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she...

has a big perspective on life

is not petty

does not like to gossip

is aware of what she is thinking and doing 

never does things blindly 

never goes through her days without giving it much thought 

never goes through life without a direction

likes to pursue something in life

knows what she is good at

knows what she loves to do for a career and in life for leisure

is introspective 

puts in the effort to understand herself on a deeper level 

does not let “what others all think” or “what others all do” direct her decisions in life

takes personal responsibility for her own well being 

knows what’s good and suitable for her and what is not

adapts well

is flexible and open-minded

does not try too hard just to fit in

can just be 

can let others just be too

creates a space between the outside world’s stimulus and her own inner self 

is reactive to what’s happening outside

is the master of her own emotions and well being

does not give her power away to anyone

sticks to her own principles 

is both gentle and firm

has a curious and inquisitive mind 

has the passion to learn more about life and human nature

always wants to grow more mature, at any age

always has a spirit of wonder 

never gets tired of life 

will always try to see the good side of life (even during difficult times) 

allows herself to be sad 

has this deep knowing in her heart that there will be a brighter side 

has this deep knowing in her heart that she will come out fine and stronger

never loses her good spirit and grace

gives people the feeling that she is naturally humanly strong 

gives people the feeling that she is capable of taking good care of herself

is secure enough to be taken care of too without feeling weak or inadequate

can follow/go with the flow

gives and takes with ease and gratitude

is nice

is caring

is polite 

is considerate

is warm, but not intrusive

can sense where others draw the boundaries and respect that

does not easily condemn or judge

always asks the “Why’s”

can “talk the talk” that has content

has the depth in her

can “walk her talk”

approaches life with nonresistance and acceptance

approaches people with a good and big heart

does not take herself too seriously on small things

allows herself to discover and live her own individuality to the fullest

has the ability to be happy and feel the joy of life 

is awake and aware 

can say to herself that she’d lived a good life that’s true to herself

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All of this is absolutely awful, you know.

I don’t understand why we can’t all just get along. Seriously, why do we even argue? Awards? Recognition? Fame? Does your pea sized brain think that’s all our idols care about? Do you really, truly and honestly think that’s all they want? Every single one of our idols have ONE common goal, one common interest, dream, and that is to make music. That is to dance, to rap, to sing, to produce, anything. They do so goddamn much for us, making music with messages to get across, they work hours on end for us. You cannot begin to fathom the amount of work and time and energy they put into their arts, how many years of their life they sacrificed for YOU. And you have the sheer audacity to degrade their achievements, hate on them, tell them your faves are better than them? Sick. Let me tell you now that your idols would be disgusted by your actions.

And you know what? There’s this thing called mistakes, and people tend to make them. We all do. Look me in the fucking eye and tell me you’ve never made a single mistake in your life, and MEAN it. Then, and only then, will I let you talk down on mine. You might think that’s stupid, but you can’t, can you? You can’t tell me you’ve never made a mistake; you have. So if you haven’t already noticed, K-pop idols are also humans, just like you. They live and breathe and have the ability to make choices that aren’t so great, everyone knows that. And we milk that. We twist it and turn it and make it into the biggest deal ever, we turn them into daggers and we tear those idols down to nothing but a shell of who they once were. Is that right to you? Is it? Is the concept of hate righteous? If you genuinely think so, your sense of morality is beyond fucked, and you do NOT have a right to comment on your idol’s. I can promise you that a lot of them are twice the people you could ever be.

We need to work as a team. K-pop is one genre, and we all enjoy it; isn’t that all we need to get along? Finding friends from all places and of all ages, laughing over how our parents would never understand, making dumb attempts to learn korean, having the time of our lives learning the choreographies. That’s what we should be doing as opposed to arguing, that’s it. Why cant we hype up each other’s faves, make the whole K-pop community shine? Show nothing but pure adoration and support for the ones who work so damn hard to reach their dreams. Stream each other’s music videos, leave nice comments on their vlives, tell them how proud you are of them. Rumours? Help them. Do your research into it and find out the whole truth before splurging out shit. And on the off chance it did happen? Forgive them. Accept it. Accept that if you’d done it, you would want the same.

We’re knocking them down, one by one, and we’re not even realising it.

Your BTS’ Kim Taehyung.

Your GOT7’s Jackson Wang.

Your SuperM/NCT’s Lee Taeyong

Your Stray Kids’ Bang Chan

Your Twice’s Chou Tzuyu

Your Red Velvet’s Wendy Son

Your Blackpink’s Jennie Kim.

How does it feel? The idea of them being gone from the surface of this Earth? Not nice, not nice at all.

We need to work together, please. That’s all I’m asking. 2019 has been a pure cry for help.

Everything they’ve done has been to save us.

And now it’s our turn to save them too.

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Call 1-800-273-8255

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the love yourself era might be over but i'll spend the rest of my life thankful for the way BTS made me want to live

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ANTHONY RAMOS FAMILY TEMPLATE

[father] angelo pagan (50) - actor

[sister] laurie hernandez (18) - olympic gymnast

[grandmother] ivonne coll (71) - actress

[cousin] la la anthony (36) - tv personality/actress

anthony ramos (27) - actor

[sister] tashi rodriguez (24) - model/influencer

[grandmother] rita moreno (87) - actress

[brother] josh segarra (32) - actor

[mother] rosie perez (51) - actress/talk show host

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Juliana Herz — born in 1989 — Costa Rica

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cnco as fez 😙

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it is so upsetting listening to so many males talk about all of the times they have gone on road trips alone and slept in their cars alone or on the side of the road, or travelled overseas alone and slept on the floor of strangers homes or in parks or at hostels and they appear to have such freedom in that they are able to be alone in ways that females, unfortunately, cannot…and there is an ignorance surrounding this in that these boys never seem to comprehend just how fortunate they are that strange people and unfamiliar places and the dark of night are not their enemies but rather exciting, promising things

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Dance To This: Part 2

(Hybrid! Namjoon x Hybrid! Seokjin x Blind! Reader) (Service Hybrid Au) (Social Media Au) (Polyamory au!)

SUMMARY: If loving you was as easy as breathing for Seokjin, than loving Namjoon is instinct, the need and want for the younger man burns through him like sunlight at golden hour. 

W/C: 8.0k

TAGS: Polyamory, social media au, lots of fluff and snuggling, Domestic love, Brief implicit sexual content, mentions of depression.

A/N: So dance to this part two ended up being over 18k in my drafts so I decided to split it into two parts, The third and final part will be out in a few weeks) Please enjoy this self-indulgent fluff and stay tuneeeddd~

BEFORE 

- And by the end of dinner Seokjin is making hot chocolate with marshmallows and before Namjoon knows it he’s falling asleep next to you on the couch while a movie plays in the distance, lulled to sleep by the gentle breathing of the two of you curled next to him as his head nudges onto your shoulder.

- You raise your hand and run it through his supper soft ears that are somewhat bristly at the ends. Fingering over the cleft in his side. Seokjin watches your expression, the way you seem to melt under the easy and deep breaths of the sleeping hybrid, and the way he’s melting into you, adorable dimples popping out as he smiles in his sleep.

- “Can we keep him Jin? Don’t you think it would be better if he stayed?” Seokjin reaches out his hand to thumb across the hybrids cheek. He’s so deeply asleep Seokjin could probably yell and the other wouldn’t wake.

- “Of course I do.”

NOW

- The next morning you and seokjin are woken up by a heavy crash, blearily moving awake to rub at the crust on your eyes, Seokjin springs up and says he’ll go and see what the issue is and he finds Namjoon sleepily attempting to wipe up a broken coffee mug with his bare hands. 

- “What are you doing? You could cut yourself!” Seokjin screeches. Namjoon flushed and shyly lets Seokjin clean it up with a broom and a dustpan while he stammers an apology. 

- Over the next few days, that occurrence becomes almost daily. Namjoon somehow manages to bend a copper pot and breaks several glasses. He even knocks one of the decorations off of the shelf on his rush upstairs by knocking into the wall too harshly. 

- Seokjin doesn’t understand how someone, let alone a hybrid that was supposed to be bred with grace and above human awareness, could manage to be so clumsy, but somehow Namjoon manages. 

- And if he didn’t always look up at Seokjin with that little abashed and apologetic frown that shows that the younger hybrid actually is sorry- then maybe he actually would get angry (instead of finding it cute, cuter then he probably should find it).

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when it’s over try to be soft. don’t let yourself come undone in front of him. save it for when you’re in your room alone after you’ve left his house for the last time. don’t tell him you love him one last time in the hopes that it’ll change his mind. it won’t. don’t put yourself through the deafening silence of him being unable to say it back or to say anything back other than “i’m sorry”. because his apology is more than just “i’m sorry for what has happened.” it’s “i’m sorry that i don’t love you anymore” and “i’m sorry that i can’t choose you” and “i’m sorry that even though i know i should regret this right now, all i can feel is relief.” please, don’t put yourself through anymore pain. when it’s over, just leave. respect yourself enough to know that there is someone better who will stay. don’t force someone to tell you that they don’t love you when you already know. don’t try and change someone’s mind about you. when it’s all gone and all you have are the memories trust that your love was real, it just wasn’t meant to last forever. and that’s okay. when you have to leave and walk away know that you don’t want a love that won’t stay. you don’t want a love you have to beg for. when you’re alone in you’re room coming undone just know that he has done you a favour. because there is someone out there who would do anything to be with you. and you’ll find them eventually. it just isn’t him.

let him go.

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i’m so sorry. i’m sorry because you deserved so much better than them. i’m sorry because they showed you what love is and then ripped it away from you. i’m sorry because now you’re terrified of letting anyone in or close to you. i’m sorry that now you leave first because you can’t bare to see another person walk away. i’m sorry that the people you would never hesistate to choose stopped choosing you. i’m sorry that your body aches because you miss them so much and that they don’t miss you back. i’m sorry that you don’t think you’ll ever find any better because it couldn’t be any further from the truth. i’m sorry that it won’t be easy to get over this and that you don’t believe it will get any better. i’m sorry that you don’t think that when you heal you’ll be happier than you were before you met them. and most of all, i’m sorry that even though you know these words are true, you’re still struggling to believe them.

in case they didn’t say it, i’m sorry love.

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“I defended your name when everyone said you were bad for me.”

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“Perhaps the saddest thing of all, Is just as Arthur Miller once wrote; “though I may think of you softly from time to time, I’d cut off my own hand before I reach for you again.””

— Excerpt from a Book I’ll Never Write, Perhaps the Saddest Thing

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“I think that was my problem, I felt everything entirely too deeply. A simple gesture was never simple, it always meant the world to me. Anyone can walk through the door and whisper a soft hello in my ear and I would still hear a loud welcome home; I love you, how are you doing? The world isn’t meant for a heart like mine. When there is only a small shutter, I always hear a loud bang and drop all I am doing to help the nearest soul. That’s how I loved, I loved with every string of my heart and every fiber in my being.”