ferrycorstenfan

[ferrycorstenfan]

first house purchase!

i am going to blog religiously from today onwards to start journaling my life again! yes it is a very ambitious deal and i will probably stop in a week but just want something to look back on in the future, when im old and grey haired.

hate to be one of those couples that function as a singular body all the time and life revolves around nothing but couple activities, but i guess i am becoming that in certain ways. david and i are buying our first home today! (tonight, we are handing over the first cheque) i can’t believe i’m saying that. it feels so bizarre! never thought this day would come.

im kind of still stunned. gone are the days where we’d fight every week about other people and small things. to my own amazement, we havent had a quarrel in around 3 months (save that one exception at zion road). guess we’re too comfortable around each other to pick fights anymore, we just choose our battles more carefully. i suppose it’s also because we’re more secure in our relationship so we (me?) trust each other to make decisions with care for each other in mind. is this what being in a happy and healthy relationship feels like, at last? after like, 7 or 8 years of dating, im finally in a good relationship and im a healthy and happy individual!? my younger self would be proud!!

going to be neighbors with marcus and tricia! im actually really happy and excited. it’s going to be like phuket again! poolside convo boutcha summer last night... think god is really blessing us with full hearts and tummies, lots of love and laughter. i only pray there is more to come. 

the house is going to be a stretch for us. hello caipng lifestyle, i am ready to embrace you!