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One of the classic stereotypes of trans fems is the idea that we all wore dresses as little boys and wanted to be girls, and the thing is for a lot of people that's not true and really doesn't prove anything.

That being said I was one of those little boys who wore dresses and I actively wanted to be a girl but I was ignored. It's only after years of trauma and thinking about it I realised I'm trans.

I don't know what the point to this is I kinda just wanna say how defining what counts as transgender from someone who isn't is bullshit, you know.

Also I haven't come out to my parents yet but if I do and they say "we always knew" I'm gonna be pissed.

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Love how in every CR campaign it is established early and reaffirmed frequently who has the best tits in each party. For Bell's Hells it's Fearne. For Vox Machina it's Vex. For Mighty Nein... it's Fjord. And I think that's beautiful

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feeling the morbs again and reminiscing on the relationships lost to the person I used to be.

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saw a post where someone fundamentally misunderstood bra sizes so i wanted to help clarify

a common misconception about cup size is that a DD is just the size of a boob. however, the way it actually works is that cup size is a relative measurement.

the first measurement you need is the measurement all the way around your ribcage, right below your tibbies and this measurement is the band size. the second measurement you need is the measurement around your chest where your tibbies stick out the most and this is called the bust measurement.

the difference between the band measurement and the bust measurement determines your cup size where AAA is a difference of zero inches and a G is a difference of 6 inches.

THIS SYSTEM IS INCREDIBLY CONFUSING!!! and it often leads to a lot of people not understanding which bras they need!

this is why a lot of people get mixed up when someone has a size of 34DD vs 44DD because they are comparing two entirely different body types that happen to have the same cup size in name only.

hope this helps!

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Since you guys like my male name list, here are some vintage girl’s names from old historic documents, recently updated:

(Sorry I listed the name origin/individual’s place of birth on some and not others.)