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“Of course I can’t stay away from men. I’m sexually attracted to them, humans crave intimacy, and wanting to pass on your genes is normal.” So much for bioessentialism being a bad thing…

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"But perhaps the very greatest danger of entering into a sexual relationship too early is that it sets a pattern, if one is not very careful, for future behaviour. A teenage boy who is desperate for sex may never learn to become an unselfish man, but may grow up imagining that women exist just for his sexual pleasure. A girl who enters into sexual relationships too early in life may never learn how to become a person in her own right, and may spend the rest of her adulthood looking for somebody to lean on, feeling bereft if she does not have a relationship of some kind with a man — however unsatisfactory that relationship may be."

- "Sex is Not Compulsory: Giving Up Sex for Better Health and Greater Happiness" by Liz Hodgkinson

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🖊 blogs

Lessons learned being a single childfree woman

`/ chromosome operating like rabies theory

Fake sisterhood I

Everyone knows the danger of xys

Moid pandering is an act of survival, all women know that moids are dangerous

Women know that moids are dangerous; their pandering is mostly an act part II

What to focus on in life now as a single childfree woman

Attempted domestication of women

Genocide of the gyn

Toxicity & Exploitation of communities

MaIes are aware of female oppression, they just dont care

Energy to carry as a single childfree woman

Physical strength differences between the sexes isn't the primary issue

Find purpose to being a single childfree woman

Dont put a target on your back as a single childfree woman

Dealing with maIe retaliation

My response to the infamous "maIes will rape and kill us all if women leave them" argument

Types of women/red flags to avoid in friendships

MaIe projection

Have non-political motives for not dating or getting married

Friendships with other women

You are not a charity

Friendships with maIes

Why I'm not a separatist

PIV is disgusting and perfectly normal to hate & see it as a threat

My thoughts on radicalising women

Dealing with the blackpill I

Dealing with the blackpill II

Women aren't better, they just lack power

Dealing with loneliness

Nothing you do will please maIes because the cruelty is the point

It's still worth being strong as a woman

Why I'm not a feminist

Things I live by

Simply enjoying yourself is resistance

Female fake flexes

Dealing with distress (blackpill version)

Stop tying your fate to other women

When you acknowledge the evil that sex is, you start caring less

Key Asks

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Beware of fake sisterhood. Female solidarity isn't real. Yes we need each other but we also need real mutually beneficial relationships.

Motherhood discourse with the whole "but single childfree women need to help we're all in this together🥺🥺🥺" bullshit is proof that even women wouldn't leave women who go their own way alone. Everyone needs & uses women for labour, as a scapegoat, or as a sacrifice.

It is underestimated how much women use other women to survive under maIe supremacy. The trads use the likes of feminists presence to virtue signal being the "better" women. The mothers who expect labour from other women to pick up the slack of their children's father (only to still prioritise him anyways). Sex-posi feminists encouraging other women to have dangerous 'sex' with maIes or offer themselves to help with "maIe loneliness" even though most times they won't do the same. Women in relationships with moids use their -typically- single friends as therapists/emotional dumpsters only to return to him anyways & even throw her friends under the bus for him.

Many will talk about "sisterhood" and how we're all in it together but the dynamic is often one-sided. Single childfree women aren't strong soldiers; they're also vulnerable especially as the amount of single/childfree women grows in size because that means less moids having slaves & reproducing. That means less people for the government to grind, less believers for religious institutions to exploit and keep the system churning. The economy makes it difficult to survive alone. Being a single childfree woman makes you an easier target yet other women wont help you, they want to use & discard you. They say we're all in it together so we dont leave them behind.

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No matter how harsh any blackpiller's criticism is of het partnership and the women who engage in it, they're still 1000x more moral and fundamentally concerned with women's safety than any radfem who gently condones and encourages such relationships with sweet words and a soft tone.

The former is temporarily bruising your ego, and the latter is encouraging you to get into a dynamic that we know is consistently exploitative to women and too often leads to abuse, sexual assault (including coerced sex through guilt and pressure, which is astoundingly common) and murder.

Blackpillers are friends disguised as enemies; radfems who encourage het partnership are enemies disguised as friends.

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Women are not victims are patriarchy. They're co-authors.

The facade of helpless victim needs to end. As if a woman never set another woman up to get assaulted by a man, as if a mother never harmed her own damn kids, as if women don't don't possess a fucking lick of evil within themselves.

Refusing to coddle grown women isn't misogyny, by the way. Grow up.

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for me blackpill is not nihilistic or pessimistic per se. it is more about acceptance. If the collective of women have demonstrated through their words and actions that they do not want to be or are unwilling to take the action to be liberated, then that’s my sign. It’s my sign to focus inward and stop trying to convince. I accept other women’s love of men and patriarchy. I accept their pack of willingness to do any form of separatism. I accept that they want to be trad wives and sugar babies. They say it’s their choice and it is. Who am I to take away their choices?

No matter how sound my arguments are, there’s no convincing someone who doesn’t want to be convinced.

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You can not say, "Womens actions are a result of social conditioning and they're not at fault; they're not responsible for what they do," while also saying, "Men's actions are a result of social conditioning and they're at fault; they're responsible for what they do," and expect to be taken seriously.

You can not infantalize our entire sex class while complaining that men see themselves as the adults in the room who need to be in charge of things.

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“Of course I can’t stay away from men. I’m sexually attracted to them, humans crave intimacy, and wanting to pass on your genes is normal.” So much for bioessentialism being a bad thing…

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don't mean this as victim blaming, only pointing out this same cycle repeating since the beginning - Gisèle Pélicot herself admitted in an interview she knew her husband had been previously caught taking upskirt photos & "forgave him". don't know if she knew he was also a suspect in a murder-rape case, but i find difficult to imagine she didn't. women keep defending and forgiving sexual predators until they themselves are the victims. i am 100% sure this is how it's going to pan out for some of the rapist's wives as well, in a few years time: they will start beating THEM, or assaulting THEM this time, or whatever the shit, and that will be the only moment where (a few of them) will wake up. but only for a few seconds though! sincerely doubt any of them will learn any sort of lesson with this. women are too stupid to do so.

True. I have nothing else to add

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Women are not victims are patriarchy. They're co-authors.

The facade of helpless victim needs to end. As if a woman never set another woman up to get assaulted by a man, as if a mother never harmed her own damn kids, as if women don't don't possess a fucking lick of evil within themselves.

Refusing to coddle grown women isn't misogyny, by the way. Grow up.

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We talk a lot about men invading feminist spaces for their personal gain but not enough about how so many communist women do the exact same thing — leeching off the labour and resources of single, independent and well-off women all under the banner of sisterhood and female solidarity. Honestly, I don’t blame those women who have distanced themselves from feminist activism anymore because y'all have turned feminism into an emotional power grid for miserable and unhealed people like yourselves cause you are still trapped in the belief that women owe kindness, selflessness and emotional labour to everyone by default. Luckily for me, I’m deeply spiritual, and my sixth sense has always been sharp. I can see straight through your manipulative guilt-tripping and professional victimhood so all of that never worked on me. Y'all are just as parasitical as these moids. The only women who are my sisters and I have solidarity with are the ones I’ve intentionally kept close in my inner circle; women who I know are separatists, misandrists and reciprocate the same supportive energy i extend to them. The rest of you clearly don’t want liberation as you’re too busy worshipping moids and then putting the entire responsibility on other women when things go wrong. So no, I don’t give a damn about you anymore. I was on the verge of walking away from feminism too. But after blocking and cutting off a bunch of toxic, miserable wrecks, i remembered I’m a woman too and feminism is for me as well. Nothing is more important to me than my own peace and happiness which i have gained from separating myself from all men and male-centered women (even the ones in my family). And i have zero interest in sacrificing any of it for anybody. Cope and cry!

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Hating blackpillers, 4Bers and separatists who tell you honestly (based on the same statistics and information we're ALL aware of) that dating men is not a wise decision is like being a trans-identified person who hates everyone who doesn't validate their harmful delusion, while believing those who encourage them to go on hormones and cut body parts off are their "friends."

You're basing your assessment on who is telling you what you want to hear and playing to your ego, instead of basing it on who is trying to encourage you to make healthy decisions.

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One uncomfortable realization that you will have once you start learning more and more about feminism, is that the vast majority of self proclaimed ‘feminist’ women do not want to liberate women from the patriarchy entirely but instead they want a benevolent patriarchy.

These women are still obsessed with male domination and in turn the women who see the world for what it is will end up suffering because the majority of women are still bending over backwards to appeal to their oppressors.

Lesbian women, bi women who are febfems, celibate heterosexual women and asexual women. Congratulations, y’all are the chosen ones fr 👏🏾

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One of these days we are going to need to have a serious conversation about how women and young teenage girls are becoming just as porn rotted as their male counterparts just via a different medium.

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You can’t call the world sick when you’re contributing to it’s symptoms. Another example of people playing into perversion, only to complain about it at a later date. The same women willing to turn a pedophile on for a few extra bucks, cry about feeling unsafe. How do you think children, especially girls, feel when both men and women sexualize them nonstop in collaboration? Some of these women will go onto birth daughters. How will they react when the same degenerates they took chump change from turn their attention onto their new targets? Society is doomed, but men aren’t solely responsible. Women’s willingness to submit to them, even when it means indulging immoral behavior, accelerates humanity’s devolution.

If you’re willing to endanger children for a tip, what the Hell would you do for something really worthwhile? We criticize the mega wealthy, but they have much more on the line. The same individuals accusing those with more than them of being immoral, are just too destitute to act on their shameless impulses. Why would those with millions do “good” when everyone else is selling their souls for much, much less? Some will sexualize kids in order to “get that bag,” while others use them to mine goods. The average person is just as corrupt as those with more advantages or in positions of power. Which is why reality bares such a hideous reflection.

Notice how the supposed standard is always placed upon men so that women can excuse their bad behavior? “Men need to stop being pedophiles or else we’ll keep playing into their fantasies for money!” Actually, you don’t ever have to pacify pedo Pete. You do so because it’s profitable, as your values are hidden behind a paywall. I don’t know what’s worse, the women who appear childlike for social validation, or the ones who do it for a check. All of those dollars “earned” come at a price higher than any rent. These women sell their souls for penis and a paycheck.

It’s yet another unfortunate reminder that what’s happening, no matter how disgusting, is due to women and men’s cohesive actions. The heterosexual dynamic is unsympathetic to anyone outside of its realm of self-gratification. No sacrifice is too great, not even that of innocent children. It’s no wonder everyone is so paranoid, they fear encountering others on their same wavelength. People are pointing fingers, when it’s themselves and their peers putting sexual proclivities at the forefront of their lives. Happiness, safety, virtue, and prosperity aren’t capable of manifesting through a putrid population.

A better world is possible, but unreachable for most of mankind and his mistresses.