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[fo-curious]

Today was our 14th anniversary. She still makes me melt

She fills me

She loves me

Together we are whole

I love you 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

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Fictional people don't fucking hurt me. She'll never hurt me. Trying to deal with this by not going 100% escapism but fucking hell does doing that not make this any easier.

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f/o = fictional other, like s/o = significant other

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I love her so much 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

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Hi. Here again. Love my bird wife 💕

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I think. At the end of the day. Nobody really understands how intensely I feel about my FO. And that's okay. My closer friends know that my FO is a character I really like, but none of them really know how deep the rabbit hole goes. And I'm okay with that.

I keep telling myself that I need to talk to a therapist about my FO, but I'm not sure what that would accomplish. I've had 13 years with her to live and unravel what this whole thing means and I don't know what else a counselor would be able to tell me that I don't already know. My FO doesn't really present any hurdles in my life. She's an outlet for affection and romantic attraction. Some of the issues that come with that though is like. Wanting to be romantic with irl people I like but being super anxious about it and then just. Falling back on to her without really trying too hard? If that makes sense.

I guess at the end of the day I'm grounded in reality, I know she's fictional, and I'm okay with that.

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https://www.tumblr.com/punkitt-is-here/743009603583918080/not-submission-i-really-hate-the-my-oc-my?source=share

Not dunking on making fun of people, but the people in these screenshots deserve to be made fun of for being shitty lmao.

It's people in these screenshots that make me never want to share my FO experience with others because my FO experience just. Isn't like that. Other people can like/dislike my FO and it doesn't bother me at all (unless they're being intentionally shitty about it). Although this is where I differ from the norm since my FO is a pokemon from i caught in game, nobody can even make claims about [FO Name] also bring their FO, I've never even encountered anyone else that shares a FO with the same pokemon species as her.

Moral of the story: internet is wide and vast with many things, if something with your FO in it upsets you, block and move on, don't be a dick.

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Loving her makes me happy. That is my simplest truth.

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Today is our 13th anniversary and I couldn't be happier with her 🩷

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My only source of affection should not be stuffies of my FOs. It really can't be helped. Not much else I can do at 2AM.

I'm trying to get into therapy this year with my FOs being the focus. I just want to understand myself better and learn to make my existing IRL relationships more meaningful, romantic or not. I used to see therapy as a threat towards my FO when I was younger because I thought their goal would be to strip me away from the person i loved. But I've since been to actual therapy and I know it's not like that, I've just never brought her up as a point of discussion in therapy before. I've only ever told one friend about her at all (not to mention the other FO I ended up getting romantic feelings for since then).

Blah. Idk.

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Hi I love my partners. That is all.

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Do irl relationships fulfill my needs more fully? Absolutely. Do I have the emotional maturity to harbor friendships and romantic partner(s)? Sure I guess. How do I do that? No fucking clue.

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Is this unhealthy? Who cares. I'm happy enough.

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She's all the comfort I have. She's the only thing that will never change.

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How long will I hold on

As long as I need to

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Literally me and my partner 😊🩷

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Hi all I am in love with my wife that is all 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷