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the secret to organising any kind of trip with your friends is to become the benevolent dictator. do NOT wait for everyone to provide a consensus on things before you book anything. do it and then ask for feedback after. do not ask people what they would like to do just tell them what is happening and let them all nod along like the sheep they are. this is the ONLY way to coordinate a group of adults in their 20s/30s

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in a way I feel like I was born in that bedroom and shaped myself in it. I've been outside that room for a long time now but I'm actually still in it and I'm afraid I don't know where the door is. I'm even more afraid that were I to see the door I wouldn't know how to unlock it.

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it doesn’t have to be good it just has to be done

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ⓘ This user needs a long break from everything.

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FUCK. honestly just FUCK. We missed a very important day yesterday.

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in celebration of april 13, i present all four known photos of neil, who banged out the tunes 19 years ago today

source: theagilerat.com (click right to see all four photos!)

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theres a phenomenon that happens on here i have been calling "normalize loving parents posting" which is when you spend a lot of time on tumblr and are exposed to a lot of one specific counter-cultural narrative day in and day out until you start to forget what the dominant ideas are for most of the human population and thus feel the need to "defend" things that are widely accepted and popular. it's called this because of the time a bunch of text posts about shitty dads were circulating and then people with good relationships with their dad didn't feel included enough and started making "uhmmm can we normalize loving parents? not everyone has a deadbeat dad, MY dad is great" type posts, seemingly forgetting that good relationship with dad is a cultural norm that is expected and encouraged. i think its good practice, especially when im annoyed, to stop before i hit the post button and ask myself if this is a real issue or if im normalize loving parents posting. because often im about to try to normalize loving parents

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anyone else have to like. gentle parent their moms about food. my mom is like “let’s be naughty and eat pizza” and i gently say “food is not inherently good or bad”

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Happy Birthday Big Bill!

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what if we got married? what if we had a kid or two? what if you let me take care of your dog with you until he's old and grey? what if we got that degree, a modest job and rented a small house inconveniently out of the way because it's the only one we could afford? what if I made you coffee everyday and you cooked dinner cause I'm terrible in the kitchen? can I go to sleep holding you everyday and wake up in opposite sides of the bed because it's way too hot in this city? can we go for night walks at the park like we did that day every week? can we smoke quietly in the living room? can we watch shitty realities every night? can I make you happy? can you make me happy? baby I can make you happy I promise

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Frieren - Thanks for the Journey Definitely my favorite anime this last season, sad it's over now it got me so emotional!

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so true