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[imfoxyblythe]

All my life, I was told who to be and what to do.

Everyone was always so concerned about making sure I fit their labels..

How to act, how to talk, how to look.

And truthfully, most of my life, I listened.

I did what I thought I was supposed to do until one day, something changed in me.

I discovered that everything that “they” told me wasn’t for me at all..

It was to make them feel and seem better.

It wasn’t about my happiness, it was about their control.

Once the box of untruths they fed me started to unravel, I began to finally see the reality.

My truth.

Who I am, what I want and how I wanted to be.

No more would I chase their dreams and live by their words, but instead, I would make my own way.

My life by my rules with my own style.

They told me you can’t be different .

They laughed and mocked me for wanting more.

They didn’t understand my authenticity, and that’s okay..

They don’t have to.

I don’t need their spotlight, because I shine from within..in the way that I want to.

It’s better to displease everyone for doing what you know is right rather than please everyone else and make yourself unhappy.

I’m done with all that.

I’m done dressing how I should, acting how I should and living everyone else’s dream.

This is my time and my life and I’m going to start chasing the dreams that do more than make me happy..

I want the life and adventures that fill my soul, electrify my spirit and rouse my heart.

No more existing in their world and pretending to be happy.

In fact, no more pretending at all.

I may not always have the answers and somedays, forget where I’m going, but I’ll always get there on my terms.

They tried to tame me and clip my wings so that I’d never uncover the truly colorful beauty of who I truly was.

I have discovered the vibrant uniqueness of my soul and I’m rising out of the depths they’d have kept me in.

You can’t cage a beautiful spirit and that’s exactly who I am.

I finally understand that I’m wonderful, wild and now, I’m free.

Now, for the first time in my life..

I’m truly smiling, inside and out.

Why?

Because it’s my time to shine.

|ravenwolf

Photo credit: Stacie Martin

[imfoxyblythe]

She's my fire I'm her ice:

See the thing is she's

the fire beneath my wing's,

she keeps

my ice melts when I see her,

She's my fire when

im cold inside:

She's a rock that

I never met before,

She's a woman that has

fire in her desire,

Eye's"

Her passion is

doubtfully unquestionable.

Cause nobody

saw the eye's

that she's got fire in them,

Cause she's been

abused mentally

and physically,

With the mount of,

hits it took to fall In love again,

Pain speaks to us when

we don't see it

ever coming.

But her fire What's

keeps her alive

And strong to go adventure.

to set sail,

won't be denied

About the

fire that's

been burning inside her.

But she sees her fire running

low now cause

she Stops

and hates.

the fact that nobody

saw those

eyes passionate.

Cause the fire What

kept going strong

Won't stop

until she finds her ice.

She needs her ice to

keep her

calm when

She's burning up from

what's driving her

So crazy,

She feels like her ice will stop

The fire

and controls

her freedom

Of being in pain,

The ice In

his eyes he's

Ice keeps

things smooth,

Keeps her running

and feeling free

Too see the

ice that

she needs

To bend and fold over,

When her love will fight:

what's right

and steals her heart

With the ice that she

Needs to be ok to

Fine a ice is

Unmatchable

To the fire

that the ice that

she needs to stand,

And take charge

to Whats

burning inside

The fire and ice

Will mix well

With water

they both were

Burn to

The ice to

Cool them both down

And remember

What the ice

Melted her heart

Making her feel like she's

undistrcutable.

That's what happens when fire.

Meets ice

......

W.G

[imfoxyblythe]

For women who are difficult to love:

You are a horse running alone and he tries to tame you, compares you to an impossible highway, to a burning house.

Says you are blinding him, that he could never leave you, forget you, want nothing but you.

You dizzy him, you are unbearable.

Every woman before or after you is doused in your name. But you are always too intense...

Frightening in the way that you want him unashamed and sacrificial.

He tells you that no man can live up to the one who lives in your head.

And you tried to change, didn't you?

You closed your mouth more, tried to be softer, prettier, less violate, less awake. Between when sleeping you could feel him travelling away from you because of fear and impetuousness.

So what did you want to do, love?

You can't make homes out of human beings, someone should have already told you that.

And if he wants to leave, then let him leave.

You are terrifying and strange and beautiful, something not everyone knows how to love

credits to @warhol.sofi

[imfoxyblythe]

Aries ~ 🔥

Her planet is Mars and she rides the Eastern wind from the horizon

Her Temple is of molten melting into glassy velvet, an old laboratory transmuting iron and gold

The day of worship there is Tuesday,

where the traits of strategy, will, craftsmanship, and creative vision are much esteemed

and support is always thrown straight to the underdog,

Approach with caution and the precise manouvres she’s known so well for,

show the inner power she’s really seeking

from one who never feels weak, insecure, or relegated standing beside her as equal

or below because she beat you again

Cherry

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READ THIS TIL END : ❤️

Maybe you didn’t lose in love, maybe you got lucky.

You got lucky enough to meet someone who showed you that there were souls within this universe that felt as deeply, and cared as feverishly, as you did.

You did not lose, you got lucky. You got lucky enough to spend time with someone who wanted to experience the world through your eyes. Who wanted to watch old movies and listen to rainstorms with you, and feel your eyelashes blink across their neck.

You did not lose, you got lucky. You got lucky because you met someone who, for a moment in time, was able to squeeze all of your broken pieces back together. You got lucky. Lucky enough to meet someone who plucked anxiety out of your chest like splinters, who poured calm into the parts of you that no one else clapped for.

No, you did not lose — you got lucky. You got lucky because time did not choose to separate you. You got lucky. Lucky enough to have found them, to have experienced them, to have been given the opportunity to love them the way you loved them.

And even if you were not loved like this, you are still lucky. See, sometimes people come into our lives and they love us like sunrises — only ever leaving us softer, and kinder to ourselves.

But sometimes, sometimes people come into our lives and they love us like hurricanes — making us question if we feel too deeply, if we are simply too much to hold. The hardest lesson you will ever have to learn is that this too is a gift. To have been loved in halves is to have been loved by someone who taught you how to walk away. How to choose yourself for once, how to stand up for your worth. At the end of the day, they may not have loved you, but they did teach you how to survive the wreckage, how to endure the storm, and how to rebuild. They may not have loved you, but you still risked your heart. You still tried for something. And that is what makes you lucky, because that is what has made you strong.

Words:

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Your story is beautiful. It may not seem now. Especially because you're in pain. But years later, you'll look back at this difficult season of your life, and you'll say, "Wow. I now see why I had to go through that. My pain had a purpose..."

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The truth is — almost relationships can hurt just as much as real relationships because connection isn’t measured in time. When your heart connects with someone, it connects with someone. Sometimes, that depth is fostered over years. And sometimes you crash into another human being, and despite only knowing them for a short collection of moments, you know that they are going to mean something to you. You know that you are going to care. There are no rules.

But, the hardest lesson you will ever learn is that — you won’t always end up with those you feel something deep and meaningful with. Some chapters of our lives are full and dizzying in the best way — with concrete endings and concrete closure. But some chapters end quickly, sometimes in the middle of the page, sometimes even before we are ready. What we don’t often realize is that that is closure, too. Because it’s still an ending.

So when you are holding all of this hurt within you, when you are gripping at all of the ways you could have loved someone beautifully and fully and with every inch of your human heart if you had just been given the chance — remember that you want to be loved and chosen. Not almost loved or almost chosen. If someone can't do that, you deserve to discover someone who can.

Because the right person will be consistent. The right person will put forth the appropriate amount of effort. The right person will make everything feel easy, natural. Almosts aren’t natural. You have all of this hope, and all of this feeling, and you’re trying to give it to someone who doesn’t want to hold it. You’re trying to convince someone that you’re worthy of being chosen. But the right person will choose you. The right person will stay.

Remind yourself that you deserve to feel like someone is excited to be with you, that someone is excited to commit to you, and dive into something concrete and foundational with you. You deserve someone who wants the same things, someone who wants to meet all of your hope with action. Someone who sees you. Someone who isn’t afraid of being responsible for your heart. Someone who embraces it.

~

📷 : @ursulolita & @miguel.g.herran

[imfoxyblythe]

I want love to be simple. I want to trust without thinking. I want to be generous with my affection and patience and love unconditionally. It is easier to love a person with their flaws than to weed through them. I want to love the whole person, not parts; and this is how I want to be loved.”

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[imfoxyblythe]

In the end, you’ll end up drowning in misery and pain.

[imfoxyblythe]

You act like it's you against the world,

but it's really you against yourself.

[imfoxyblythe]

She was half human, half universe.

[imfoxyblythe]

A NOTE TO MYSELF !

Hindi madaling magpagaling kapag nasaktan ka pero mas hindi magiging madali kung hindi mo tutulungan ang sarili mo. Hindi dapat matatapos ang buhay mo sa pag-iwan sa'yo ng taong minahal mo. Kung nabuhay ka noon na wala pa siya sa buhay mo, dapat kayanin mo ngayon na mabuhay ulit ng wala siya. Hindi mo dapat idine-depende ang happiness mo sa taong mahal mo para kung sakaling iwan ka man, alam mo pa rin kung paano mo ulit ibabangon ang sarili mo.

Kung hindi niya naibigay sa'yo ang pagpapahalaga at pagmamahal na binibigay mo sa kanya, this time ibigay mo naman 'yan sa sarili mo. Self love at self worth muna ang unahin mo ngayon. "Acceptance" and "Forgiveness", 'yan dapat ang ibigay mo ngayon para tuluyan ka nang makamove on. Mahirap bumitaw sa taong sobrang minahal mo pero kailangan din natin turuan ang mga paa natin na tumakbo palayo sa mga taong iniwan na tayo.

Photo Credits: Pinterest 📸

[imfoxyblythe]

Puhon

Gunitan nko ning "Puhon".

Magpaabot rako, dili mag assume.

Bahalag one sided ang atung gugma saka karun.

Basta kay di na tika samukun.

Pahuway sa guro ta run.

Ayuhun sa nato atung kaugalingun.

Wa ta kabalo sa panahon.

Para gyud diay ni sa atung kaugmaon.

Balo kong nasakitan tika sa pag ayo.

Kay nikalit ra mag labo imung gugma kanako.

Kasabot man ko nga sala nako ni.

Pero gusto nako ipangtama akung mga mali.

Oo, balo sad kong dili pa gyud run.

Tagaan natug oras atung kaugalingun.

Sakit man hunahunaon, pero kaylangan dawatun.

Ayuhun sa nako akung sarili para sa atung kaugmaon.

Gina ampo tika permi uban sa imung pamilya.

Nga safe mo permi ug likay sa mga disgrasya.

Yawg kabalaka nako kay okey rako.

Kayanun nako sama sa pag kaya nimo sa ako.

Di lang gayud nato malimtan ang mga kagahapon.

Pero katong tanan gahatag ug leksyon nako run.

Wa ta kabalog maayo pa ba nato ni.

Pero akung pagsalig nagapabilin permi.

Salig ko sa tubag sa Ginoo sa akoa nga "Pag hulat".

Kay kabalo kong di pa karun pwede mubanat.

Basta ako, ayuhun nakog tarung akung batasan.

Magkinaunsa man, ikaw ra gyud naa sa akung dughan.

Kung naa may babae nga ihatag ang Ginoo para kanimo.

Ingna sha nga "Tarunga gyud ko kay naay nagpaabot nako"

Wala ko gaampo nga di mo mag dugay.

Gina ampo lang nako nga tarungun ka niya kanunay.

Wa ko kabalo ug naa bay nag sunod sa ako.

Wala sad ko ga ingun o gapugung nga maging kamo.

Ang akoa lang kay tarungun ka niya.

Dili parehas sa akung mga gipang buhat saimo sauna.

Wala ko nawalaag paglaum kay gina ampo ko ni sa Ginoo.

Basta kalipay nako ang imung kalipay.

Kay ako, naa ra dri gapaabot kanunay.

Pero ug nakabasa man ka ani karun.

Sorry, kay di gyud ko makatuon sa amung mga leksyun.

Salamat kaayu sa mga panahon.

Abri permi akung purtahan sa imo kay gahulat ko sa "Puhon"

😥😔😭😩💔☝️🙏

[imfoxyblythe]

10 Pieces of advice to every woman.

1. When respect is no longer there, find your way out. Although it is hard to start over, do not wait until you lose yourself in the process.

2. Do not chase love. Chase your dreams instead.

3. No one has the right to make you feel worthless. You are more than enough.

4. If someone really loves you, he will pursue you and will make real efforts.

5. Please know that you are beautiful together with your scars and imperfections.

6. You do not need to compare yourself to anyone. You have a different journey to take.

7. Your only competition is yourself. Hone your skills and be a better version of you.

8. If it fails, it is not love in the first place. True love bends but it never breaks.

9. Working hard is good but you have to prioritize your health. Find time to be with your family. They are the ones who will be there for you in your darkest days.

10. Prioritize yourself. Love yourself. It has long been overdue.

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You will reach that point wherein you’ll just stop caring about their opinions of you. You know your truth better than anyone. You know that you can sleep well at night because you are not hurting anyone. You don’t owe anyone an explanation.

Stay kind, but be unapologetic for who you are too. You will never be happy if you keep on dwelling on their toxic drama and behavior.

Artwork by: Daria Art

[imfoxyblythe]

Some men can be so toxic to your health. They don't want to love you properly, but they don't want to let you go either. The more you give the less they appreciate, and the minute you've had enough and decide to walk away is when they are ready to love you and treat you right. So you give them a chance in the hopes they've changed only to realise it was all fake. You find the strength to walk away once more and here he comes again proclaiming his love for you and you give in, AGAIN.

A man showing anger and persistence to get you back once you try to break it of isn't proof of love; its a knee jerk reaction. A man kissing your ass or making flaccid attempts to be nicer for two weeks isn't proof that he's trying, its proof that he knows you well enough to know how to defuse you long enough to hook you once again. Take away a toy, a little boy cries. Take away a relationship of convenience, a man cries. Just because he cries doesn't mean you give him what he wants. Stop listening to what your man keeps promising and start watching what his actions actually keep telling you. A lot of you women don't know what its like to be loved by a real man. You know lust, you know joy, you know passion and you know the fear of abandonment. Stop chasing your idea of what love should be and recognise what love IS.

Love isn't promising to act right after he gets caught fucking up time and time again. Love is him acting right from the start because he doesn't want to fuck up. Love isn't telling your grown man he needs to change so he can keep you; love is a grown man changing on his own because he cant imagine life without you.

~Unknown Author

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I hope you do not stop believing in yourself. It might be hard to love yourself sometimes, but that is okay.

Quite frankly there are days when you feel empty, sad and in despair, but life is like that. It is not always rainbows and butterflies after all.

When the pain is unbearable, you can always cry. You are allowed to be upset. You are not weak for showing how you truly feel. You are allowed to embrace the pain.

When you feel that everything is falling apart, always remember that you are worth it. Your existence matters. Your feelings are valid. Your imperfections do not make you any less.

Don’t be too hard on yourself. You have come this far and you will make it too. You will be braver and stronger than ever!

Artwork by: Nono Radke