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FINALLY the ideal youtube content suggestion: antimperalist Kenyan uncle ranting outside for ~20 minutes

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drunk at a party making everyone watch goo goo dolls - iris (live in buffalo, NY, 7/4/2004)

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PSA that having disabled friends or relatives DOES NOT automatically make you a good ally. you’re not given a pass. do better. do your work.

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my craziest take is you can be cis in a trans way if you feel like it. Like its literally no big deal. if you wanna be completely cisgender but still feel as if you're alienated from your agab then you can be cis in a trans way

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Its alive…ITS ALIVE !

Referenced from this Frankenstein illustration from 1983 by Bernie Wrightson

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The sun is out

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Whenever someone tries to hypothesize a bad faith scenario in which trans mascs have male privilege they always reveal their lack of knowledge on the trans masc experience.

"But what if your name on your application says John", well what if I chose an anti-assimilate name? What if I never changed my legal name? What if my name identifies me as a minority of another kind? What if my appearance doesn't match my name? What if my gender marker still says F? What if I don't pass? What if everyone already knows I'm trans because it's a small town and people gossip?

When people create these scenarios, they're imagining a trans man with no complication. His transition was successful in assimilating him into cishet society, no one knows who he was prior, all his documents were successfully changed, he has no other axis of oppression to hold over him. He's basically THE Chad trans man, the Chads Man, if you will.

The problem obviously is, this man basically doesn't exist. And even if he did, the security of his entire existence would require him to keep his mouth shut, don't advocate for himself or other trans people, and to be so deep stealth that he never allows himself to be vulnerable with another human being ever again. If he opens up to anyone about being trans, he immediately loses all those privileges.

All this meant to say...

Pease Stop talking about Chads Man. Chads Man doesn't exist. Your local trans man is most likely a disabled punk with stick n poke tats who doesn't believe in documentation lol.

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Steller’s Jay (Cyanocitta stelleri), LEUCISTIC, family Corvidae, order Passeriformes, Neah Bay, WA, USA

photograph by Mer Parker

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In the land of gods and monsters I was an angel living in the garden of evil

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when im not laughing and having fun i'm being tortured and tormented and psychically attacked. that's what it's like being a dark jester

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found family horror: the queer person who keeps projecting their unmet deepest childhood attachment needs onto you

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NO! Thinking their negative thoughts privately will kill the patient. She needs bitching and whining to live

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got suicide baited on indeed dot com forward slash careers