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Our disagreement is about what fundamentally qualifies as personhood. A fetus does not share the same status as a person because it is not capable of existing outside of a body, cannot experience emotion, or process sensory input in a way congruent with the human experience. A fetus cannot make choices and you mention that the right to make choices makes a person.

Something without personhood cannot be killed as you would another human being. There is no moral weight to an abortion because it is not murder. It’s a medical procedure. You choose to believe otherwise, and I do not. So don’t have an abortion. No one is making you. But preaching about how everyone else needs to lose autonomy because you think it’s icky is a pretty shit thing to do if you actually believe in the right to make your own choices.

Also, “to not be allowed” is the definition of a rule. Who’s “allowing”? A government? God? You??? Where do you draw the line? When pregnancy threatens the life of the carrier? Rape? Incest? Or should a nine year old be forced to give birth because you personally don’t like the concept of safe access to necessary medical care?

It’s absolutely self-defense to terminate a pregnancy when that pregnancy is inflicted upon you and will change your body without consent. I believe in the right of self-determination, meaning that because I exist in this body, I choose what happens to it. Something that cannot exist without access to my uterus, circulatory system, and continued biological support is not alive in the same sense as a person. I am a moral agent with the capacity to make decisions and thus can revoke that biological support at any time. Do not reduce me to an incubator simply because I have the ability to become pregnant.

You seem to care more for the fetus than the person carrying it. Why does an embryo automatically have more right to my body than I do? I am not a fetus’ keeper. There is no obligation from me to turn myself into a broodmare because of a fertilized egg.

We will likely never see eye to eye on this, and I’m fine with that. I’m not interested in changing your mind. I have better things to do. You don’t like abortion, so don’t have one. But you get no say over what I do with my body, just like you had no say when I transitioned. It’s not up to you.

Okay rant time.

Pregnant men exist. Not just as an uwu mpreg fanfic trope or a joke. Just because you think pregnancy is gross or icky doesn’t mean you can’t treat pregnant people with respect, regardless of gender or sex. Even in the queer community, trans men who choose to carry their children are seen as an anomaly or as betraying everything they’ve worked for. They aren’t. If I carry a child, I’m still just as much of a man.

Also, I understand if the idea of pregnancy is dysphoric for many trans men. I do. But trans men being pregnant isn’t an excuse to exclude them from queer spaces or treat them with anything less than the same respect you would anyone else. Many trans men experience dysphoria regarding the idea of pregnancy, but many don’t. Their body isn’t your business. Don’t be fucking weird.

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Okay rant time.

Pregnant men exist. Not just as an uwu mpreg fanfic trope or a joke. Just because you think pregnancy is gross or icky doesn’t mean you can’t treat pregnant people with respect, regardless of gender or sex. Even in the queer community, trans men who choose to carry their children are seen as an anomaly or as betraying everything they’ve worked for. They aren’t. If I carry a child, I’m still just as much of a man.

Also, I understand if the idea of pregnancy is dysphoric for many trans men. I do. But trans men being pregnant isn’t an excuse to exclude them from queer spaces or treat them with anything less than the same respect you would anyone else. Many trans men experience dysphoria regarding the idea of pregnancy, but many don’t. Their body isn’t your business. Don’t be fucking weird.

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being dominant about consent

“you will tell me if something makes you uncomfortable.”

“can I touch you here, sweetheart?”

“would you like me to think for you for a bit, smart girl?”

“i will always take care of you. you can put your trust in me.”

“tell me your color, or i will stop.”

“tell me with words, or i will stop”

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STOP! before you decide you are irretrievably doomed, try one of the following options:

transition

bdsm

iron supplements

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i think my biggest turn on is knowing i turned u on, like pls tell me what i did to you, i love it

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Can we all please agree that being talked through it is easily the hottest thing during sex or even teasing...

"thats it just like that"

"such a good boy for me yeah?"

"you take me so well.."

"look at me... That's it.. let go.."

"look at me when I fuck you."

"yeah you want that?"

"use your words darling"

"thats it just let me take care of you."

"tell me what you want"

"tell me what I'm doing to you"

"look at this? Look how hard and wet you are"

"so soft..."

Like... Guys... I think I'd genuinely cum on the spot if someone held my chin and asked me to use my words... Just saying

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RAPTURE - ARJAN SPANNENBURG

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“You were as deep down as I’ve ever been. You were inside me like my pulse.”

Marilyn Hacker, “Nearly a Valediction”

"I felt pantheistic then— your heart beat in my ribs and mine in yours, and both in God’s."

Herman Melville, in a letter to Nathaniel Hawthorne

"Listen, / how your heart pounds inside me."

Wislawa Szymborska, “Could Have”

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"t has dangerous side effects" yeah it'll turn you into a slutty incubus that has to fuck for energy or else you'll die

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Somnophilia but your partner doesn't wake you up during it. You wake up to your alarm like every morning but your pussy feels strangely good and slightly used, a similar feeling to when you've been cockwarming for awhile. You notice your pants are off and cum is leaking out of your hole and you put two and two together. The thought of your partner having used you in your sleep makes you so horny but they've already left for work so all you can do is fuck their cum back into yourself until you cum on your own fingers

This post was made by a trans mlm

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“You don’t have to be a person anymore/right now” is one of the greatest things people can ever say to me ever. I will look up at you with such big beautiful doe eyes full of so much love and affection that you’re giving me the ability to shed that role 💕

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they fukcign shot me right in the head..

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would love to play truth or dare and have it escalate into an orgy

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when i say i want to be bred, i don’t mean one creampie and done. give me round after round of your cum. give me so much of your seed we’re using it as lube. i wanna feel the burning heat against my cervix, filling my little pussy until it’s pouring down my thighs, pooling on the sheets, and don’t forget to plug my cunt up after so i always know who owns me

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Size difference. Intox. Cockwarming. Cockwarming. Size difference. cock. Cock size difference. Intox. Cockwarming. INTOX. COCKWARMING. SIZE DIFFERENCE. COCK. WARMING. INTOX.

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normalize bending tboys over in public (but slightly hidden) places to satiate their little cunt’s need to be stretched and filled. normalize cumming in him and both going about your day afterwards