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Autumn 🥺🍂🍁🍄☔🌌🐸🍄‍🟫🍲🥧☕🍵

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neither you nor anyone else alive is ontologically incapable of abuse

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Street is definitely encouraging my kneecap to dislocate.

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yeah actually we removed the big bad wolf from the little red riding hood story because portraying violence against minors is really messed up. yeah. yeah also the wolf narrative was really predatory and had had some icky grooming vibes and a fable meant for literal children shouldn’t have implied p*do shit and grape so now little red riding hood goes into the woods and nothing happens and she goes to grandma’s house. don’t worry our kids will still stick to the path and know not to follow to wolves implicitly because we told them to and children should always do as their told. just like little red riding hood does now.

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really not sure when it happened or why but personally I'm pissed that the queer community at large seems to have given up ground on the "people with penises/vulvas/testes/ovaries" language to sex & gender essentialists in exchange for the much less precise, much more demeaning "AGAB" language.

is it because you're scared of the word vulva? of acknowledging out loud that some people have penises? of recognising that many many people, including but certainly not limited to trans people, have mixed sex characteristics that cannot be accurately summarised by "afab/amab" as shorthand for "female/male"?

"in [GENITAL RELATED] situation AFABs will need to do X and AMABs will need to do Y" there are "afabs" with penises and "amabs" with vulvas. Saying this shit makes you look so unserious & honestly transphobic (given the ongoing erasure of post-op trans people within broader community). Intersex people and GRS have both existed for long enough (fucking forever and, decades, respectively) that we should well past making this basic fucking mistake.

quit referring to people by a vague & often violent event that happened at their birth as though it defines ANYTHING about how they & their body currently operate, and start using precise language so you at least look like you know what you're fucking talking about.

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I just realised that this salmon red dress actually looks like salmon... I'm so pale I might just be able to pass for a nigiri in it.

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boy. birthday boy.

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do yall ever wonder what you’re best known for in the fandom ?

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I love how the fact that Beck would have died if Joe hadn't helped her out of the tracks is saying that she's living on borrowed time ever since Joe came into her life. It's not exactly subtle, or anything (like this show often purposefully isn't) but it's just somehow so well written and I love how intentional it is with everything.

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bring me back to a time when fandoms were not perishable goods with an expiration date of like... 6 months

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Reblog and tag with your favorite magical girl which isn't Sailor Moon

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Reblog and put in the tag your favorite work of fictional media where the female characters are leagues more important, well-written, and interesting than the men and how they are interesting! (To subvert the standard stereotype in fandom that male characters are better because they’re inherently more interesting than female characters!) 😉

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having a tumblr blog is for those of us who could never manage to keep a diary for more than two weeks when we were twelve

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We ask your questions anonymously so you don’t have to! Submissions are open on the 1st and 15th of the month.

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I just realised that after being forced to weigh in and sometimes write back cover texts and summaries for my books for four years.... I actually can do a somewhat decent job now. That means it's time to update my fic summaries! 😆

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Reblog and put in the tags if you’ve ever shipped a pairing believing there was zero chance of it ever becoming canon, but then it actually DID become canon