intercourse-scapegoat
intercourse-scapegoat
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discourse blog - 25-year-old agender person, BPD and PTSD, sex industry worker
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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anyway i love transgender people who abolish gender as a predestined cultural role and instead turn it into an act of self expression
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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The way people don’t scream I hate you in arguments anymore they say like you’re abusive/ manipulative/toxic. It’s like there’s been a collective pathologising of emotions through an excess of therapy and dominance of therapy culture. There’s a new obsession with like a clinical validity to one’s hatred that has to be expressed in this depersonalised way and viewed as more valid than expressing your dislike.
It’s interesting that the “I hate you” has its emphasis on the emotion of the speaker, rather than “You’re toxic” which removes it from an emotional realm into a diagnostic one. The latter is probably much more impactful on a recipient’s self esteem in the long term, and desensitises the speaker to their own emotions too.
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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Fantastic Beasts is suspended indefinitely.
Musk is begging for cash because he made the stupidest purchase in internet history.
Zucky Wucky is hemorrhaging cash because the Metaverse goal of becoming the NFT successor of real estate speculation was met with the deserved mockery at how stupid it was.
Trump is finally being properly prosecuted for crimes he unquestionably and very inconspicuously committed.
Alex Jones owes a billion dollars to Sandy Hook victims.
The Tories are imploding in a schism that might actually result in the collapse of the British empire.
Putin has ran out of army and crawled pathetically to the corner a tiny insurgent army pushed him towards, decades of military propaganda burnt away in months.
Prime Minister Shinzō Abe died with no glory.
The GOP is so confused after the Trump era they don't even know how to run their grifts anymore.
Rings of Power was such a mediocre release Amazon could potentially drop Prime Video altogether.
Turns out 2022 was really the "find out" year. It took a while but I'm loving this season finale so far.
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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i saw the words “ur not the first person in your lineage to be queer” and it’s rocking me to my core. how many generations down the line did one of my ancestors feel the way i did, feel differently than i did and so damn queerly it was a crime? how many of us were there? did they have hope? did they find peace? i don’t know. at the very least, maybe i am proof their identity was never wasted. reincarnated.
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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will never forgive what corporations have done to feminism and how they have brainwashed countless young girls into thinking this new wave of feminism is how it should be. that they are rebelling by not being basic yet still being as pretty as humanly possible at all times. that the best place a girl can be is a ceo. that womanhood is sacred and divine and specific and cant be dirty or ugly or annoying or come in different shapes and sizes. we are slowly turning back to being pure and beautiful as possible through some warped ass tiktok “spirituality”
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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If you think Judaism and Christianity are so theologically and philosophically identical that you can lump them together in one set of values, or god forbid, one *religion*, I am beating you over the head with a rake and calling you names
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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I wish I didn't have to meet racist white transfems I already struggle with white queers in general
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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I could make a 3k-word manifesto on how the word “non-man” is enbyphobic horseshit, and I don’t think it could possibly be as succinct and easy-to-understand as this image. Take notes
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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Any attempt to draw a rigid line around and between LGBTQ+ identities will ultimately fail. Lesbians can have complex relationships with gender that include androgyny or masculinity. The line between lesbian and bisexual/otherwise mspec or gay and bisexual/otherwise mspec can get blurred and some people find their home in the grey area. There are asexual people who have sex and aromantic people who date and attraction that isn't quite platonic or romantic. Different mspec labels overlap and that's okay. There are men who are women and women who are men and you can't quite separate the two. People who exist right between feminine man and trans woman, or masculine woman and trans man. Queerness is messy and that's what makes it beautiful, so why try to draw lines when we could let the colors bleed into one another?
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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culturally-specific orientations and gender identities are real and they exist whether you want to validate them or not. terfs and truscum refuse to accept these facts because their ideologies can only be defended by racist and colonialist arguments, such as insisting that gender is biologically-dictated or that your gender is not real unless you experience gender dysphoria and pursue medical transition with hormones, surgeries, and legal document changes.
biological essentialism, cis-normativity, and the pathological idea of ‘transgenderism’ are racist, they’re concepts made up by colonizers that are violently enforced by christianity and white supremacy. when we say “gender is a social construct” we mean “the gender binary and the idea of transness, as it is defined by western standards, are ideas constructed by a white christian society.” i am ‘trans’ and ‘queer’ only because i am considered trans and queer by white christian standards. in my own culture, i would not have to ‘transition’ because my gender would simply be accepted.
colonizers force upon us their concepts of gender, biological sex, and sexuality while they continue to erase ours. you cannot separate the extermination of our culturally-specific sexual orientations or genders from the violent genocidal destruction of our cultures. the words that once existed for our concepts of gender and attraction were erased when our languages were banned and we were punished, beaten, and tortured for teaching them.
my own two-spirit identity can only be labeled using the language of my oppressors because the words for what i am are no longer spoken.
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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*during foreplay*
Him: you’re such a bad girl
Me: you’re right! I am a bad girl. In fact I’m not even entirely a girl. I have a complex relationship with my gender identity. In this essay I will...
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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being agender is so perfect I look at people who have gender and feel so heavy for them like doesn't carrying that domestication around get so exhausting? aren't you tired? how do you enjoy feeling so... boxed up? U mean you only wanna taste a limited range of flavors not the whole selection? and worse... you wana COMMIT to a flavor? aight das cool I guess
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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bi women who lean more towards men r literally so strong this isn't even a joke the biphobia they face for literally no reason is fucking crazy
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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I love you non english pronoun nonconformity I love you boys who use nosotras I love you girls who use boku/ore I love you boys who use 她 and girls who use 他 I love you 佢 I love you non english neopronouns
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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I was reading a book about nonbinary gender during Medieval-Renaissance times, specifically focusing on nonbinaryness and religion (it's called The Shape of Sex: Nonbinary Gender from Genesis to Renaissance, check it out). And it occured to me a noticable difference in how cis perisex people approached the issue of gender.
When it comes to trans perisex people, God doesn't make mistakes. You were born as God intended, and exactly as God intended. If God had wanted you to be [sex], you would've been born that way!
But when it comes to intersex people... well, that's a mistake of nature. You aren't really natural, so you need to be fixed. You must fit into one of two boxes, no matter what how you were born.
When it's a "choice" you are going against nature, but when it's natural, there must be something wrong with you. And these inconsistencies don't matter because it's more about protecting the binary ideal (and the dominance hierarchy that goes with it, which is also used to justify classism) than actually following logic. And that's how you end up with the idea that after the Resurrection, there's nooo way that humans could be reborn with no gender (even if that was a very common idea, based in the idea of becoming "like angels"), that's impossible, everyone's body will be brought back just as they were born.... unless you are intersex. Or disabled. Or too short. Or not white enough. Or not attractive enough. Then God will change you. But you have to have an average dick or an average vagina, that's non-negotiable. God created you as He intended. Unless you are anything other than a European White perisex cis straight abled person, then He'll need to give you a whole new body. But God doesn't make mistakes!!!
And that's why lame ass loser theology won out over cool sexy chad "gender is the original sin and the first human was a boygirl" theology lost. for now
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intercourse-scapegoat · 3 years ago
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cis lesbian who kills people ❤️ her trans gf who embalms the bodies
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