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Why do people become silent?

After a certain age, People become silent. It is not like they don't wanna have a decent conversation. It is more like if I am doing something, then it should make sense. Otherwise, things don't become interesting. It is also a sign of experiencing some hostile environments people encounter at certain times in their life. It is also the experience of knowing people. They know eventually what will happen after a particular phase of a relationship.

Once some of them used to be the stud who bullied everyone that came to their contact to express their strong personality. But now they understand that it actually doesn't matter at all. And hurting someone can't be a good idea. We don't have the right to do so.

If you accuse me of something, honestly I don't have the mental strength to deal with that. If you think I am wrong, then I am okay with it. The most important thing is, that I know I was right. There are some valid reasons that made me take that decision. And it was the best path to choose for the greater good. But people always do not have the strength to explain everything. And it is totally fine to feel like this.

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Love 101

I believe, a Man and a Woman can never be just friends. Once in a lifetime, they will definitely fall in love if they stay together or interact frequently. So, as a boyfriend, what can you do to keep her away from the boys who are constantly trying to cut you off by manipulating her? Keep an sharp eye on her? Not letting any body come near? Telling her not to interact frequently or isolating her from meeting other men? Then get ready for being single and depressed. Because now you are a dominating, rude and toxic boyfriend. These acts will just make her feel uncomfortable and day by day things will get worse and toxic between two of you. Then again, you can't let others to snitch your girl and your happiness under your nose. Stuck? Listen to me. You love her right? Then make her feel it everyday, everynight. Some little things are very important. Make her feel special and never leave her hand. But we boys become very very careless and get busy about our stuffs after getting into a relationship. First few months, everything seems like a dream come true. And do everything I always dreamt of. Then one day, things don't feel special anymore. We become busy in our own daily routine. After some day, you will start yelling at each other frequently. And that is the perfect time for the third person to enter your life and ruin the relationship. So, make her everyday special and beautiful. Not because you have to do it. Because you want to do it. And about the men around your girl who subconsciously have the intention to snitch your girl, just make them your friend. I mean both of you. It should seem like 3 best friends together. Try to make them feel that you are best buddy. And if they are single, then help them get into a relationship. Like A real bestfriend does. Never ever let your girl spend lonely time with him until you are sure that he is like a brother to her. Still I don't suggest to let her alone with a man. And girls, never trust your man about the sluts. They won't leave you. But they can do some real shitty stuffs. I will let you know about that later on.

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Love 101

Yeah it is true that understanding a women is the most difficult part of a relationship. And Men did a lot to understand them and impress them. Sometime they succeed and sometime got dumped. It's like gambling. Why ? The reason is, women are confused. Very confused. Some of them are obviously different. But most of them are confused about their decisions. Even many of them gets manipulated by other men. So, you lad are in big trouble if your girl has a male best friend. But they have some very common characteristics and I will give a short brief about that in my next writing. Okay, so it sounds like it is not and never going to be possible to settle with the ONE. Now you sir don't get confused about your girl. Cause later on, I will give a valid reason of them being confused. For now, let's just stay confident about the fact that, if you truly love your girl and at the same time you are not dumb, then don't worry about losing your girl. Whatever happens she will never leave you. And I will also tell you that why some of you are dumb or become dumb in one of my writing later on.

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Why Writing ?

We all want to say something to someone. But that one thought always come to our mind that what if that other person judges me ! In worst case, the other person without listening you properly, will start filling you with some negative vibes.

So, I think writing is the best thing to express yourself. Yeah, some people will always judge you. But it is better to get the negative feedback as a random comment. And you also get the time to reply it with your positive thoughts.