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how do intox scenes work? how can you be sure that whoever's intoxicated isnt so out of it they can't say the safeword?

Ive been meaning to answer this! Ok so for me ive only done actual intox with my partner, ive had like tipsy hookups before i was with him, but i wouldn't consider that the same as an intox kink scene. You need to actually talk and establish boundaries ahead of time while sober. You should already know likes and dislikes generally, but its also worth asking while youre both sober if yall want to go along with new things that might come up during the scene. Like maybe when ur sober and not in a kink headspace you dont really love degradation, but for some reason when ur high and in subspace you want it really fucking badly. Ask each other ahead of time if you feel comfortable playing along with a situation like that or if you wanna side step it until you're not intoxicated.

How do you know if theyre too out of it to safeword- 1) start small 2) make them practice

1) dont get super crazy drunk/ high for sex, especially when starting out.

2) literally most underrated foreplay ever is making ur partner practice saying no. Touch them, kiss them, do your standard foreplay stuff, and instruct them to randomly safeword or tell you no. As soon as they do, you stop everything and praise them for it, like "Thank you so much for stopping me, you're such a good boy. Wanna keep going?" And then continue as you were. Have them practice safewording like 3-5 times over the course of kinda intensifying foreplay as a good clarity check. Then signal the "game" is over somehow, like saying "ok, ready to go for real now?" This is fun even just for any new kink endeavor btw (i did this a lot with bondage at first!). Its really just to make it feel less scary for both of u to safeword/ react to a safeword, and build trust that youll actually stop immediately, plus it reminds them its an option even if theyre a lil out if it.

YOU SHOULD DO MUCH MORE RESEARCH THAN READING THIS POST TO RNGAGE IN INTOX KINK IRL PLS GOD ok thanks

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How a butch looks at you when she's thinking about caressing your sensitive pointy ears.

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it takes lots of other fun pictures too...

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they often have their wings clipped, to make them dependent on their owner

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he wishes you a happy Easter!!!

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