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In a truck stop bathroom washing my hands today and 2 boys, looked about 5 and 9, came in with their little sister who looked maybe 2. The following whispered conversation made my entire day

"We have to wait, there's a lady in here!"

"That's not a lady, he has a mustache! We can be in here!"

"Some ladies have mustaches! And she has boobs!"

"Well some guys have boobs! Like Uncle Jake!"

"Uncle Jake is fat!"

At this point I could not contain a chuckle and both whirled around with identical looks of panic on their faces. I smiled and said "it's alright for you guys to be in here so your sister has help, don't worry. And I'm both! That's why I have boobs and a mustache. Some folks are just built that way"

(In unison) "Ooooooh!"

(older boy) "So do you use Sir or Ma'am or both?"

"Both, but I prefer Sir"

"Cool! Well thanks Sir! We have to help our sister now!"

This was in a small town country truck stop and both boys had "Murica" type stuff on and neither of them had any issue at all with these concepts. Their mom approached me while I was in line about 10 minutes later and apologized for them bothering me in the bathroom (they had told her about the interaction) and she and I had a lovely little chat too. I got to introduce her to the term "intersex" and her reply was "I think I've heard of that before! I didn't know that was the word for it. Amazing how many different ways God can make people!"

Sometimes the world is good. More often than you might think, if you give it a chance. It's not all bad loves <3

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...what is the "sex is just rock climbing" category

It was kind of a joke between me and a friend ("you wouldn't judge someone for having gone rock climbing with a bunch of different people") but honestly the more I thought about it the more I bought into it unironically because:

It is a physical activity done with one or more partners

You should only go rock climbing with people you trust to not let you fall

You should not go rock climbing with someone who is drunk or currently incapable of rational decision-making

Some people get super super super into rock climbing and do not shut up about all the places they have climbed and how many are left on their bucket list and these people are usually men between the ages of 20 and 35 and like it's fine dude I'm glad you're happy but I don't know what most of those mountains even are

While many consider it a fun activity, pressuring someone into climbing when they don't want to (or ignoring their feelings and just dangling them off a cliff,) could cause both psychological and physical trauma

There is no moral value to it whatsoever. Who you have gone rock climbing with (or whether you have rock climbed at all) has no bearing on who you are as a person. Imagine telling someone "it's not that heights make you nauseous, it's just that you haven't found the right person to belay you!" or "you need to save your first time rock climbing for someone special." That would be absurd.

For some people it is a deep and moving personal experience.

historically I have not asked myself "will this aggravate my hip flexor injury" before participating when perhaps I should have 😔

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Floofy kittens

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Lil pancake

It has been so warm for the past week. I've been trying very hard to keep my room and the rats cool.

I've been making them frozen treats by mixing oatmeal with some banana and putting it in an icecube tray. They absolutely love it, however they keep stealing it from each other. 😭😭 i always make sure each gets one treat. But no that's not enough her sisters treat must taste better.

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For some reason sharing music I like is the most soul bearing experience nothing else makes me so embarrassed or vulnerable feeling as suggesting or playing a song

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i started a comic yesterday for bad comics day and then didn't finish it. in the spirit of bad comics day i'm posting it unfinished anyway

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helo momther??

um momther????

giv kiss upon me sivi

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i got these knockoff boots online and instead of the brand name on the tag they have the name of an apparently nonexistent martin scorsese movie??? what the fuck

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oh to be a gigantic wolf and lay on a trans girl and put my entire 200 pounds of weight on top of her and snarl every time she tries to push me off until she gives up and gets comfy

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I just saw a gifset that split the word "beautiful" into 3 gifs and I think this one may be the new t hanos

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Hey while we're still talking about Susie bleeding, I would just like to bring this up: The bunny kid in the apartments isn't the only monster to show an unfamiliarity with blood.

Noelle does (or used to) as well in ch1.

(selecting "she's nice" when talking about Susie)

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in my restless dreams i see that shit

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Happy Pride to everyone, from every community, who celebrates!!! Remember to always love who you are, who you have been, and who you’ll evolve into <3

If you enjoy these designs, keep an eye out for our upcoming store launch where they’ll be available as stickers and charms! We’ll provide a link here once available (o:

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by fomajc on instagram. im losing my shit over this

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they want you to make fried rice