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quick make the dash unusable

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frank watching gerard perform cancer 2007 vs 2022

bonus for added pain: 

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me: just going about my day normally :)

me: suddenly remembers that dan is in fact attracted to men, has been dealing with his sexuality the entire time we’ve known him, his sexuality has played a major part in his life and his issues with self hatred and mental illness that he’s shared with us for years, has had lots of sex with men, he was actively closeted and scared in 2012 and thats why he acted the way he did, has been in a loving relationship with phil, who he considers his soulmate, for nearly ten years, and has now finally been able to call himself a gay man after years of deep-seeded internalized homophobia directly connected to that word, and that he told us all of this himself

me:

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‘it’s okay. you’re okay. you were born this way, it’s right, and anyone that has a problem with it is wrong. based on your circumstance you might not feel ready to tell people yet, or that it’s safe and that’s fine too. just know that living your truth with pride is the way to be happy. you are valid, it gets so much better, and the future is clear. it’s pretty queer.’

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@danielhowell, thank you.

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“i’m gay”

dan. i know coming out is weird and difficult and awkward and happy and sad. but thank you. thank you for making me feel accepted even when you weren’t out. thank you for preaching acceptance and love for the past few years. thank you for stamping yourself into our hearts and showing us it’s okay to be who we are regardless of sexuality. thank you for opening your mind and soul to us. thank you for sharing even more of yourself. you didn’t have to but you did and have made thousands of people feel even more loved and accepted. i know it may have been extremely difficult but you have made such a big difference in my life. we wouldn’t be the same without you. thank you thank you thank you.

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dan & phil: super best friends and soulmates forever

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Basically I’m Gay

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The many faces of Dan Howell for @manilovedan

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the worst memories of being bullied is when ppl would pretend not to be bullying you and ask you questions and u thought they were just asking u stuff but they were actually laughing at you the entire time and u had no idea bcos you were young and you didnt understand why people would be mean to you when you didnt do anything wrong. 

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i miss dan and his curly hair and his hands and his cute nails and his pretty pretty pretty brown eyes and his freckles and his smile and the way his laugh gets really big and i miss him calling phil out on innuendos and i miss him losing to phil in dan vs phil and i. just. miss. him. so. much.

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finger guns 🌻

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nothing makes me happier than seeing lgbt people thriving, prospering, and having healthy support systems around them. if you’re an lgbt person and you feel like this doesn’t apply to you, i sincerely hope you flourish and bloom in 2019