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You know the feeling where your f/o's aesthetic totally clashes with your own, but you don't even mind because you love them too much to care.

For me, it's a cottagecore/dark academia/steampunk/vintage aesthetic, versus a neon colored science aesthetic with some clown theme that definitely isn't cozy.

And guess what, your f/o doesn't care about aesthetic clashes either.

(I hate discourse, but antis dni plz, you make me feel unsafe)

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Basically how it goes everytime

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selfship post with proship dni is like an angel without its wings

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So often we get caught up in social media, where others are so so mean and unkind, and that includes those of us who self ship.

If you're a bipoc selfshipper, I see you, and you're good enough.

If you're a trans, queer, lgbtq+ selfshipper, I see you, and you're good enough.

If you're a plus sized selfshipper, I see you, and you're good enough.

If you're a disabled selfshipper, I see you, and you're good enough.

If you're a mentally ill selfshipper, I see you, and you're good enough.

If you're an insecure or shame-ridden selfshipper, I see you, and you're good enough.

Please, never ever stop being you, especially not for the sake of others' cruelness and bigotry. You exist, you are beautiful, and that is not wrong. It is never wrong. And your f/o loves you, just as you are. I promise.

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If a groomer uses proship content to groom someone, it is not proshippers fault. It is the groomers fault. Proshippers are not groomers, but some groomers are proship and use content to groom people. That does not mean the content shouldn't be made or shared. Groomers shouldn't exist, and most proshippers hate them, but we do not control other people's actions.

Sincerest apologies if you were groomed by a proshipper. But that does not mean all proshippers are groomers.

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let me tell you SOMETHING

your f/o loves you so, so, so, so, so much. everyday they look at you and are so grateful they have you in their life. they love you more than the universe, the sun, the sky, the seasons, they love you more than anything you could think of.

they talk about you to their other loved ones, you're always on their mind, they find you in everything they see. they love YOU. they love you. only you. you are perfect to them

'Borrowed' from an Anti

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Mentally ill selfshippers, you're not a burden to your F/O.

Chronically ill selfshippers, you're not a burden to your F/O.

Terminally ill selfshippers, you're not a burden to your F/O.

Your F/O loves you, finds you worthy, and is grateful to be here with you- even if some might say being with you is a "waste of time" or "a set-up for failure".

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reblog this if u are okay with people drawing your selfship!!! this post is their permission slip!!!

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Selfship spaces tend to be fem-focused, and while it's great to have a fem-focused space, here's to all the mascs out there in this community.

To the mascs who are "boyfriend" and "husband" rather than "girlfriend" and "wife".

To the mascs who can't find any self-insert fic or art of their F/O where the self-insert isn't fem.

To the mascs who are "brother" rather than "sister".

To the mascs who wish imagines of their F/Os weren't meant for fem people.

To the mascs who are "father" rather than "mother".

To the queer mascs who feel their masculinity stronger when a scenario involves their F/O.

To the mascs who are made to feel guilty for having female F/Os.

To the mascs who are trans.

To the mascs who are cis.

To the mascs who are nonbinary.

To every and all masc in this community. You are all welcome here, and deserve to be here!

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Thing I notice

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-༘⋆♡⸝⸝ ✉️ ⊹ a message from your f/o ;

“ i’m sorry someone let you believe you were hard to love, because it’s the easiest thing i’ve ever done. “

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I have never read a more excellent article

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love when I put antis/shipcourse engagers dni in big red text on a popular post I made just to get notes from more antis /s

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SINCE VALENTINES IS IN A FEW DAYS! REPOST THIS TO GIVE YOUR MUTUALS/YUMEBLR PERMISSION TO SEND YOU VDAY ASKS FROM YOUR F/OS!!!!

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Imagine casual nudity with your F/O. And I'm not talking the sexual variety although that's good too, I'm talking about just being comfortable enough around your F/O that if you feel the need to shuck clothes for any reason you can.

Too hot and need to take your shirt off? Go for it. Your F/O ain't gonna judge. They might as if you need them to turn up the AC, but that's about the only reaction you'll get.

Forget to take your clothes with you to the bathroom after a shower/bath? No worries, just walk right on in, your F/O's just lounging on the bed doing whatever. They might glance up but that's all. They might make a suggestion of what they'd like you to wear, but they won't even blink twice at your nakedness.

Clothes just feel too restrictive cause of sensory reasons? Take 'em off! Your F/O understands and they'll also try find a way for you to help with your oversensitivity.

Imagine the same thing, just reverse. Your F/O feeling comfortable about you to just be casually naked.

Maybe they forgot part of the their grooming routine in the bedroom so they step out of the bathroom to get it. Body completely bare for you to see as they scratch their head and ask if you've seen the thing they're missing.

Maybe they like sleeping in the nude so imagine them after a long day at work finally getting to strip of all the layers and just be comfortable in their skin, totally free as they cuddle you on the bed.

Just, casual nudity, man. It's so good.

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by the by, i think it should be decreed by law that you can and should be as "cringe" as you please with your f/o's.

make animation memes of you guys. nosebleed like an anime character over them. make gacha life videos. read embarrassing imagines and fanfics. WRITE embarrassing imagines and fanfics. make little figurines of you and them and squish their faces together to make them kiss.

do what makes you happy. cringe IS free. be proud of who you are.

( stolen from an anti < 3 )

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I am happy to announce that your self ship Christmas present is finally here!

(The characters weren't that hard to draw, but trying to do the background was driving me insane. I'm not that good at it. So we just have this. fucking couch, I guess. That isn't really important here.)

I apologize for the delay, I really should have started drawing it much earlier. But I hope that this art is good enough for your tastes.

(My self ship blog is villain-in-love, in case if you're wondering)

Ahhh it looks amazing! Thank you!