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mommadharper:

I thought kindergarten was tough, but now with first grade almost over.. It feels like my baby isn’t going to be my baby anymore. 

God, I don’t know how I’m going to get through kindergarten when Olivia actually gets to that age. What’s it like to try and adjust to your son being gone part of the day?

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mercy-mine:

There’s nothing like waking up to a screeching infant.

Is he alright or just crying for attention/food?

Well

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mamilopez:

Beats sitting around doing jack shit all the time. I can almost feel my braincells dying off out of sheer fucking boredom. 

Ah. That's true, I guess. Then again, I'm rarely doing nothing because of Olivia, but that doesn’t negate the boredom. That’s for sure. If you ever want something to do, though, you're more than welcome to come over here and help me with her. It's not as bad as it sounds, ha. I can provide food if that helps. At least we can be bored together, lol.

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Classes start up again next week, and I’m just not ready for this. Is anyone actually ready for this? If so, tell me your secrets.

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momrachel-berry:

People can be so horrible sometimes. What did you do?

Nothing, really. I froze; I had no idea what to do. That kind of thing’s never happened to me before. I have a new found appreciation for girls who can put up with that kind of bullshit.

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momrachel-berry:

I’m trying to get an earlier appointment with my gynecologist but it is the weekend so she can’t see my right now. Those pains in my stomach aren’t easing off now so I’m going to put myself on bed rest and hope this isn’t happening yet.

I’m sure you’re not in labor yet, hun. When is your appointment supposed to be?

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gunsnmases:

For me, luckily, the bees will be a bit older so they’ll be easier- in my opinion- to manage, instead of having newborns in college. They’ll be… uh.. three?  Then we can easily utilize actual daycare and stuff.

No, no, it’s fine. Jane and I are just… acquaintances now, I guess.  Acquaintances with a baby together. I think as long as we join groups that don’t join on the same day, we should be fine. Plus Cheer practice is every morning so at least that doesn’t get in the way of anything. Though I’m still not sure what to do about game nights on Friday, but I’ll figure it out.

Yeah, I joined up on the drama club– acting’s definitely one of my favorite things to do, mainly in musicals.. though I won’t turn down a good play, either. Hm, well, at least for now I’ll stick with drama, GSA, and cheer. I don’t want to overload myself.

That's also a relief I hadn't thought about; she'll be at least two before I start college. It won't be amazing, she'll be in her terrible twos stage, but at least she won't be a newborn. I'll just have to find a school that is okay with Freshman living off campus, though, because I can't think of a single college that has readily available dorms for parents and children.

Well, at least you're working together to make things work, though. That's certainly needed when you have three children ha. That sounds like a plan for the extra curriculars, though. As for game nights, you could easily find someone around the school to babysit for you. I doubt that everyone will be at the game, you know? Plus, the games are late enough that children that young should be asleep in no time. They might not stay like that for a long time, but it'll still be a fairly easy job. Maybe someone from the daycare could watch them for a few hours while you're at the game?

Drama club is definitely a good idea. GSA should be good, too. And you like cheerleading, so you sound like you have enough on your plate when you combine those extras with your three children, ha.

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mamilopez:

Yeah, well, I’m over it already. Yeah, you’d think that, except for the part where I still feel like I’m gonna puke at any moment. 

I’m sorry, ha. I’m sure they have anti-nausea pills if you’re looking for something that might make it a little more bearable.

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momrachel-berry:

Well, it has passed now so I do not see the need. I have to go for a check up on Monday, so I should be fine until then.

Well that’s good at least. If it does happen again, though, I would see a doctor.

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mercy-mine:

Lately four hours and then he’s awake for awhile

Well at least he’s getting four hours. You learn to make it work somehow, ha. Coffee and more coffee. It’ll get better as the time goes. I promise. Liv didn’t start sleeping through the night entirely on a regular basis until she was about five months old or so.

I’m a happy momma

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mercy-mine:

My grandma used to say babies moving that fast are making room for another baby

God no. One is more than a handful.

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teenparentjake:

I am going to assume that the ass grabbing wasn’t an accident and the people that grabbed it were strangers of the old kind. I’d tell you to call the cops and report it but the advice comes from one of Mrs. Pillsbury’s sketchy ass booklets so as for that actually working out, I can’t say. Personally, I’d just forgive and forget.

Oh it was definitely on purpose, considering they walked past giggling like fucking two year olds, but they weren't old. I'm not going to call the cops, it wasn't that serious, but I do not appreciate having my ass grabbed by people I don't know. Or, really, in general for that matter.

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She is so precious. If my children are half as adorable, I’d be so happy.

Why thank you. She’s a devil placed inside an angel’s body.

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peroxidebombshell:

Kurt Hummel, alright, that’s a cool name. You have well that’s good, we might just be friends Mr. Hummel. Sometimes I slept there during the night other times I just read files and stuff. Your girl and my baby boy will be best friends, that’s being determined right now.

Thank you, ha. I rather like my name, if I'm being honest. I could always use more friends, especially around here. Ah. Does she have some incredibly comfy couch or something? I would thinking sleeping there might be a bit of a higher risk than just going through files. Though, I'm always down for snooping. I won't lie about that one. She could most definitely need a best friend, so I am totally down for this plan.

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So, I went shopping today to pick up more stuff for Liv, and two different people grabbed my ass. I have no idea how to feel about this.

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mercy-mine:

Alex slept for eight hours last night. I’ve never been so happy honestly 

Eight whole hours? That’s amazing, ha. How long does he normally sleep for?

I’m a happy momma

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mamilopez:

I’d say ‘get on your dick’ annoying but I’ve learned that if a guy has something on his dick he’s usually happy about it so that doesn’t work. Definitely not. We were fuck buddies, then he screwed it all up by getting me pregnant and now he’s just a pain in my ass that I can’t get rid of so we’re both stuck here in some fucked up version of playing house. I wish he had, I can handle this on my own, I don’t need anyone’s help. Yeah, well, people just assume that if you’re having a baby together then you must be together together but like fuck am I doing that whole ‘we’re together for the sake of the kid’ bullshit, no kid is that stupid to believe a fake relationship between their parents. Why? What’s wrong with your family history? You don’t live in some cult or anything do you? Oh God, if you tell me you’re Amish I may actually laugh so hard that I’ll give birth now. And which people are the right people? Cos right or wrong people if they get in my way, I will beat their sorry asses, so it’s better that I know the right people cos they’re less likely to argue with me. Stealth is not an issue. Good to know that there’s ways around this already, means less work for me and I am all for that. 

Walks are good, but I can think of better ways to spend my energy. Fresh air beats the stench in here. That’s fucked up. That’s like me saying I want to go home, waiting until Frijol finally evicts the premises and then leaving him with jackass so I can go home. Hell fucking no. I may not be feeling the whole ‘yay I’m gonna be a mom’ vibe, but family is family and you don’t abandon family, no matter what. Yeah, she’s not coming back. Long distance is a bullshit excuse. Thank God for that, I was hoping it was short for something and that you hadn’t gone all Steve Tyler. If Liv is six and a half months, just how long have you been here? 

That is entirely true depending on the situation. 99% sure, more than happy. But if it's something that shouldn't be there - like the bumps of death - then no, no that's not good. Well, I can't tell you how to feel when it comes to his presence, and I never would, but I will say - having another hand once the baby actually comes is definitely helpful. My life has gotten exponentially more difficult now that it's just me. I do agree with that, though. I think staying together for the kids is a bad idea, especially since it's usually the kid who gets screwed up in the end. I'm not Amish, no. Um, my mother was murdered a couple years ago. There was a serial killer in my home town. It was this whole big mess; anyway, most people there won't associate with my family - more specifically, just my father now - or the other families that were involved. I'm not one to brag often, but I am one of those people. Or...well, I know those people at least, ha.

I figured she wouldn't but a part of me hopes that she will, even if just to see her daughter here and there. As bad as that sounds, though, a part of me hopes she doesn't come back. I don't want her coming in and out of Liv's life, it'll only confuse her when she gets older. Yeah, it's definitely short for something, lol. I can't understand the names some people give to their children, I can say that much ha. I've been here just a little over a year or so. We came here when Abigail was about three months along.

So this is prison...