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Coming back to this because it's so fucking weird to have "proship DNI" in ur bio when your not an NSFW account and also don't have "NSFW DNI" besides it. Like what are fucking talking Abt that's such a random thing to state

Its so funny when ppl put in their non-nsfw account bios that they're antis/have "pr/os/hip dni" in their bio. And then attempt to make friends with strangers. And then get really fucking angry when you say that technically fall under their dni and despite it being non of their business... it's not something you publicly post nor associate with this username...

I don't feel comfortable being around someone who doesn't like a specific type of content so violently that they put it in their dni. I don't even tell most friends Abt the type of content I write and I didn't fully explain what I write. Just that I don't feel comfortable since it falls under their clear and important DNI.

(and the fact that if they ever found out they'd make a massive stink about finding out Abt it to everyone they're friends with. And antis definitely handle finding out that someone likes a type of fiction they don't in a healthy manner)

When I told em they said

"ugh, of course you do. Fuck you." And then blocked me. Like I was going to block them anyway just for everyone's comfort but like way to understand that someone's right off the back telling you that they break your DNI after you approached them. And then being mad at them.

It's just. I don't know it's bonkers that if you're going to have an open and clear DNI and then getting mad when someone you have approached says that they count as that too???

Just baffled with being mad Abt approaching someone and your DNI is a DNI for them too

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Its so funny when ppl put in their non-nsfw account bios that they're antis/have "pr/os/hip dni" in their bio. And then attempt to make friends with strangers. And then get really fucking angry when you say that technically fall under their dni and despite it being non of their business... it's not something you publicly post nor associate with this username...

I don't feel comfortable being around someone who doesn't like a specific type of content so violently that they put it in their dni. I don't even tell most friends Abt the type of content I write and I didn't fully explain what I write. Just that I don't feel comfortable since it falls under their clear and important DNI.

(and the fact that if they ever found out they'd make a massive stink about finding out Abt it to everyone they're friends with. And antis definitely handle finding out that someone likes a type of fiction they don't in a healthy manner)

When I told em they said

"ugh, of course you do. Fuck you." And then blocked me. Like I was going to block them anyway just for everyone's comfort but like way to understand that someone's right off the back telling you that they break your DNI after you approached them. And then being mad at them.

It's just. I don't know it's bonkers that if you're going to have an open and clear DNI and then getting mad when someone you have approached says that they count as that too???

Just baffled with being mad Abt approaching someone and your DNI is a DNI for them too

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I just want to say that. It's not a debate if nobodies mind is going to be changed from it. You're just arguing.

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this is so brain dead i just. it’s 1 am and i can not believe cannibalism is okay and not proship ??????????

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when we talk about killing Cringe Culture that includes harmless Weird Fetishes too. if you rag on people who are into like feet or vore or inflation or whatever and make a whole big thing of yelling about how cursed it is thats super lame of you and i wish you the courage to Grow Up

FAQ for people who will choose to misinterpret this post:

no, this is not about pedophilia or whatever awful thing you want to accuse me of supporting

no, i am not saying you have to enjoy these things. i am saying we shouldnt shame other people for enjoying them

no, i am not saying its ok for people to deliberately expose or involve others in their sexual interests without consent

yes, i am calling you a big baby if you make a show of acting like weird fetishes are soooo cursed bleach my eyes kill it with fire etc. googoogaga Grow Up

if you are annoying on this post im blocking you

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nerds are all "acab" and "be gay do crime" until you write a fanfiction they don't like, then they try to narc on you to the literal feds

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Constant negativity about everything because you're afraid of liking the wrong thing is a rotten way to live.

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People who demand your political opinion both irl and online are super annoying. Nobody owes you a political opinion. And nobody wants you to force yours on others.

Call me a coward and immature then scream and bitch that I won't tell you how I feel on a topic, go on, prove to me how mature it is it demand someone's thoughts on something their not comfortable sharing.

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Ppl really be like "kill all men is a valid thing to say and you're dismissing trauma by disagreeing"

BESTIE.

WHAT.

I got surprise TERF'd by a friend group I'd known almost a year. It's wild. It be your own friends who insist all men are rapists and evil.

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I see a lot of antis equate enjoying a fictional scenario means people are going to feel braver to go out and do that thing.

I have a rape kink, I have a fantasy of being raped. Am I going to go out and actually try and get raped?

If I get raped, do I deserve it because I indulge in the fantasy?

No, because it's almost like I can distinct reality from fiction and I don't want to ACTUALLY be raped. Just like I don't actually want to rape someone else, but still enjoy the fantasy.

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I hate the term proshipper.

I hate that the term is needed.

I shouldn’t have to advertise that I wouldn’t harass you if you ship something I dislike.    That should be the default stance among mature people, it shouldn’t need to be specified!

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to anyone who needs to hear it:

you do not need to disclose your mental illness to justify your interest in dark media

you do not need to disclose your past trauma to justify your interest in dark media

you do not need to be mentally ill, neurodivergent, or traumatized in order to have an interest in dark media

humans have and always will have an interest in the dark, mysterious, dangerous, and taboo. you don’t have to justify yourself - you’re simply human.

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Make it make sense

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I honestly don’t know how to tell you these shocking facts but fucked up things in stories were not invented by AO3

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“let people enjoy things” is quickly becoming a very dangerous phrase