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♡ asks ♡

 Do you have freckles? 

 Do you drink tea or coffee? How do you take it? 

What was the last song you listened to? 

Do you sleep on your back, stomach or side? 

Do you sleep with a stuffed animal? 

Do you prefer drawing or writing? 

What’s your ideal number of blankets to sleep with? 

What’s your favorite band/artist? 

When is your birthday? 

How tall are you? 

What color are your eyes? 

Who are five (or more) people you want to hug right now? 

Fears? 

What’s your favorite color? 

What’s your favorite season? 

Want any tattoos? What of? 

Want any piercings? Where? 

Who is the last person you texted? 

Do you have a best friend? How long have you been friends? 

What/who do you miss? 

How was your day today? 

How much sleep did you get last night? 

Do you believe in aliens? 

When was the last time you cried? Why? 

What’s your favorite decade? 

What are some seemingly childish things you like? 

What’s your favorite book? Or just one you’ve read a few times? 

How are you, really? 

Does it take you a long time to make decisions? 

What are you looking forward to in the near future? 

What are you looking forward to in the distant future? 

If you could go anywhere right now, where would you go? 

Do you sleep with your door open or closed? 

What’s your favorite flower? 

Do you currently have a squish? 

Do you like your middle name? 

Do you prefer dogs or cats? 

Do you have any phobias? 

Do you stay up late?

Do you like the beach? Do you prefer it sunny or cloudy? 

What’s your favorite cartoon? 

Tag 5 of your favorite blogs

Do you have siblings? How many? 

Who was the last person you said “I love you” to? 

Is there anyone you would die for? 

What do you need when you’re sad? 

Have you memorized your phone number? 

Who’s someone you can trust with your life? 

What does your last text say? 

Wild Card. Any question, ask away. 

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“Some seem to be desynchronized in their relationships. They feel oppressed, because they cannot move forward together and at the same pace. Their thinking is often incongruent, their motivation disparate. The phone could be a mediator, as it creates an impression to be a perfect reliable friend. However, in the end, it causes rather a sense of isolation, since it divides more than it unites. Eventually it appears not to be such a good friend but only a ghost friend. ( “Kein Schwein ruft mich an” )”

— Erik Pevernagie

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I've noticed how a lot of people are operating from (and never seem to live up to their ego) and how often ego gets confused with confidence. Aka fake confidence. We live in a world where loudness is mistaken for strength and arrogance for self worth. But in reality, the ego is fragile. It constantly needs feeding, approval, attention, validation, status—while real confidence is quiet, grounded and doesn’t need to prove anything

Ego is rooted in fear Confidence is rooted in self trust

1. Ego needs validation. Confidence doesn’t

Ego: Do they think I’m good enough?

Confidence: I know I am, whether they see it or not

2. Ego competes. Confidence supports

Ego: Wants to outshine others

Confidence: Knows that lifting others doesn’t dim your own light

3. Ego controls. Confidence allows

Ego: Obsessed with outcomes, appearances and being liked

Confidence: Trusts the process and is okay with not being for everyone

4. Ego reacts. Confidence responds

Ego: Feels attacked and lashes out

Confidence: Stays calm and chooses peace over power

5. Ego hides. Confidence reveals

Ego: Covers insecurities with masks—perfectionism, arrogance, or over explaining

Confidence: Is okay being imperfect, vulnerable, real

6. Ego proves. Confidence just is

Ego: Needs to show, argue and justify

Confidence: Speaks less, and moves with quiet certainty

7. Ego needs attention & validation. Confidence is secure without it

Ego: Constantly checks for texts, views, likes, compliments

Confidence: Enjoys attention, but doesn't depend on it

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never ever talk to me about law and order again conservative. never fucking again.

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Happy October!!!

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Hazel Scott playing two pianos at the same damn time with ease

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7 Things that Block your Happiness

1. Self hatred and self blame

2. Not being able to let go of the past.

3. Not being able to forgive yourself.

4. Not being able to cherish who you are.

5. Needing other to validate you.

6. Letting other people define who you are.

7. Trying to be perfect, and to please everyone.

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