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A woman like her does not need a man but most men need a woman like her

How do men view you? What's their first impression of you? How do you make them uncomfortable? (In a bad way ofc 😋)

I’m really sorry for being inactive lately! I recently had an accident that messed up my shoulder, and since it’s been dislocated before, the recovery was a little tougher this time. But the good news is that i’m finally back, and that’s what really matters.

TIP JAR

MASTERLIST

PAID READINGs

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Pile 1

Okay, so the first message I’m getting is that you are someone who challenges authority and traditions. I feel like many of you come from a background where women were suppressed, where they were expected to stay quiet, submissive, or simply didn’t have enough rights of their own. But you are different (not in a pick me way) you challenge everything that tradition has taught you, and this is one of the reasons why people sometimes feel really uncomfortable around you. You are not afraid of questioning culture and traditions that have been in practice for a very long time. I see that you really value your independence and you do not want to be bound by the rules of society. You are someone who practices feminism and who is not afraid to speak your mind. You openly express your emotions and opinions, even in front of a large group of people. Sometimes you say things that society may not be ready to hear, but that doesn’t stop you and that’s what makes you powerful. Men often see you as someone they cannot control. They know you will question their actions the moment they do something wrong, and that makes them feel exposed. Many men even fear being around you because they realize they cannot have power over you. Your words, your voice, and the way you speak about equality, feminism, and what’s happening in the world, it shakes people. It makes them rethink things, even when they don’t want to.

For some of you, I also see that you may not practice religion, or you might feel very different from your family traditions. You might not completely fit into your family’s culture, and that makes you stand out even more. I sense fear from some men in your circle. They hesitate to talk to you, they hesitate to be too close, because your energy directly challenges their ego. You may also have strong or unusual thoughts about marriage. A lot of men see you as very independent, very straightforward, intelligent, quick-minded, and layered with depth. Your communication style is sharp, you don’t sugarcoat things, you say them as they are, and that honesty makes people respect you, even if they can’t handle it. Another message I’m getting is that some of you might be the eldest daughter in your family, or you might have matured much earlier than your age. Men also see that you’ve been through difficulties, and that you’ve survived battles where the odds were against you. That survival has made you strong, and it also makes men realize they cannot defeat you easily.

You are also very careful about who you let into your life. You don’t allow just anyone in, you keep people waiting, testing their patience, and that alone makes men nervous. I feel like you are not someone who cares about men’s opinions of you. You don’t care how they perceive you, and honestly, why should you? You don’t give a flying fuck about their approval, and babe why are you even reading this pac 😭 you already know the power you have over men. I feel like you trigger a lot of masculine energy. Men never know what to expect from you because your words and presence shake them to their core. It’s like the things you say act as a mirror, forcing them to see the truth. Sometimes, it even feels like their whole ego or false personality crumbles when they try to argue with you.

You might have Aquarius or 11th house placements, or maybe Mars in the 11th house. Some of you could be Libra, Gemini, or Aquarius sun, moon, or rising. You might even be into political science, activism, or politics in general. I also see that you are influential, your words carry power, and you leave an impact wherever you go. Deep down, in your mind, you may even feel like men are kind of hopeless, because they fail to match the standards you set. Some of you may also dress in a way that is not traditionally “feminine.” You may prefer a masculine style, or simply a way of dressing that doesn’t fit what men expect women to look like. This itself is another way you challenge society. And you know what? A lot of girls look at you as an inspiration. They see you as someone they want to become in the future fearless, outspoken, independent, and unapologetically yourself. And honestly, I love that about you. You might like taking part in debates or arguing with men in general lol.

Thank you so much for reading this pick-a-card! 💗 If this resonated with you, don’t forget to show some love by liking reblogging or commenting ✨

TIP JAR

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Pile 2

Okay, so I do see that men may try to sexualize you a lot. You carry this very sensual, magnetic energy, and many men see you as a seductress, someone who naturally pulls their attention. A lot of them are attracted to you physically, sometimes even obsessively. But at the same time, they also sense that you are dangerous. It’s like they know that being too close to you could ruin their “good boy” image, so they keep a distance. They’re drawn in, but they’re also scared of what it might mean for their reputation. I also see that for some of you, in school or during your teenage years, boys might have spread nasty rumors about you. They may have tried to tarnish your name or say disrespectful things just because they couldn’t handle your energy. You remind me of Marilyn Monroe, someone who was incredibly sensual, but also deeply intelligent and misunderstood. And just like her, men often fail to see the depth behind your beauty. They get stuck on the surface, not realizing how smart, mature, and knowledgeable you actually are.

Some of you might already have a master’s degree, or you are pursuing one you are well-educated, sharp, and ambitious. But many men fail to see beyond the seductive aura. They underestimate you because of how they sexualize you, but deep down, they know you are smarter than them. That’s what really threatens them. I also see that when men approach you with the excuse of “helping you,” many times their real intention is to get something out of you. You’re very aware of this, because it has happened before. As a child or in your early teenage years, you might have been bubbly, kind, and open to help. But as you grew older, you realized that often their “help” came with strings attached. They weren’t doing it from a place of kindness they were feeding their fantasies.

Because of this, you may now hate asking men for help. You would rather do things on your own, even if it means pushing yourself beyond your limits. This has made you fiercely independent, but also someone who carries a lot of responsibility on your shoulders. Men also feel uncomfortable because you are more knowledgeable and capable than them in many areas. Nothing hurts an unhealed man’s ego more than seeing a woman doing better. I see that you might be in a male-dominated field; this could be business, coding, computer science, mathematics, research, or something similar. And you shine there. You do things that men often believe are “their” domain, and that shakes them up completely.

I also sense that you may have lost faith in men, or at least in the idea of finding a “good man” in this generation. It’s not that you’re bitter, it's just that experience has taught you not to expect much. You’ve seen too much disappointment, too much toxicity. Some of you could be Scorpio or Capricorn sun, moon, or rising. You might also have Capricorn/scorpio in your 3rd house or strong 10th house placements. Another message I’m getting is that men don’t just get attracted to you casually they get obsessed. To the point of extreme toxicity. They might stalk, fantasize, or cling to your energy in unhealthy ways. And this is one of the reasons you keep your distance from them. You know their obsession can turn dangerous. You know they cannot handle your power, so you protect yourself by staying selective with who you allow close. You are the type of person who men cannot forget. Even when they walk away, they keep thinking about you. But You’ve built yourself in a way that you don’t need their validation. You’ve already proven to yourself that you can survive, rise, and thrive without anyone’s help.

Thank you so much for reading this pick-a-card! 💗 If this resonated with you, don’t forget to show some love by liking reblogging or commenting ✨

TIP JAR

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Pile 3

I see that many of you might have an innocent appearance maybe a cute face, soft features, or a sweet way of dressing. Some of you might even dress in a very cute or trendy way, which makes people see you as youthful, playful, or inexperienced about life. You give off really ethereal and otherworldly vibes. Like a fairy. An angel. Now, this is not to “baby” you this is just how many people, especially men, perceive you at first glance. They look at you and instantly assume you are someone fragile who needs to be guided, protected, or provided for. But the reality is very different. I also see that you have already tried to build something of your own. Maybe you’ve started a business, or you’re already doing something that makes you financially independent. You’ve shown that you can stand on your own feet, and that already sets you apart. Men don’t always know how to approach you, because on one side you look innocent, but on the other side, you are stronger and wiser than they expect.

I also see that even though you look young or inexperienced, you carry a lot of wisdom. Some of this wisdom might come from your mother, grandmother, or another older female figure who had a big influence on you. It’s like you carry generational strength inside you, and that wisdom comes out at the right time. Men also tend to see you as a heartbreaker or a “player,” even though you are quite the opposite 😭. Maybe you’ve received a lot of proposals, attention, or admiration, and because of this, men assume you have too many options. They think you aren’t looking for anything serious or long-term, when in reality, you value depth and real commitment. This misunderstanding makes them put you in the wrong category sometimes.

I also see that men notice your physical strength. Maybe you go to the gym, do yoga, exercise, or simply take care of your body. Some of you may even appear stronger or fitter than men in your circle, and this intimidates them. Men are used to using their physical strength as an advantage over women, but with you, that power is taken away and you prove them wrong. For some reason, you remind me of Zoey from Huntrix, someone who is pretty, kind, and creative, but also powerful and not someone to underestimate. Men see you as compassionate, always willing to help others, always kind, but at the same time, they know you won’t let anyone walk all over you. You have boundaries, and you protect them.

Another message I’m getting is that you are very focused on your goals and success. You’re ambitious, and you want to make a name for yourself. You know what you want in life, and you’re not afraid to chase it. Ambitious women scare men the most, because they know they cannot bind or control them. You might even have this belief that you won’t marry until you’ve made your own name or secured a stable source of income. And the reason behind this is simple: you don’t want your future husband or partner to have an “upper hand” over you in the relationship. You value balance and equality in relationships. You want effort from both sides, not just one, and you never want to feel like a burden on anyone. That’s why you’d rather do things on your own than depend too much on someone else.

I also see that many men come forward with the idea of “providing” for you, but the moment they see you already have everything you need they freeze. They get uncomfortable because suddenly, they have nothing left to offer. And this shakes their identity, because so many men build their sense of self-worth on how much they can provide for a woman or a family. With you, that old pattern doesn’t work anymore, and that’s exactly what makes you powerful. Another message I see is that you might have a small face or puffy cheeks that makes you look really cute. Some of you might have a mole near your eyes.

Thank you so much for reading this pick-a-card! 💗 If this resonated with you, don’t forget to show some love by liking reblogging or commenting ✨

TIP JAR

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This is a general reading, so it may or may not resonate with you. Take what feels right and leave behind what doesn’t, trust your own intuition first. 💗

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