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(Take 3 :/ ) Here's a tutorial for how to do this magic wand tie: (tumblr keeps not liking it but hopefully it stays up this time lol)

!!!Safety Stuff!!!

-Rope/shibari is edge play, and nerve damage happens fast. Always tie with rounded scissors/medical shears in reach (I'll usually have mine just out of frame)

-This tie has ropes close to the back of the knee, where there's a lot of important nerves and blood vessels. Be sure not to tie too tight there and if you feel any numbness or tingling readjust until it goes away. If it persists for longer than a couple minutes, untie immediately!

-The magic wand probably wasn't designed to be so enclosed, so maybe take breaks more often to avoid overheating, and try to not struggle too much (don't want to break it)

Now for the fun stuff!

Materials: Medical shears, 30 ft of rope (any material, I used cotton), magic wand

Step 1: Start with your 30 ft rope folded in half. Wrap around one leg and the wand, then reach through the bight (the folded bit) and pull the tails through. You want the bight fairly close to where your leg meets the wand, and tightness-wise you always want to be able to get 2-3 fingers between your rope and you.

Step 2: Reverse tension and make another wrap below your first one. Reach through the secondary bight you just made and pull the tails through...

Step 3: ...Like so. Keep two fingers where you just pulled through, and bring the tails between your leg and the wand.

Step 4: Bring the tails back between your legs and the wand, underneath the back wraps this time, and grab the tails with the two fingers you kept in place before. Pull the tails through, then hold the knot while you pull the tails more to cinch the wraps together, locking the wand in place. This much of the tie is a larks head double column, and the Duchy has a great tutorial on it here.

Step 5: Start another wrap going left higher up the leg. Wrap around both legs and the wand, and have the tails go underneath the first bit of the wrap.

Step 6: Reverse tension, and make another wrap below the first. Reach through the secondary bight and pull the tails through, similar to Steps 2 and 3.

Step 7: We're going to do another cinch like we did in Step 4, so keep two fingers where you just pulled through. Bring the tails between your leg and the wand, capture the back wraps, then back to the front. Grab the tails with the two fingers from before and pull through, then hold the knot and pull the tails to cinch together.

Step 8: We're going to do another cinch on the other side, so repeat Step 7 but between the wand and your other leg. 2 fingers, up and over, back underneath, 2 fingers, pull through and cinch. Then all that's left is to use up any leftover rope (I did that by adding an ankle cuff but you can do whatever you want) and you're done!! Have fun ;3

(Note: I made the ankle cuff by running up and over the wraps, but I realized while writing this that it would've been more aesthetically pleasing to go underneath instead, so oops :/ )

I cannot recommend the Duchy enough, its where I learned most of my stuff and they have a ton of free materials.

If you enjoyed this or learned something, why not leave a nice comment and make a trans girl's day? :3

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fuck nudes, send me moan audios

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sorry for giggling so much while you're trying to fuck me i'm just excited

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REMEMBER: If you bite your partner and it breaks the skin, you need to clean it and bandage it properly as soon as possible. Human bites get infected VERY EASILY.

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Mission accomplished

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Updated Library For Kinksters

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

Topping from the bottom

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Clicker training is a fun concept right?

You’re way too smart for that aren’t you though?

*click*

You’re a big smart girl. Sure its you feel good when you hear that noise

*click*

But it’s your choice isn’t it?

*click*

If I tell you to stick your tongue out

*click*

And you do it 

*click*

That's just because you wanted to, right?

*click*

Of course you’re not being trained. You’re just having a good time 

*click*

Take your tits out

*click*

You wanted to do that didn’t you, it couldn’t of been the clicker

*click*

No of course not

*click*

But what if? 

*click*

Of course you’re not being trained. You’re just having a good time 

*click*

Start rubbing yourself

*click*

The clicker feels so good doesn’t it?

*click*

And of course you like to feel good

*click*

You want to do what makes you feel good

*click*

You NEED to do what makes you feel good

*click*

It doesn’t really matter if it’s your choice

*click*

It just feels too good

*click*

Go ahead and just admit it

*click*

You’re a clicker trained slut

*click*

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If you're such a dom, why don't you get on with it and break me already~

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someone letting me bruise them is more romantic than jewelry or flowers. knowing someone is going to think about me every single time they touch it? knowing they're going to whine when they start to yellow and fade and that they're going to inevitably ask me to leave more? we might as well be married

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Say those three little words she's dying to hear:

"You own me."

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btw. being kink positive means ALL kinks even the ones you think are "immoral" or whatever the fuck. "but what about-" especially that one. no sex act between consenting adults is immoral actually. kill the cop in your brain.

of course that doesn't mean you have to be comfortable with every kink. it's fine to have limits for your own personal stuff. but if you judge people based on what they do with their consenting partners, I cannot stress this enough, you are being a bad person.

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i have morals, boundaries and self respect until i'm horny

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One of my favorite things that is so underappreciated.

Casual groping

With cuties that are fine with you getting a feel. Sitting next to them and sliding a hand up their skirt. Slipping a few fingers into them under the table. Leaning over them from behind and squeezing their breasts. Getting a handful of their ass as you walk~

Just little reminders throughout the day that the moment we're back in private their legs are going to be up over my shoulders~

Bonus points when they get flustered and start breathing heavy~

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Saying "must I put a leash on you?" when they keep wandering off in public just to watch them blush and immediately grab my hand to stay close.