Physical Side of Aftercare: Healing the Body

Bruce emphasizes that the body’s response to Spanking—redness, bruising, soreness, or even broken skin—requires care just like any other physical activity. He outlines a comprehensive toolkit of products and strategies:

Bruce’s Go-To Product:

Weleda Skin Food: Rich, healing, and pleasantly scented. Bruce swears by it for soothing sore skin and reducing redness post-Spanking. It's available at Target and Amazon and has become a staple for many event-goers.

Other Effective Aftercare Products:

Aloe Vera and Coconut Oil: Natural, gentle options for reducing inflammation.

Arnica Gel/Tablets: Especially effective for bruising, whether taken before or after impact.

Witch Hazel: Helps with minor cuts or abrasions and reduces swelling.

Aquaphor, Polysporin, Neosporin: Crucial for treating skin that has broken or begun to weep from heavy play.

Large Band-Aids, Gauze, Cotton Balls: Useful for more intense sessions involving skin-breaking implements like Bathbrushes or The Cane.

Bruce stresses the importance of being prepared—both in one-on-one and group settings—and recommends having these items ready whether you’re hosting or attending a play session.

3. The Psychological Component: It’s All About Communication and Consent

While the physical side of Aftercare is tangible, the emotional and psychological support that follows a scene is equally critical—and much more nuanced.

Bruce and others in the community caution against the growing belief that Aftercare is a required responsibility of The Top. Instead, Aftercare should always be negotiated between Top and bottom, just like any part of a kink scene. 

“The Top who doesn’t provide Aftercare isn’t a bad Top,” Bruce explains. “He just might not be the right match.”

Keep in mind all players are different and their differences need to be appreciated and respected:

Some bottoms don’t want to be cuddled or praised. 

Some Tops—due to personality, neurodivergence, or asexuality—may not feel comfortable providing physical affection post-play. 

For Bruce, that’s exactly why he offers himself as an alternative source of care when a Top isn’t able or willing to provide that support.

4. Different Styles of Aftercare: From Comfort to Character Play

Bruce has observed a wide range of Aftercare styles, and believes that customizing care to the individual is the best approach. Here are some styles he discussed:

Comforting Touch: Gentle rubbing of the boy's heinie, applying Skin Food repair cream, and physical closeness.

Verbal Reassurance: Compliments, affirmations like “You took that so well.” or “You have a great bottom!” especially important in affirming power dynamics.

Role Reinforcement: For those in age play or real Discipline scenes, the dialogue continues—discussing how the bottom can “Do better next time” or “boy, you sure learned your lesson.”

Quiet Presence: Simply staying in physical proximity, keeping the person in position (e.g., over the knee, lying down on a flat surface to calm down, or standing in The Corner) and sustaining non-verbal contact.

Importantly, Bruce notes that Aftercare can also be exciting. Aftercare helps reinforce Daddy and boy roles, deepens emotional connection, and prolongs the headspace created during and after a scene. Because of the way it lengthens connection, it's incredibly hot for Daddy and boy.

5. Why Aftercare Matters (Even When You Think It Doesn’t)

Even seasoned bottoms sometimes don't realize they need Aftercare until it’s missing. Bruce has seen this shift in real time, especially at large weekend events like BAW and HSR, where Spankings can happen frequently and intensely. “When you’re getting Spanked all weekend long, you’re going to need some recovery time—physically and emotionally,” he says. Lean into Aftercare or seek out those who can help if your Dom doesn't want to provide that.

He’s sees more and more boys seeking him out each year, often those who’ve received multiple Spankings in group scenes and aren’t sure where to turn afterward.

For new players, Bruce’s advice is clear: communicate, reflect, and prepare. Know what you want, express those needs upfront, and don’t be afraid to ask for care—even from someone who didn’t just Spank you.

6. Final Takeaways from Mr. Aftercare

Aftercare is optional but important: It’s not a moral obligation; it’s a negotiated preference.

Be prepared: Stock creams, bandages, and comfort tools before your play begins.

Customize your care: Not everyone wants cuddles—find your flavor of Aftercare and communicate it.

Tops deserve care too: Emotional labor and consent go both ways.

Non-Spanking Aftercare providers can be a gift: People like Bruce fill the gap when needed, especially at group events.

"Mr. Aftercare" is more than a nickname. It's something all Men Who Spank can aspire to being. His nickname has come to define this asset in the Spanking Community: a Man who understands the importance of closing out a scene with compassion, care, and intention. Whether you’re a newbie bottom, a stoic Top, a romantic switch, or an intense role-player, Bruce reminds us that Aftercare is as individual as the scene itself—and when done right, it turns a good session into a great one.

Thinking about upping your Aftercare game? Bruce recommends starting with some Skin Food by Weleda, a clear head, and a listening heart. The rest will come with practice—and communication.

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im very naughty boy....

Naughty happens. You should definitely get out there and find yourself a Daddy or two to help deal with that situation!

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Warnings for adult boys About The Hairbrush

by jamesAZ

The Old Fashioned Hairbrush

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If you have fantasized about being Spanked with The Hairbrush, let me tell you now, be very careful what you wish for. It is not a joke or novelty, and the sting it delivers is unique.  Every smack resonates. It is an insistent sound contrasting with the rapidly reddening of my bare fanny that is being thoroughly tanned over my Dads’ knee, jeans and briefs around my ankles.

After the first swat I feel a burning sting that grows into a continuous warmth that never stops, it just heats up more and more, searing my bare bottom.  It hurts, sure, but the pain and heat are only the beginning.

The first Spank creates a gentle pink, that very quickly turns very red as The Spanking continues. The color and temperature of my bottom will last for hours – and I do mean hours – afterwards. 

The Old Fashioned Hairbrush Spanking requires trust, communication, and even love and fulfillment. The Hairbrush has a unique way of stripping away pride, or selfishness, and getting to the bottom of a naughty boys’ problems.

While not all Hairbrushes are the same, the most effective ones are have the head that is relatively small compared to its weight. The smaller surface can focus on the same spot with ease and without heavy wielding. The result is one of shock and stinging that is hard to describe, but it’s one that is particularly meaningful when The Spanking is for Punishment not just play. Although the intense heat and sting elicits promises of good behavior in a very short time, it does no real harm and my bottom heals quickly.

So you thought you wanted an Old Fashioned Hairbrush Spanking, did you?!

If your Dad or Top uses a paddle-style Hairbrush, believe you me you are getting off lightly, just wait until you get it with one of the smaller-headed ones, you will soon know the difference. The Hairbrush is such a formidable Spanking Tool that it commands authority and respect. When The Hairbrush makes contact with my bare fanny, it serves as a reminder that Rules are meant to be followed – no ifs, ands, or buts about it.

Most of all though, unlike some implements cush as a paddle, which can be become predictable, that can never be said about The Hairbrush. It can reach places and emotions like nothing else can.

How often do I get The Hairbrush? Honestly, about four or five times a year. And there are always plenty of tears while it’s happening and when my nose is put in The Corner to reflect on my behavior afterwards!

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Help Build a Memorial to Vern, the Heart of Camp Red Tails

Camp Red Tails 2025 began yesterday and it seems fitting to celebrate its survival since 1995(!) It's been a long haul and it's enjoying its 30th year! Congratulations to John, johnny, Vern and Copper for being so persistent and dogged in their determination to keep this experience alive. 

One name on that list is no longer with us: Vern. And the camp counselors wanted to share with you a new opportunity to contribute to his legacy.

In the wake and passing of our beloved friend and founder of Camp Red Tails, Vern Tice, conversations have emerged about establishing a lasting tribute to honor his memory. This tribute should embody the core principles that defined him, while respecting his deep-seated modesty—he often expressed disdain for bronze plaques or monuments displaying names .

Given Vern's deep sense of fulfillment and pride at Camp Red Tails, we believe it is only fitting for the tribute to be established at Saratoga Springs. This location would not only serve our group but also benefit various Kink-oriented community organizations—such as the 15’s and Gear Up—with which hold their recreational and celebratory events. This tribute would serve as a testament to his generosity, extending not just to Camp Red Tails, but to the entire gay & kink community.

We propose a fitting tribute to Vern through the renovation of the area currently occupied by the “S1” and “S2” structures on the Saratoga Springs Grounds. Our vision involves replacing the existing, dilapidated cabins with two entirely new structures. At the heart of this transformation will be a lovely garden area situated between the cabins, complete with seating that overlooks the grounds. This serene space will provide an ideal spot for individuals to take a break, read a book, relax, and enjoy the vibrant atmosphere of Saratoga Springs. Given Vern's passion for reading, we believe that incorporating this tranquil seating area embodies his spirit. Additionally, we will request that Saratoga Springs rename the new cabins as “Cabin V” and “Cabin T,” offering a subtle yet meaningful tribute to the man we honor.

We believe Vern would be truly excited about this project! Not only does it enhance the beauty of Saratoga Springs, but it also allows more members of the Spanking Community to enjoy the experiences and accommodations they seek. Vern was always the first to go above and beyond to ensure everyone felt supported and welcomed.

While we considered a few other projects on the Saratoga Springs grounds, we feel this one resonates most with Vern’s spirit. It's financially attainable and perfectly aligns with his lifelong mission of creating a welcoming space for kinky people to gather and have fun—doing what we do best!The staff at Saratoga Springs have been deeply touched by Vern’s kindness and loyalty over the years, especially during tough times, and they are eager to begin incorporating a lasting tribute to his legacy at the facility.With Saratoga Springs generously providing labor wherever possible, the estimated total cost of the project is $20,000. We are excited to share that we have already contributed $10,000 toward this goal and have raised another $3,675 from our first email.

Every contribution, no matter the amount, brings us closer to making this tribute to Vern a reality.

If you’d like to contribute, please visit the donation page on our website: www.campredtails.com/vern

Vern Hard At Work

If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to us via email or through the website. We are sincerely grateful for your support and involvement in this project. It’s likely that we would never have had the pleasure of knowing you and enjoying your friendship if it weren’t for Vern, and we want to honor him and all he has done for us.We look forward to seeing you at Camp Red Tails 2025.Sincerely,

John (Daddy John), John (my friend johnny), Paul, and Dan

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Daddy/boy Time: Headspace Meets Physical Responses

What sometimes happens when being a Daddy's boy can conflict with your normal male physical responses.

This post kicks off a little content provided by the good people at adult baby stories. While these posts are NOT meant to be for adult babys on my reblog, I hope that they can be appreciated by all. 

It's important to help create a Daddy/boy dynamic and that can happen in different ways. In this week's post, let's cover a couple of normal physical male responses to adult boy Spankings. 

How Good It Feels To Cry

by adult baby stories*

My face was almost dry after I stopped crying five minutes ago. Daddy had taught me how good it feels to cry. It was the first time I couldn’t hold the tears anymore. I tried, I did, but then I just had to let it go. 

I was on his knees, Daddy’s knees, when it happened. 

He was Spanking me like he never did before. After he forced me onto his lap, while the Spanking was not harsh, he asked me what I did wrong. I said nothing, then he began Spanking me harder. 

My legs were kicking, but Daddy was too strong, he held me tight. My bottom hurt. I was humiliated, but my penis got harder. It was pressing against Daddy’s thigh. He said I was naughty, talking back to him in front of our friends, and I needed to learn my place.

Daddy picked up the pace and my rumpus felt like it was on fire. My legs were kicking, my hands waving from side-to-side, and I was pleading for it to "Just Stoppppppppp!" 

I was holding my tears while my penis got so hard over Daddy’s thigh. I was suffering, but I was also sexually enjoying it. I knew it, Daddy knew it. There was no point in hiding my feelings, I stopped holding my tears and started to cry while my Daddy Spanked me. As I started crying, my penis started to ooze on Daddy.

I was crying and moaning. Daddy was Spanking me as he shouted about how bad of a boy I was. Another hurting hand on my fanny meant another thrust on Daddy’s knee. My eyes were pouring tears while my penis poured like never before. It felt like I was sliding on Daddy’s knees. It was an orgasmic feeling.

I knew I was meant to be there.

I knew it was my place. 

The best place to be is on Daddy’s knees.

First published in its original form at this link on Tumblr.

*I have made a edits throughout to apply to the Daddy/boy dynamic. 

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To catch the second post in this series on "Daddy/boy Thoughts." Join us for Domestic Discipline Celebrations Week on December 9, 2025. We'll focus on one way to introduce your boy to a new Spanking Tool.

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National Paddling Week is Here Again!

What is The Paddle and What is it for?

It's that very special time of the year again when the nation celebrates paddling. Boats or maybe kayaks. But here at Cornertime Confidential we take it a step further. We go there.

Paddling is an integral part of many Corporal Punishment community members' lives. We often find ourselves on the receiving end or the giving end of a sound Spanking delivered with the flat, usually wooden business end of a Spanking Stick

Paddles are typically a flat, solid piece of wood shaped like an oversized, elongated spatula or small oar. Here are some common characteristics of paddles:

Material: Most paddles are made of hardwood, such as oak or maple, which makes them sturdy and capable of delivering significant force. Some paddles may be polished or varnished, while others are left unfinished. Unfinished paddles can leave splinters in a boy's bottom. Varnished ones are usually sanded first and then finished preventing splinters.

Design: The handle of the paddle is usually carved for a firm grip, and the flat end is broad and smooth, designed for striking a boy's buttocks. Paddles may vary in length and range from 1/8 of an inch to 1/2 inch wide.

Customization: In many fraternities which we'll heard more about tomorrow, paddles are often customized with engravings, painted designs, or fraternity insignias. They might also include the names of members, dates, or Greek letters, symbolizing the organization’s traditions.

Purpose: Paddles are presented as symbols of fraternity loyalty and tradition have become an emblem of fraternity culture. But in a Discipline context, paddles are typically used to administer physical punishment in the form of strikes to the buttocks. The act of paddling can cause significant pain, bruising, and even serious long term marking. The marks are as much a sign of the paddle's purpose as the paddle itself.

Paddles are often displayed in Domestic Discipline homes with the intended effect of stirring obedience, excitement or both in the viewer of paddle. 

This week let's celebrate the profound effect and value of The Paddle in all its forms. We hope you enjoy the various posts Monday through Friday. 

If you are unable to see these posts on Tumblr here, just go to www.cornertimeconfidential.blogspot.com to read each day's posts and check out the important vids and pics that go along with them!

Monday — Introduction to this week's festivities: What is The Paddle and What is it for?

Tuesday — Where The Paddle is King: American Fraternity Culture 

Wednesday — The Paddled's Dilemma: Professional Advice on Marks and Abrasions 

Thursday — Love is a Warm Paddle. What all Paddles should convey to the Spanked.

Friday — Camp Red Tails and the Paddling Room

We cannot wait to read your comments, reflections, and ideas for future posts. So keep those comments at the bottom of each post coming! Or reach out to us on social. The social and email links are in the blog's signature at the bottom of today's post. See you tomorrow when we bring you The Paddler's Friend.

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