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What happens if two girls put a love spell on the same man @ the same time ?

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Sue Lyon at the premiere of Lolita, 1962

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Sertraline and Pasta 🍝

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SZA (2023)

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Still beating

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I feel better

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My soul hurts

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I can’t take it anymore

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New hair, who this ?

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Who wanna be friends 🥹

I really wanna do this.

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I’m gonna be okay. This is just a bump in the road.

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My soul hurts. I need help.

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I do not want mommy friends. I stg. I do not like y’all kids.

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Imma die single too

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hey girly. i know you always say men are predictable and i just wanna ask for some tips on them so i will not end up getting my feelings hurt over them lmao. basically, just general men tips so i will always have a one up on them lol

- The way a guy approaches you is the way he's going to treat you throughout the duration of the rest of the relationship. If a guy approaches you with little to no respect, don't expect him to be a man while you're dating him. I notice this a lot with the girls who I knew in the past, if a man approaches you acting as if he's the prize and it's a luxury for him to ask for your number, you're pretty much setting yourself up by entertaining him.

- Speaking of, talking stages do not exist, it should take women no more than three days of interacting with a guy to know if he's worthy of staying in contact with or not. It shouldn't take you 5-6 weeks of talking to someone to try to figure out if they match your standards, if you're talking to someone for this long, you're just setting yourself up to get played.

- Men aren't complex, they're actually pretty upfront about how they're feeling, but women tend to be very emotionally and act as if they don't want to see how much of a trash person a man is. A man who actually likes you is going to be consistent and spoil you no matter what. A man who has little to no respect for you is going to disrespect you, be inconsistent, and treat you less than what you deserve. It's SIMPLE, understand that if a man hasn't responded to your text messages in three days, he's just not feeling you like that. No need to complain and get upset over it and pick your brain in regards to why he's doing it, you just need to understand he's not feeling you and to block his number!

- Don't get caught up in being strung along. Remember that men know when a girl is worthy of being his girlfriend (or fiance) within the first couple of dates with you. If you feel that you've been dating a guy for a good chunk of time and you're still anticipating for him to pop the question to be exclusive, you're going to be waiting for a LONG time. I know men who've asked women on the third date to be exclusive, if you're waiting for more than four months, he doesn't like you like that sis!

- Men are always talking to other women on the side, there's no other way of putting this. Even in exclusive relationships, they more than likely have someone that they'll hit up if the relationship doesn't work out. This is the main difference between men and women in relationships; while women are playing wifey to boyfriends in relationships, men are talking to other women! Not saying this to scare you, but I am saying this to tell you that if you want to be one up on a man, have a couple sides in your corner just in case.

- Girls need to pay attention to the men they're talking to conversation. Women tend to act surprised when a man turns out to be trash when he was clearly giving the red flags early on in the relationship. If he's speaking very sexual with you through text messages within the first couple of days of knowing him, he has one motive and that's definitely not to be in a committed relationship with you. Don't be a dummy, you should decipher a man who's really trying to get to know you vs. someone who's not.

- There is no way to avoid ghosting. It happens within every age group of men and they all do it, in order to be one up on them, you need to start ghosting men for every little inconvenience as well. Men ghost women for the smallest reasonings, and sometimes for no reason at all, women need to reciprocate this same energy.

- Remember that when it comes to men's mindset, women who give second chances = a pushover who a man will never take seriously. You need to set the bar high and let men know you're not the one to mess with. We don't give second chances over here, a man has one strike to get it right and if he doesn't he gets the boot! The more you let a guy get away with careless acts, the less he will respect you.