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Daily orgasm report fell off because I moved and now I’m unpacked and this is Day 2 in a row

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Daily Orgasm Reporting:

Rang in 2025 one orgasm. I do think this orgasm quota will help increase my libido… the thought alone is beginning to make my body tingle when I think about it…

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i have started off with Three Edges and an orgasm 🥵

i think i will start with a daily orgasm quota with a bonus goal of two edges

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i think i will start with a daily orgasm quota with a bonus goal of two edges

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Memory play where you just tell a subject to forget something can be perfectly effective and fun on specific kinds of subjects, who are particularly susceptible to that sort of suggestion, but the real secret sauce, the next-level stuff, is memory play focused around interfering with attempts to remember.

Making it so they think they remember a session, but anytime they try to remember any details or what it was about they go blank.

Making it so that whenever they try to remember what you did to them while they were under, their mind floods with so many different fantasies of what you might have done that they can't tell which one is the real memory.

making it so that any time they try to think about or remember a trance, they just end up getting hypnotized by their own memories instead.

It's a spell that's a little more difficult to break, and a little easier to experience for minds that aren't used to simply forgetting on command. Plus it has fun side effects on the sub that you can essentially trigger any time by prompting them to try and remember :3

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How not to be an abusive kinky hypnotist

CW: examples of abuse and rape

Inspired by something I saw on Fetlife, I decided to write a list of common consent violations in our kinky subculture. These guidelines are not hard and fast rules, but following them might decrease the chances you accidentally abuse or assault someone as a hypnotist.

Don't rape people. I'm fucking serious. Don't insert any part of your body into any of their orifices without their explicit consent. Not even your fingers. Don't remove the condom without their consent. Just don't rape.

Just check in with them. If at any time during the scene you're not sure if they're still having a good time, if they look uncomfortable, if you're not sure what that facial expression or that silence means, just ask them how they're doing. Hypnotised people can let you know how they're doing, all you have to do is ask.

Negotiate before the scene, not during the scene. Even if you wake them up from trance, they might be altered enough to have a lapse in judgement.

If you're not sure whether you should proceed, it's always safer to stop the scene than to continue.

If your trance partner tells you "no sexual stuff", you need to ask them what that means. To many people, a fully clothed, no touch orgasm is still "sexual stuff". An imagined scene in trance can be terribly sexual, even if you don't actually touch your fully clothed partner. Don't assume what their words mean, always ask them to elaborate. And don't assume that everyone likes orgasms!

Don't give them any triggers or suggestions that outlast your scene without their explicit consent. It's especially not ok to suggest to them to contact you or have another scene with you. Don't fucking trance them to make them play with you again. NOT OK!

If you're trancing someone for the first time, make it more about practice or getting to know each other's limits, and less about sexy play, especially if they've never done kinky hypnosis before.

If you're trancing someone for the first time, do it at an event where such a scene is appropriate

If they are much younger than you, new to the scene and/or if they went to a workshop or class your taught, there is a power differential in your interaction with them. You have more experience and/or authority than they do and this makes it harder for them to set boundaries or say no to you. The safest way to not cross their boundaries is to decline to trance them. If you do decide to proceed, tread very carefully. Check in often. Err on the side of caution.

If someone tells you, you have crossed one of their boundaries, believe them, and have a serious talk. Don't belittle their experience or say your intention wasn't to harm. Accept you did harm, and listen to what the person you harmed needs to heal. And then do those things, even if they are not fun for you (like: not go to certain parties for a while)

Many of these points were inspired consent violations that have actually happened in the hypnokink community. If you have any questions, feel free to contact me.

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One of my favorite moments is watching you while you are senseless. Just calmly observing all the little things while your brain is insensate. Exhausted face. Mouth just a little agape. Breathing deep. Eyes sometimes twitching beneath closed lids, just a bit fluttery. You’ve willingly given me a precious gift and surrendered so much. Your mind is not there, but I am. I’m with you. And you’re beautiful.

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i think i might implement an orgasm quota for myself, i don’t know. i miss being horny

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The cute thing about academically successful girls is how willingly they let you take advantage of their imposter syndrome 🌷💕

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need to be condescendingly saying “ohhhh i knowwww, sweetheart” while i add another finger and kiss your neck

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i’m so high and just thinking about someone talking down to me in the most gentle and kind way is making my cunt flutter. not even a degrading “talking down,” more loving, like an “I know you can’t think so hard right now so let me make my words nice and easy for you” dumbing down.

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dreaming of how easily and how intensely and how many different ways you could use hypnosis to embarrass me

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cuddle fucking & praising you until we cum

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Let your submissive rename you.

You belong to them just as much as they belong to you.

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Fun triggers to give your subjects

-They believe anything you say when you put you hand on their shoulder

-They get really tired and sleepy (not trancey, just sleepy and kinda loopy) when you put your hand on their cheek)

-Dragging your finger from their forehead to the tip of their nose repeatedly makes them dumber and dumber, more confused, need things to be explained by you

-Making circles on their forehead with your finger will slowly wipe all thought from their mind and/or make them unable to move until you order them to go back to normal. Again not quite trancey their brains are just silent.