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Quiero mi liga asexual 😍

LGBTQ+ Pride Scrunchie from JujubeCo

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Yo:

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Recuerden amigos, la A no es de "Aliados" ._.

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...this u.u

chipped

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Me siento bastante identificada... 

wanting and not wanting at the same time

a comic for asexual awareness week

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Will Byers from Stranger Things is aro/ace and Eleven is demi, I've decided

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¿Y si todos los aces hemos sido pasteles siempre?

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Fact de la noche: los asexuales (y quienes estamos dentro de espectro asexual) no somos todos "heteros" ni "heteros queriendo ser especiales"

La A nos representa a todos y no pueden quitarnos o negarnos eso.💜

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Morning sketch of Mariya Takeuchi’s Plastic Love 

It’s not exactly right but who cares. XD

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Mucho morado por aquí... Me encanta 💜

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Ya que recuperé la contraseña de esta cosa voy a hacerlo MI lugar para hablar de... Pues de Asexualidad y de mi xD

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the confused asexual before realizing they were asexual:

► “I’m not dating anyone because I want to focus on school and I’m too busy.” -said all through high school and college.

► “I don’t care how someone looks, I care about their personality.” - A common response to: ‘what’s your type??”

► Yeah, literally not having a ‘type’. Never understanding how people have ‘types’.

► “I’ll never have kids I am going to have dogs.”

► Never understanding fuck, marry, kill. Especially other peoples choices in the game.

► Getting really good at saying “Thank you for asking, but I’m just not interested in dating anyone right now.”

► Avoiding sexual conversations at all costs because they are uncomfortable, confusing or truly boring.

► Being a total hopeless romantic and wondering why people are more interested in how hot someone is versus them being kind?? or smart?? or funny?? what their hobbies are?? how they treat their mom??

► Being confused when people will go out of their way, even dangerously so, to please/impress someone they think is hot. Like why? You can see the heartbreak coming a million miles away because what even is sexual attraction.

► The explanation at all family dinners for not having a significant other is that you have more important things to be worrying about right now, LIKE SCHOOL.

► Being completely oblivious to others flirting at you and also not realizing when you might be coming off as flirty because you’re just a nice person and like to hold doors open for people.

► Anytime you find a good new song and then actually listen to the lyrics and sit there like??? What does this mean?

► Wondering why thinking about holding someones hand gives you butterflies in your stomach but if you even try to imagine having sex with them your mind goes blank.

Hey, if you’re ace, that’s chill. It doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you or that you need to change. Some people just aren’t into people sexually and that’s fine. Be confident in yourself.

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For the people out there who think you need to have had sex at least once before you can really say your asexual.

I will say this

Straight men? You are no longer allowed to say your straight till you've fucked a guy and decided you dont like it.

Straight women? You are no longer allowed to say your straight till you've fucked a girl and decided you dont like it.

Gay men? Ditto. No saying your gay till you've fucked a lady and found you didnt like it

Lesbians? Fuck a dude first or you just not valid, sorryyyy!

Did this make you angry?

Guess what! Now you know how asexual people feel when you start this shit with them. I'm 30 years old. I am asexual. I have never had sex. Never had the slightest inclination to have sex.

And I do not need to have had sex to decided I'm just flat out not goddam interested.

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Sorry

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HEY KINGS, QUEENS, AND EVERYONE IN BETWEEN!

ACES AND AROS ARE LGBT! NOT IN SPITE OF IT, BUT BECAUSE OF IT! IF YOU ARE ASEXUAL OR AROMANTIC OR ANYWHERE ON THOSE SPECTRUMS, YOU ARE LGBT BECAUSE OF IT! THE A IN LGBTQIA+ STANDS FOR ACE AND ARO!

YOU CAN BE ATTRACTED TO THE OPPOSITE GENDER AND STILL BE ASEXUAL! YOU CAN BE ATTRACTED TO THE SAME GENDER AND STILL BE ASEXUAL! YOU CAN HAVE SEX SOMETIMES AND STILL BE ASEXUAL!

YOU CAN FIND PEOPLE ATTRACTIVE AND STILL BE ARO! YOU CAN HAVE MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIPS WITH PEOPLE AND STILL BE ARO! YOU HAVE FEELINGS AND YOU ARE VALID!

There is nothing wrong or broken about being asexual, aromantic, anywhere on those spectrums, or any combination thereof!

You are LGBT+ because of the way you feel attraction, not in spite of it!

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<3

Canon (Het)Aces 85/:?: Emma (Dana Shiree) Ace and Anxious (2017)

I’m too asexual for this much anxiety, you know?