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giveroffuns · 4 years ago
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me in 7th grade, after analyzing my inner thoughts, discomfort with my body, and masculine personality traits and deciding I must be a lesbian:
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giveroffuns · 4 years ago
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Me: hmm I look slightly att…
My dysphoria: …
Me: …
My dysphoria: SAY IT BITCH
Me: slightly attractive
My dysphoria:
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giveroffuns · 5 years ago
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I think i May be over this.
I just want to feel loved again.
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giveroffuns · 5 years ago
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giveroffuns · 5 years ago
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giveroffuns · 5 years ago
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Abuse Victims- Can You Relate??
Being able to read a person’s microaggressions without even trying (He’s upset. I don’t know how I know he’s upset, but he is). I’m always right. 
Being able to hear a lie in someone’s voice without looking at them. 
Unconsciously being aware of every shift in the room, but still jumping a mile when someone comes up from behind. 
Forcing your body into autopilot when life just gets too hard to handle, but then realizing you’re dissociating and trying to bring yourself back. 
That stare that all your friends call your “resting bitch face.”
Nearly punching people in the face when they scare you. 
Being amazingly good at one thing because you had nothing else to do as a kid (for me, reading and writing). 
People calling you mature for your age. 
People being stunned at the fact that you know more life skills than a thirty year old. 
On the other hand, cringing when you don’t know how to do something everyone else knows how to do. 
Constantly feeling tired no matter how long you sleep. 
Telling a story about your childhood, and stopping halfway through when you realize everyone is horrified. 
Not understanding why people complain about taxes and insurance and money while you’re just happy you get to have plants in your room now. 
Having absolutely no control over your emotions, yet everyone thinks you’re so level headed and mature because you’re not physically capable of showing it. 
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giveroffuns · 5 years ago
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How abusive childhood teaches you to stay in abusive relationships:
you have to be obedient and submissive in your childhood if you don’t want to get beaten, you’re taught this is normal in life, so why should you doubt it when it happens in your relationship?
you’re supposed to care about everyone else more than yourself, you’re taught to provide comfort and be minimally or completely non-demanding of other family members, always put yourself last, and this is exactly what abusive partner will demand of you as well, how would you fight it if you’re taught this is just your place in life?
your appearance, interests, skills, achievements, and faults are constantly exposed to criticism, insults, humiliation and ridicule in abusive childhood, and you’re taught it’s normal, how are you supposed to fight it when it happens in a relationship?
you’re humiliated and ridiculed for seeking intimacy or try to express yourself in your childhood, how would you know it’s okay for you to desire understanding, consideration, reassurance and intimacy in your relationship?
if you’re used to being hit, humiliated, and having your objections to it ignored, or even worse, minimized and punished by even worse violence, how are you supposed to defend yourself when it happens in a sexual situation? how would you be able to know it’s wrong for another person to harm you if your parents have been doing it, and they supposedly love you?
if you’re taught to always be grateful that things aren’t worse, always compare yourself to someone who is tortured worse, how are you ever supposed to reach out and get help for being abused? how are you supposed to know when your situation is really, really bad? There’s always going to be someone somewhere in the world tortured worse, and this becomes a reason for you to suffer in silence.
Abusive parents are direct cause of abusive relationships, if your boundaries aren’t destroyed and your sense of what’s acceptable and to be tolerated in your close relationships skewed to allow abuse, you have much easier time rejecting abusive relationships later in life. 
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giveroffuns · 5 years ago
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My mom said she wants Taylor Swift’s mom’s number so she can check in on her and see how she’s doing every day. I suggested she try twitter but frankly neither of us know how to use it so @taylorswift - how’s your mom doing? My mom wants to know ❤️
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giveroffuns · 5 years ago
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I wanna be that CEO that pays their employees 70K a year like that white guy I be seeing all over the Internet. I can’t remember his name.
I’m not gonna be like Jeff Bezos but I do wanna be a multimillionaire 😂😂😂
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giveroffuns · 6 years ago
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@taylorswift you’re doing a great job i love you
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giveroffuns · 6 years ago
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hahahahahhahahahahahahha that was cool
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giveroffuns · 6 years ago
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trans people are taught to never have doubts about their gender.
if we have a slight bit of doubt or fear of faking it, it is used against us. we are told that “they told us so” and that we mustn’t be trans. even by fellow trans members in our society. 
i feel like i’m faking it sometimes. but then i imagine my life where i’m viewed as a woman forever. where i get called “mum” instead of dad, where i’m a “wife,” not a husband, when i’m a “daughter,” and not a son. where i’m “she” and not he. i imagine still having my feminine voice, i imagine myself with my feminine form forever. and god, it feels like a cage. 
i am a man. i have my fears of faking it because i am afraid to be trans. i’m afraid of the attention and responses from people. i feel embarrassed that i’m trans sometimes. that i’m a burden to the people around me. that i shouldn’t be this way, i should just be cis. and i’m afraid to be my authentic self. but i do it any ways, i present as a guy because that’s what i am. even though i’m afraid, i’m still brave. i’m still me. 
i am a transgender man, and that’s okay.
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giveroffuns · 6 years ago
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giveroffuns · 6 years ago
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has this been done yet? Based on a conversation overheard at school lol
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giveroffuns · 6 years ago
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doctor: you know HRT is going to cause serious, irreversible changes to your body, right?
me:
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giveroffuns · 6 years ago
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giveroffuns · 6 years ago
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Denim Pride flags
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Jay
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Jesbian
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Ji
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Jan
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Jace
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Jans 
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Jon jinary
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Jender jluid
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Jemigirl
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Jemiboy 
Feel free to use any of these just…..  credit me?
If anyone wants me to make more just ask
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