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Speaking to CBS, Mendez comments, “It’s a terrible action for them to take.” he continues, “I used to be listed as an LGBTQ activist, and now it says ‘Steven Menendez, LGB activist,'” Menendez said. “They took out the Q and the T.”

The trans-exclusionary initialism of “LGB” is sometimes used by transphobes to encourage a social and ideological split between gay, lesbian, and bisexual people and transgender people, based on their differing gender experiences.

Upon learning of the monument’s trans erasure, many New Yorkers and tourists came to the monument to set up unauthorized pride flags in protest, including smaller trans flags planted in the soil.

Jay Edinin of Queens, New York, was one of the people who brought his own flag and told CBS, “I’m not going to stand by and watch us be erased from our own history, from our own communities, and from the visibility that we desperately need right now.”  

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floating in the forest

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wow… you didnt think id let pride end w/o posting the best ever rendition of ‘i will survive’ from 1994 australian cult classic ‘the adventures of priscilla queen of the desert’ did you

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“If a person wants to be a part of your life, they will make an obvious effort to do so. Think twice before reserving a space in your heart for people who do not make an effort to stay.”

— marcandangel

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Cai Zhisong, b. 1972, Motherland Series evokes Qin and Han Dynasties (221–206 BC and 206 BC–220 AD), eras of power translated into a life-size artistic narrative.

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Swimmer

Fataah Tariq Dihaan

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we all should try to see the world from different perspectives

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NSFT Asks

Any unexpected ways kink has improved your life?  If so, what are they?

Are piercings sexy?

Are tattoos sexy?

Are there any sex toys you want to try?

Are you more of a dominant, submissive, or switch?

Are you rough or romantic?

Are you the jealous type?

Are you vocal during sex?

Do you have a gag reflex?

Do you kiss on the first date?

Do you like being blindfolded?

Do you like dirty talk?

Do you like hair-pulling?

Do you like it rough or romantic?

Do you like it when your sexual partner moans?

Do you like name-calling in bed?

Do you like seeing the evidence (bruises, bite marks, hickies)?

Do you like teasing or being teased?

Do you like to cuddle?

Do you like to swallow?

Do you like watching or being watched?

Do you prefer having foreplay or getting right to it?

Do you prefer long hair or short hair?

Do you prefer to give or receive when it comes to sex?

Do you watch porn?

Have you ever cried during sex?

Have you ever faked an orgasm?

Have you ever had a one-night stand?

Have you ever had sex in a public place?

Have you ever had sex in the shower?

Have you ever had to use your safe word?

Have you ever spanked or been spanked in the bedroom?

Have you ever squirted before?

Have you/would you have a threesome?

Have you/would you participate in an orgy?

Have/would you ever have sex outside?

How do you feel about public displays of affection?

How many people have you had sex with?

Is it good sex even if you don’t cum?

Tongue or no tongue while kissing?

What are your BDSM test results?

What are your thoughts on friends with benefits?

What do you like and dislike about oral sex?

What do you think about toys in the bedroom?

What do you wear to bed?

What is an overrated sex position?

What is an underrated sex position?

What is one thing you really like during sex that you wish happened more often?

What is something that never fails to make you horny?

What is the best sexual ego boost you’ve received?

What is the first thing that draws your attention when you meet someone new?

What is your biggest turn-off?

What is your favorite color to wear?

What is your favorite kind of foreplay?

What is your favorite kink and why?

What is your favorite part of your body?

What is your favorite pet name?

What is your favorite position in the bedroom?

What is your favorite type of non-sexual contact?

What is your newest kink?

What is your safe word?

What is your top sexual fantasy?

Which part of your body do you consider the most sexy?

Would you have sex on the first date?

Would you rather be handcuffed or blindfolded?

Would you rather make out or cuddle?

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> person complains about faggots saying faggot

> check bio

> 16

> pour a double shot of whisky and just sit there holding it for an hour

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Shifty Pride Collection

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Happy pride month to my dad. When I came out as bi to him, this man googled what it ment, look at me and said "ohh. Yeah. You get that from me. You'd have far more siblings of I only shaged women." And went right back to his work emails.

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polaroid of me on my knees looking up at you while ur cocks laying on my face🥹🥹

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Wikihow doesn't know the half of it

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When people online talk about distinctions between text and visual porn... I mostly think that that's not the most-useful framework. To me... Yeah, video porn is mostly about the sex-acts, about the shapes of the actors' bodies, about all those subtle aesthetic things that are really hard-to-characterize... But pictures! Pictures are all about imagination! They invite you to come up with a story! Sure, a drawing can be mostly saying "look at the proportions on this gal!", and sometimes such a drawing is even good, but... Most of the best pictures are really evocative (in addition to having really good subtle and hard-to-describe aesthetics!). As they say, a picture is worth a thousand words! It asks you to use your imagination differently than a piece of text does.

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Yeah. Hell, even video isn't restricted to your classic porno movie people are probably picturing. Propaganda Magazine made those bizarre-ass art film VHS tapes that veered between their usual softcore-adjacent photoshoot vibes and bad film school project. Imagination was the whole point.

The reason a lot of filmed sex doesn't really capture this vibe is that it is using cinematic language to say the equivalent of "First this happened. Then this happened. Then this happened."

Film is one of the greatest mediums to capture aspects of the human emotional and psychological experience that are hard to verbalize, but you have to create it in a much more artificial way in order to arrive at an authentic feeling.

A classic porno, meanwhile, is showing you "the real thing" by just shoving a camera in front of a sex act. This is authentic in one sense but deeply inauthentic in another.

Yes, I know pornos have editing. The only award-winning porno editor is actually a slash fangirl and now m/m novelist. But the stereotypical film we're thinking of doesn't have the kind of camerawork and editing that I mean.

If you look at a very sexually explicit film that's intended as ~cinema~ rather than a literal porno, it becomes obvious what I mean—Lucia y el sexo, say, or Lie with Me.

It's just that those of us having these conversations here have a wealth of experience with brilliant erotic writing with a variety of styles and aims but a paucity of experience with the diversity of filmed sex.

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How to put on a drag show when drag shows are outlawed.

You know what the world really needs now? Flash mobs. Those were fun. Annoying but innocent fun.