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Currently in a diaper with 2 boosters and a catheter ran through my chastity cage and now to work for the next 8-10 hours

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[jovialprunepartyhound]

Ok baby. Remember that all of these things below are what you want. And what you need

I want to be padded in super thick, poofy padding.

I want to be caged, and a vibrating plug inserted in me.

I want to be constantly reminded to drink lots of water so I can have lots of soggy accidents.

I want to have my padding rubbed, poked, prodded, and stroked.

I want to be reminded how I'm just a little baby, who has no control, will have constant accidents, and can do nothing about it.

I want to be restrained, unable to escape, vulnerable, embarrassed, and humiliated to the point that I'm super blushy.

I want to be teased, having a magic wand buzzing up and down my full padding.

I want to be forced to take an enema. Full and desperate, trying to hold back the inevitble mess that will end up in my crinkles.

I want to be teased about how I'm a little 'tinker, while having the mess squished around. Yet another reminder that I'm such a baby. Big kids don't wear diapers, or make messes in them. But you are no longer a big kid are you?

Image credit DiaperedOnline

[jovialprunepartyhound]

I’ve been contemplating putting my boyfriend in diapers and chastity 24/7. He’s begged me multiple times to put him back in diapers full-time, but the full-time chastity is more of my idea😈 If he wants to go back to pooping in diapers like a little toddler again, then he should lose the use of his little peepee for anything besides wetting his diapers, don’t you agree?💁🏻‍♀️

Sounds like thIs Mama knows what she is doing💁🏻‍♀️ you go get it, girlie! :)

I couldn't agree with this more. If he wants me to change his pee soaked, drenched, & loaded pampers like a baby, then we can make his little worm effectively useless like a little baby ☺️

[jovialprunepartyhound]

Part time Diaper Discipline

As regular readers will know we’re big advocates for 24/7 Diaper Discipline but this isn’t always possible for your situation so this short guide are some options to explore.

Firstly these are still about diaper discipline not random diaper punishments so there has to be a level of consistency and regularity to it. 24/7 is most effective by being constant but the suggestions below can be ways to get started more easily.

Most of these can be combined and you should try layering them up until you can make the leap to 24/7.

Diaper Discipline Weekends

From after work on Friday until Monday morning they’ll be in diaper discipline. This should be without exceptions for any weekend activities so they’ll quickly get used to being diapered and using in public.

This should happen every weekend so another neat trick is to reduce them to 5 pairs of underwear to be used in the week which are then put aside to be washed over the weekend.

If you not combining this with other diapering in the week you should make this more intense to ensure it isn’t all fun for them. Incorporating a baby day, forced messing and/or bondage can be a good way to achieve this.

Diaper Discipline Evenings

Every evening after work they’re promptly diapered which will be their toilet until the next morning. Use exposed diapers or abdl clothing at home to add to humiliation elements of this.

One night a week make them sleep restrained in a spare bedroom after taking laxatives for a punishment element.

Diaper Discipline Vacations

Keep them in diapers for the whole of your next vacation. From leaving your house to returning they should be diapered.

For the best results inform your hotel/resort they’re incontinent so a medical trash can is included in your room which they’ll find highly embarrassing.

As your away from people you know experiment with being more open about their diapers, keeping them in thick medical ones at all times, leaving them visible in the room, dressing them in less discreet clothing and openly asking them how their diaper is or if they’ll need a change soon.

Swim diapers are also recommended and you can insist on this by saying the hotel would be concerned if they weren’t wearing one.

Baby Staycation

Take a few days off work and potentially combine with a weekend to give them a stay at home vacation as a baby. This should be 3-5 days where they spend the whole time at a baby age of your choice.

This will be hard work for you but can be fun and can be a great stress reliever for your partner too. At a minimum this means 24/7 diapers with no toilet usage, you taking care of all their checks and changes, and baby clothes / exposed diapers at all times.

The rest should depend on the age you pick:

Newborn:

Immobile (locking mittens, booties and other restraints)

All food puréed and drinks fed to them in bottles

No talking / pacifier at all times

Oral laxatives each day to simulate regular loose bowel movements

18 hours sleep each day, wake them up twice in the night for new bottles

Age 1:

Locking mittens and booties to force crawling

Food fed to them and drinks in bottles

Baby talk only, pacifier at most times

Mix of suppositories and oral laxatives used to give them lose and firm messes

Baby tv allowed

15 hours sleep each day

Age 2:

Locking mittens at night

Food eaten using their hands, drinks in sippy cups

Limited single word talking allowed, pacifier used regularly

Suppositories used randomly

Baby tv allowed

13 hours sleep each day

You could even start at newborn and progress them up a year every day or every other day.

Random Diaper Discipline days

Each week pick a 3 day period where they’ll be in diaper discipline. The timer starts for 72 hours when you say and diapers become their toilet, best used when diaper wearing is possible at work.

Week on, week off

Simple, follow 24/7 dd rules every other week.

50:50 DD

Your partner must be in diaper discipline 50% of the days in a month. They earn a day off with every day in DD and can spend these when they like up to half of the days in a month.

This % can be slowly increased so it’s 70:30 and 7 days of DD are required to unlock 3 days off.

Combine with other rules to reward higher DD elements, maybe they only earn a day if they mess that day, or they get a bonus day for a day trip out wearing & using thick diapers. Get creative!

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This but she's putting another diaper over the messy one I'm in before running out for errands with me

You were the one who shared their love of diapers with her You have accepted that she has made you her little but you still feel embarrassed.

You have never shown her this side of you.

She tells you it's okay but you're not ready to believe her.

She wants you to prove to her that you're her little, that you can go in your diaper.

She whispers “Well done! There my good boy” to you as you let out some pee pee.

She doesn't notice at first but you push so hard a fart escapes. She smiles at you excitedly.

You keep pushing and you feel pure shame as goosebumps envelop you. You can't hold back anymore, your laxative won't let you.

Your sphincter starts shaking and you grunt out of shame.

A warm mass starts to push through. You feel it coating your butt, it's pushing back against the diaper.

“Shhh it's okay, you're a baby now. Let out those pee pees and poo poos, you can do it in front of mommy, don't cry."

Image credit Sophie Little

[jovialprunepartyhound]

I wish my gf would take control like this

Her gaze cut through you like a hot knife in butter. Yet you couldn’t resist her. No more than a moth can resist a porch light.

You weren’t into humiliation. You weren’t into anything kinky at all before you met her. You thought she was the rare woman who accepted your incontinence, diapers and all.

And you weren’t wrong. She did accept your diapers, from a certain point of view. All it cost was your dignity and autonomy. And you long since stopped questioning if the juice was worth the squeeze. You were in too deep.

So now you expected this look. It was the look she gave you every time you waddled over to her with a load in your diaper, begging for a change. It didn’t matter that before you met her you were only urinary incontinent. She demanded everything ends up in your diaper.

It didn’t matter that you could easily change yourself. That was a privilege she took along with the rest of your continence.

The look was all part of the game she forced you to play. All part of the humiliation you never asked for, but could never resist.

You were hers. And you wouldn’t have it any other way.

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This is exactly why I want to be pierced so I can be locked securely

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I can imagine a holiday party with lots of people and being in the center of a nursery strapped down with the door unlocked for anyone to walk in to see me in this state but I would never know which guest happened to stumble upon me being punished

This is the real definition of diaper humiliation 😍 who will like to experience this

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How I need to be spanked for bad behavior then put in a thick diaper and tight thin shorts and sent to the store to get more diaper supplies and laxatives

Hunk is disciplined and humiliated.

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She does “traffic jam” chastity

Help! My husband asked me to try chastity play but it’s not going well. Usually, right after I’ve let him out, things are fine. He can be a little cool toward me but that’s fine. But then over the next two days he grows steadily whinier until his begging to be unlocked is intolerable. Not much fun for me or him. I never tell him exactly when I’ll do it, but I almost always take pity on him in the evening on the third or fourth day and let him out to take care of himself. The whole thing has been a bit of a letdown. Is this what everyone is raving about? Surely not.

- Ms. M

No, Ms. M, it’s not and I dare say it’s because…

YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG

Okay, there’s no such thing as right and wrong with intimacy, just different tactics that will yield different results. The tactics you’re using are not aligned with the very achievable results you seek.

Traffic Jam Chastity

Don’t you hate idling in a traffic jam? The worst isn’t standstill traffic. The worst is traffic that is moving just slow enough so that you can’t leave your foot on the gas because you have to keep braking every five seconds. Starting and stopping in crowded traffic is enough to send any driver to road rage court. But that is exactly what you’re doing to your husband.

After a man orgasms his sexual response and interest drop precipitously to their lowest levels. We’ve all seen it. Interest in sex evaporates. Romance and flirting get shoved roughly in a drawer and the male brain hunkers down to git stuf dun.

But, as we know, those rascally males don’t stay heads-down for long. Within 24 hours the sexual response begins to slowly return as the prostate refills. He barely notices it at first but by the second and third days it has taken over his one-tracked mind and he’s getting pretty ready for some luvin’. Shouldn’t that mean you should give it to him? Give him some relief?

Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating for a man

No! Let me explain why not. Days 2 and 3 are the most irritating phase of chastity for a man. Why? For the same reason day 3 of any diet is the most temptation prone and why it eliminates so many dieters. He’s transitioning from getting exactly what his body demands to not. It’s an uncomfortable change and the body doesn’t like it. Every five minutes his body asks “Wait, wut? You mean I can’t have? Why can’t I have? I need! Give me now!” Frustration and irritation mount and, if you do let him orgasm, he will experience immediate relief.

The Goldilocks Phase

Relief is not pleasure. Relief is not useful. Relief, his relief, is not your friend. It lets him off the hook and unravels all that nice tension you just wound into his brain. If you want to experience the benefits of chastity and you want your husband to be floating on the fabled submissive cloud of chaste pleasure then you need to get him past the constant battle for relief and into the Goldilocks Phase.

Sometime after day 4, depending on the man, his body will slowly start to realize that an orgasm is not imminent and therefore it’s a waste of resources to keep expecting relief at any minute. This may take hours or days but he will eventually stabilize into acceptance. Not just mental, but physical acceptance. This is where you want his head.

In the Goldilocks Phase, his expectations have been lowered enough to stop fighting chastity but not so low that he gets depressed. In this phase he is free to simply experience chastity, to experience the sensation of ever growing arousal and ever intensifying desire. For men, desire is pleasure. This will be a sweet sensation that never stops, made just a little bittersweet by occasional waves of overwhelming need. (Don’t worry about those They pass quickly.)

Goldilocks is best for you too

It’s not just him that rides this wave. You benefit most in this period. Rather than spending time fighting chastity and pestering you, his only way out and only listening ear, he spends his time in quiet contemplation. It is this phase that he switches to the long game. Instead of busting out a couple of chores and expecting a tit-for-tat release, he begins to consider the keyholder’s point of view, her needs and her whims. He finds himself doing things that he knows she’ll appreciate and he hardly even notices that he’s doing them. He truly puts her first.

But you need to do it right

But for him to take that view you need to play above his level. Chastity must reinforce the dynamic you want. That means the following:

You never promise a date. You can hint at early release for good behavior or late release for bad, but he must never expect an actual date or time.

You must never cave to begging. He may ask politely once or twice during a stretch of chastity and, if you wish, you may give his request some consideration. But once your decision is made you must stick to it no matter what. I recommend that further begging result in a longer sentence.

Behavior should be tied to chastity. Don’t reward bad behavior. If you do you’re just teaching him he can do it and get the rewards.

How Long? Three-to-four weeks

The Goldilocks Period is about three to four weeks long. During this period he will slowly get more and more aroused, experience more and more submissive feelings toward you and become more and more malleable by you.

That long? I couldn’t possibly!

To some who are starting out, weeks of lockup might seem cruel. Believe me, it’s not as cruel as what you are doing to him by letting him out every three days, stop and go, hot and cold, up and down. If your doctor prescribed a 20-day course of antibiotics would you stop taking them after three days when you started feeling better? No. The same goes with the man. To get all those benefits you need to keep him locked for the full course. I would say that’s at least two weeks (in the case of some reward for extra good behavior) but usually three weeks. And up to four (in the case of bad behavior).

How will you know? He will thank you.

How will you know that you’re keeping him locked up long enough? He will thank you. That’s right, he will actually thank you for keeping him locked up. It might not happen right away. It might take several rounds, several months for his thinking to evolve but it surely will. I’ve done this to hundreds of men, some in person some online. Every single one of them proactively thanks me at some point. There are other signs as well. Aggressiveness toward you will disappear. Calm, quiet service to you will develop spontaneously. After the letdown of orgasm he will actually crave to go back in chastity. He’ll miss that glow so much he’ll want to skip past the next three days so he can get it. Eventually he’ll reach the point that he doesn’t want to be unlocked when the time rolls around. At that point you can have the magical discussion about… wait for it… permanent chastity. That, however, is a discussion for another day.

So man-up, ladies and lock him down and swear off traffic jam chastity forever.

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I want this so bad to be fully exposed and strapped down and force fed a few bottles before the paci gag is forced into my mouth and put to bed

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It’s not about the diapers

It’s about control and power

Not only does wearing diapers deny him access to his penis and his own pleasure

It also controls his most basic bodily function

In time it will regress him back to a more willing and more attentive boy

And it reduces him to where he belongs

Humiliated dependent and weak

By using forced diapers you strip away every last ounce of dignity he has

You own him. He is yours

Sure he will touch himself, but only over the padding. Frustrated and denied. Your pathetic little diaper boy.

Image credit Sophie Little

[jovialprunepartyhound]

i just posted something new to my sb!

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“Mommy’s New Dress Code”

Those pants are way too tight to hide the diaper I’m going to make you wear out tonight 😏

Watch it here 🍼💦

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How i became a Mommy for my Hubby

...Chris was at work, when i got on his PC for a little shopping. Accidentally i closed a tab, that i didn't want to close. So i eventually got to the Browsers history, to open it up again...

...What i found there, wasn't my shopping Tab only, but also Chris' search history: "ABDL" "MDLB", "SDK Diapers"and "Messy Diaper" were some of the terms, he was searching for...

A quick google search revealed, that my boyfriend might be an Adult Baby... 🍼😆

Never heard about that before, but i am not a quick judge, when it comes to kinks or sexual fantasies. We all have em, right?! ☺️

So I was looking around a bit, and found those "SDK diapers", he was searching for. "SDK" stands for "Super Dry Kids", as i found out 😂

They look like real Pampers from back then...😅

Should i speak to him, that i saw his browsers history? Or should i just buy him these diapers?

Hmmm... Guess it'll be fun to see his face, when i hold one of his desired Pampers up and say: "Lay down baby, lets get your bum in one of these!"

Yeah, i like that idea, so I just ordered two packs these "ABU SDK" as well as some babypowder and, of course - a binky for him 😋

He was also active on an ABDL-Forum, describing to others that he wants his gf, me, to be his mommy, that puts him in diapers for weekends, f.e. 😆

He describes that he identifies as a "middle" that still needs diapers and his paci. Haha... isn't that cute somehow?! 🤭

He also wants to be forced to use diapers for it's intended purposes... Well, guess i can make that happen 😋

When he came home from work, I didn't let anything show...

Till the next days, when his Pampers and supplies got delivered... ☺️