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This [noun] is a ball jointed doll

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[Text ID: This system is actively on fire, please help.]

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[Text: This alter prefers to be referred to with their own name, not the body's.]

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"maybe in another universe" but it should have, could have, been this one

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One of these days I will learn how to properly, healthily process and regulate my emotions. One day. TRUST

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I wish I could feel safe in my own home.

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Cutting someone off when you’re a system very much feels like ‘don’t talk to me or my children ever again’.

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Hello!!! I've been scrolling a bit through your blog and I just want to say your advice is extremely helpful!!! I'm extremely new to polytheism, currently worshipping Lady Aphrodite; I spent days making her a little altar to prepare myself to pray to her lol, and so far it's been a really good experience! I give her offerings whenever I can, but there's a small issue with me being a HUGE procrastinater, so I pray to her rarely... I'm not sure if you've answered someone with an issue this similar, but I've love to hear some tips from you, if possible! :D

Thank you so much! 🦪🩷

Hello lovely!!

To be honest with you, even I struggle with this as well sometimes. It's good to remember that prayer isn't the only way to worship and even if that's what you want to focus on, you don't have to do it all the time! Personally, I love to dedicate my meals to her so that even something as simple as eating is in her honor! And you can do that with any everyday task!

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dddo it …. keep existing and make the idiots more afraid …. I say as the little angel on your shoulder that comes from the void

Imma be real honest, I really do enjoy people being afraid of me.

I do talk a lot of shit abt ableists and their hate for NPD/ASPD, but truthfully, I love when they talk abt me like I’m some spirit that’s terrorizing their home. I feel genuine happiness when I think abt how much power I have over them, to the point where anything I do will scare/traumatize them. The fact that I barely have to do anything to put these ppl on edge feels like genuine power.

Knowing how intimidating I am to these ppl while just living my normal life gives me butterflies ☺️

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did .. people not know this … ???

Let's talk about boundaries! Since apparently no one in syscourse actually knows what a boundary is.

Boundaries are basically what you're willing to put up with and what you aren't. But they are also yours to enforce. They are not something you hold others to, but where you put your foot down. So lets talk about why DNIs aren't boundaries.

Example: I do not talk about my physical health with my mother because she has a habit of demanding proof.

Not a boundary: My mother is not allowed to talk about my physical health at all. She is not allowed to ask me questions or inquire in any way and if she does I'll lose it.

Boundary: If my mother starts asking about my physical health and being nosy and demanding, I cease communication.

So why isn't the first one a boundary? Because I cannot control my mother. I cannot control what she asks or what triggers her concern or suspicion. But I can control how much I talk to her and my ability to walk away.

DNIs are the same. They're a warning at best. You do not control other tumblr users. They can do what they like and, as commonly happens, if you cross tag, use the site wrong and invade tags, your DNI is completely useless. It does not come into play. People are allowed to talk to you regardless of what you think of them. The real boundary is blocking the people you don't want to associate with.

I have typed the word "boundary" so much at this point that it doesn't look real anymore.

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July 1st! You know what that means!

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Kazuha & Beidou / Her crew fanfics are so wholesome … they get me every time ….. eueuueue

Those types of fanfics really made me observe Beidou as a character more and now in my brain she’s my mother. Literally (system way) and figuratively (familial yumeship way). Giggling

Yes this is a Beidou and Kazuha appreciation post. Lesbian mom and hyr bisexual son whom I am married to core

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They all love him so much I can't 🥹

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plural culture is mourning the fact that you can't find community. not with systems and not with people that aren't. nothing feels safe

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Oh Wow!! My symptom (amnesia) of my disorder (DID) is getting worse!! But because it’s getting worse (I’m forgetting things more) I obviously must be faking (I’m just forgetting my symptoms)!!

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being a system is feeling like a mutated onion in gods 5th grade science project because we have too many fucked up layers to our existence

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traumaholder culture is having ‘sherlock type powers’ but instead of solving crimes you avoid people you think will hurt you