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men hiding their feelings and emotions behind a disguise of“logic and reason”

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Pooh Bear, Eor, And All The Rest 

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According to the article, all clothing for the photo shoot was designed for women, per Miller’s request. He rocks it.

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I have a ko-fi link on my blog if anyone wants to help me afford groceries to get me through the month. 

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Lady Gaga by Collier Schorr for T Magazine

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molly is the champion of purring

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my last two brain cells 

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tw self harm suicial ideation

the road noise is so loud here that its triggeing me and i have already hit myself on the head many times and i wish i would hurt myself more and i want to kill myself

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“The low-maintenance woman, the ideal woman, has no appetite. This is not to say that she refuses food, sex, romance, emotional effort; to refuse is petulant, which is ironically more demanding. The woman without appetite politely finishes what’s on her plate, and declines seconds. She is satisfied and satisfiable.

A man’s appetite can be hearty, but a woman with an appetite is always voracious: her hunger always overreaches, because it is not supposed to exist. If she wants food, she is a glutton. If she wants sex, she is a slut. If she wants emotional care-taking, she is a high-maintenance bitch or, worse, an “attention whore”: an amalgam of sex-hunger and care-hunger, greedy not only to be fucked and paid but, most unforgivably of all, to be noticed.”

— Hunger Makes Me, Jess Zimmerman

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To simply see what you are looking at and to hear what you are hearing are not the easiest things in the world, and neither is to simply feel what you are feeling. – Michael Lipsey

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Every One Shut Its Nap Time

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Yatak çok güzel ;)

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diet culture is so rooted in the idea that our bodies are machines that our minds have to outwit. it pushes for the idea that hunger is something you have to “beat”, that cravings are an annoyance to ignore or outwit, that the way our bodies want to look and want to be is something to fight, that it needs to be helped to do things it was built to do.

here is the liberating truth- your body is so smart and it is trying to help you. it works so hard to keep you alive- sometimes it fails at what it’s trying to do, sometimes it does it in unconvential ways, but it is trying to keep you alive! hunger is our body saying “we need food”- it’s not something to ignore or supress. cravings are our body saying “we need a specific type of food”- they aren’t something to trick or prevent. natural weight and weight distribution are our body saying “this is the shape in which we work best”- they aren’t something to control or reduce. denying this is what hurts us most- even though diet culture tries to tell us that listening to our bodies and treating them with kindness and forgiveness is wrong.