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Happy Tết Holiday! 🥳🎉🎉🎉 Snake Year please treat us well!

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The queer community is full of hurt people.

This can lead to a knee-jerk reaction when we hear someone else say "I am hurt". We look at them and say "shut up, you're not as hurt as me because you have X privilege".

This leads to femme afab queers being told "you can pass and hide as cishet, you're not as hurt as queer women who look queer, you're just complying with the patriarchy's ideals for beauty, you're hurting the queer community, you're anti feminist."

It leads to masc afab people, whether trans men or nonbinary or genderqueer etc, being told everything from "you're not as hurt, you can pass as a cis man" to "you have no desire to transition, you still look like a girl, shut up".

It leads to trans amab people who are nonbinary or genderqueer or agender etc, who still dress or look "masculine", being told that they are "unsafe" for queer spaces, that they don't belong at a "women and nonbinary meeting", that they are "basically just cis men trying to escape accountability".

It leads to asexuals being told "you don't even feel sexual attraction, the thing we're ostracized for! how could you possibly be oppressed? You're just straight and a prude" and aromantics being told "you're just straight and like casual sex, get over yourself" and both being told "you're just a cishet who wants to steal resources".

I have heard every single kind of queer person say "I have been harmed and ostracized by the queer community". Lesbians, gay men, bisexuals and mspec people, trans people, aroace people - every single one of us has expressed feeling ostracized by our own community.

On the plus side, this means you're not alone. Your group isn't the only one facing this. You have allies!! Other queer people who have gone through what you've gone through!

We need queer unity. We need to stop attacking each other. If you feel the urge to say "shut up, my group has been hurt MORE", go take a walk. Remember that every single one of us has been hurt.

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Ya know when people told me "when you're finally safe enough that you can leave survival mode and start to let go of and process your c-ptsd/trauma things are probably going to get really, really bad before they slowly start to get better" I thought that was reasonable. I did not understand that by "things are going to get bad" they meant "you're going to find yourself in the worst mental state of your entire life, but dw, that means it's working" and tbh I simply wish someone had been more clear.

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people who leave nice tags ily

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happy halloween! here's a spooky song i wrote + recorded yesterday. lyrics under the cut!

Guy:

I don’t feel quite like myself Inside I’m fighting with somebody else Blacking out, waking up with no memory Blood on my hands in the middle of the street

Demon:

This guy’s a vessel of the highest degree No-brainer, got no brains and no self esteem The perfect host for my unholy needs With whom I’ll carry out the most devilish of deeds

Guy:

I’m possessed My mind is not my own Demon: I’ve got him on the phone You’re under my control Guy: I’m possessed Oh now what have I done?

Demon:

Oh, this is so much fun With you under my thumb You’re possessed! Guitar/Bass solos

Guy:

I’m possessed There’s voices in my head

Demon:

I’ve got him seeing red You’re under my control

Guy:

I’m possessed I ate the local priest...

Demon:

Ooo, I’m such little a beast! Now let’s go have a feast

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Artist chwan!!!!

The art of yours on social anxiety is just OMG! ITS SO REAL. Like there used to be a time for me when I felt like whatever i am saying is gonna affect me. Especially online. But slowly now that I have stopped giving F's im kinda like at peace. But i do understand that feeling you were facing my dear. Trust me baby, you aren't alone. Just remember that you loved my dear!!!

Btw, is no one reminding you to keep your signature on your arts? 🤔 you forgot your signature artist chwan. Some people are jerks and they will repost and not reblog. Be careful.

Haha... its just that, when i was like active on tumblr in 2019 - 2020 , i used to leave you messages saying to sign your arts. Idk if you remember. But.. whatever buddy, keep your signature!!!! We need your sign my dear.

Aaaaaaaa Abhi-swan I miss youuuu! It's nice to hear from you again!! Thank you for the kind and encouraging words 😭😭😭😭😭 Knowing you went through and overcame the same trouble, I believe someday I will too. Thank you!!!

ps: I kept forgetting about the signature haha... I remembered you had to remind me from time to time before X"D

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The evolution of Social Anxiety.

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the funniest dynamc between my boyfriend and i is the chef/baker divide runs so deep. experimentally my boyfriend is a genius with figuring out what flavor profiles will not just taste good together but also will be enjoyed by the specific audience he is cooking for. a recipe is not a guidebook so much as a suggestion and he will frankenstein ideas together to get exactly what he wants to happen. he also didnt know that sugar will not work properly if you dont mix it with the wet ingredients in banana bread and when i asked 'why didnt you do it in the order of the recipe' he said 'i didnt really think it mattered'. autistically i exploded his head in my mind

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Various audio snippets of my childhood that I've collected.

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JUSTICE LEAGUE UNLIMITED // THE FLASH 2023

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he protec

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I meant to make this meme ages ago when pride month was still on but yeah gé (pronounced gay) is the Irish for a goose.

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In honor of Day of the Dead, here’s a repost of my comic about the San Francisco Columbarium and the man who spent 26 years restoring it.

This comic originally appeared on Medium at The Nib. Go check out my other work there.

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Harry Potter Robe Pattern

I’ll be using this to make two Gryffindor robes for eevonys and me! (So the front/hood facing will be scarlet.) We bought some suiting material b/c it wasn’t too heavy and had a nice drape. (the red is lining material)