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Precautions

We're going out with her on a 4 day streak of traveling and moving around the city.... We will sleep with her for 3 nights Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday. It will be intense, emotionally, and we have to understand that I have made myself extremely good, a dreamy companion who has all the qualities sort of person, which she cannot, and will not try to let go of.

She thinks we'll eventually marry, which is fine, but is scary, because I don't think that. Her current state is not something I want to spend my life with, someone that irresponsible.

My advice to you is just 3 things:

Avoid any promises of love, of being together, of meeting again, visiting or whatever. No promises.

Avoid jumping on her, she might have liked it in the past, but at the time I was mediocre as well, right now, we I'm not. Until asked to do so, avoid sexual activities. You can kiss.

Make tonnes of non sexual memories, as friends. We can look back and say we were good friends, and not sex buddies, right? That can be a way to avoid tension, and try getting back in as late as possible. Make her run around, she must come back exhausted. À movie every night can be the key.

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Before you give in and start to belie her false promises, I want you to look at how she has come to be all this while, and how many of her promises she keeps, the answer to which is None.

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I'll be moving to another city, and the loss can be compensated with excessive work, and a 100 times better fish in the sea (if you know what I mean). I'm going to become a whole new person :D

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Gaining the Strength to Say NO

I’m in a relationship with a girl who has a great curvy body, a beautiful heart-shaped face, a sexy butt, soft kissable lips, large sensitive nipples, and a world-class vagina, BUT, the entire package is in ruins due to an unhealthy diet and terrible exercise habits. Her face is bumpy with a gazillion pimples, her body is loose, her breasts are falling out, and she has horrible posture; she’s 20 YEARS OLD. To add to that monstrosity, she doesn’t bother trimming down there, and refuses, simply refuses to take up a healthy diet and daily exercise. I’m Scared.

I don’t know what to do... she was fine when we started, she did all the right things, including waxing and proper trimming, but now, it’s like she doesn’t care. Honestly, after a certain time, it becomes insulting.

The next time, I’m going to have to say No. Looking beyond my immediate sexual needs, I have to refuse to lower my standards. If I can put so much work into this relationship, so can she. It might hurt, it might cause fights, I’m willing to pay the price.

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I need to get tout of Chennai, or my face will turn into a blemished shit pot. How to get out? Get placed. How to get placed? Solve the next question. How many questions? All of them.

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You like patterns right? Here's a pattern for you. My feelings right now are the same when we were giving the exams. She paid absolutely no attention to you, and it made you mad. You obsessed over the thought of her, tried calling, meeting, something, bit it never worked out. We were dissatisfied with her, since she was not 'present'. You tried doing everything on your own and viola, you failed. You'd spend 20 times more time, remember 5 times less. There was no focus and hours would pass in her memory. This happened especially when you tried doing things on your own.

Find a group that wants what you want, and stick around. If you try doing it on your own you'll fail. Just like before.

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We shall entirely avoid penetration entirely. I vote for oral. That way, we can do it more often, it hurts nobody, I get to know you better down there, and on top of that, we get to play a lot.

After the realization that you’re hurting during sex

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The thing that went wrong about this time was thw way you approached her. The way you asked her, the entire process, that's was a colossal turn-off. It made her remind of her past and it all just came back to her. I think k she's still hung up on him. I can't change the fact that I am a man, and I get horny, but if she starts to compare my every action to how he used to do it. I'm sorry, it's going to extremely difficult. I know she was remembering him the entire time we were there, all the memories came back to her, and that's one of the reasons I had absolutely no fun. It was aweful, and it was again, a plagued memory. It was my fault too, the way I approached her, the way I presented the idea of going to a hotel, it was all to impulsive. The way I kept mentioning I'm hard all the time, it shows weakness, and imbicility. It literally all went down when you came right the moment we entered, and then stupidly ruined the entire morning. I haven't failed so much with someone in all my life, but maybe that's what it takes. She's seeing all my shitty parts, places I haven't explored in myself, things I couldn't improve beforehand.

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Sex is something special, it needs to be treated that way. Having sex at the last day of leaving, or first day of meeting her. On your birthday, or her birthday. On valentines day, or when you get a job. It's all subjective right? Treating sex like a routine embrace is a waste of emotion, I believe it could be saved for something better. Making out is alright, massaging is alright, giving her orgasm (for practice) is alright, but the act if sex, should be saved for hood moments.

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Take power away from her. Her rudeness will simply give me opportunity to reduce my dependency on her which is just Good.

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Convince yourself however you may, however you may like: she will never deceive you. Never. Losing you is monumentally disadvantageous to her. I'm not joking.

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Understand this fucking idea and you will rule her mind. Make her beg for you. You have to have absolute control over everything. If you do not meditate, you will go crazy and probably end up fucking her every single day. It's stupid and you know when someone has too much of someone else they don't fucking care, because they start taking you for granted. Control her, demand her, be in control 9f yourself. Meditate at least an hour or 45 minutes every single day, or I'm telling you, it will be a horrible visit and your demonstration will kick in. You have an army of demons inside of you, control them, or perish. You're horny as fuck, and if it was up to you, you'll have sex every hour, but no, it's not like that, we'll control ourselves, we'll Meditate. I promise.

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My selfish guide to be happy

Develop my body Meditate for long periods Making people laugh Serving my purpose of life Cook Read Beautiful myself Make a good plan

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I'm taking the power to hurt me, as well as the power to make me happy, away from her. Entirely.

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All the time, she only receives your love. She never gets the chance to show you how much she cares for you. You always take the lead and put her to comfort. She does try it words, and it's amazing, but I need it shown. This time, give an opportunity to work for your love. Make her earn you. That will help, and it will make her forget everything about anyone else.

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Isolation needs to be omitted. It is time