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Anti anxiety.

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if you're wearing a binder right now

reminder to

stretch

cough

and breathe

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Reblog if you’d be okay if your friend came out as transgender

let’s see how many transphobics we can weed out

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I am really gay

So this isn't advice or history, obviously, but I wanted to tell you guys what happened last night. So some sicko thought it was okay to send a message to a 13 year old he thought was a girl asking me to be his sugar baby. I reported it to the police. Unfortunately, my step mom called me her step daughter so I had to deal with being misgendered while talking to a deputy.(or so I thought) Basically, they took forever to get to our house(possibly because of idiots but Idk) and when the deputy got here, I noticed the cop was a guy. Before I go on, note that I can barely talk to strangers, let alone a male, and I'm absolutely terrified of cops(not going into what I think the reason it is). He introduced himself and asked what was going on. I showed him the message and the sicko's profile and, unfortunately, they can't do anything because it's not direct enough. During that entire time, I am not ashamed to admit(except to him. Because he's a male and a cop) that he was hot and that I was staring at him, partially because of him being a cop. I was nervous so I was shaking, but we were outside and it's December so it's ofc cold. He might have noticed I was staring, idk. Anyways, remember how I said that I thought I was going to be misgendered the whole time? Well, apparently I dressed masculine and stuff enough that he was confused and didn't call me a guy or a girl and didn't use any pronouns. He mainly talked directly to me as well so it wasn't too obvious to my step mom. Right after he gave me a speech about being careful online and stuff to make sure I'll be safe, I got on my phone and immediately texted my friends about the hot cop XD.(Btw I'm panromantic leaning more towards masculine people, aka guys and other genders that are more masculine than feminine. Which is why I'm nervous around most guys)

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Stop telling kids the second their family says something lgbt intolerant that they hate them and they will never change.

Stop telling kids things that make them feel even worse about being lgbt.

Stop telling lgbt that all intolerance is a direct act of hate when it can be confusion.

Stop training lgbt kids to be mad at the world cuz things get a hell of a lot easier when you approach things will kindness.

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so I did some research,

and guess what I found out?

GUESS WHAT I FOUND OUT???

a gender neutral term for a nephew or niece is the incredibly adorable and wholly excellent title “niefling”

and that means, in the D&D universe, someone can refer to another person as “my tiefling niefling,” and that just brings me an inexorable amount of joy

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Give yourself a big hug for making it through this year.

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Binder Giveaway

I have an XS Underworks Tri-Top binder I’m trying to give away to someone in need. I’m willing to ship it anywhere in the US for absolutely free. I had surgery last month so I just need it anymore. It’s beige and in new condition.

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I'm bored

Send asks about me or something, I just need something to do. So ask whatever, I'll answer as long as I'm comfortable answering them.

-Mod Alec

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reblog this to give every trans kid strength for the holidays

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When girls have periods? That’s mother nature.

When boys have periods? That’s brother nature.

When people beyond the binary have periods? That’s O T H E R N A T U R E

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Friends aren’t supposed to:

Make you doubt yourself

Boss you around

Make you anxious when you’re around them

Try to make you jealous

Lie to you or lie about you

Talk bad about you behind your back

Tell you what to wear

Steal your stuff

Tell your secrets to others

Embarrass you

Make you cry

Hurt you in any way (mentally and/or physically)

If you have a ‘friend’ like this, please end that relationship. I know what it’s like to have someone treat you this way. You’ll feel so much better when you get rid of that toxicity.

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Happy Holidays

I hope everyone has a great holiday, no matter what you're celebrating or if you aren't even celebrating! For some people, the holidays are hard, as it is for me especially this year, but I hope that you are having a great time. Make sure you are okay menrally and try not to interact with family members that are toxic if you have any.

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Kintsugi philosophy - to embrace and highlight the history, struggle, repair in gold for that is where the true beauty lies.