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Which Types of Sex Do You Like the Most on Tumblr? (Katie & Paul Want to Know!)

We love knowing what makes our followers tick–what gets them turned on, what causes them to linger and read our post and get naked vs. move onto the next one.

We wish Tumblr had a “vote” option so we could poll you all (like, c’mon Tumblr & Survey Monkey, combine forces, imagine all the fun one could have with sexual exploration with thousands of followers!)

In lieu of that, and because Katie has spent waaaay too much time today creating generic corporate clip art flow diagrams, we quickly had posited the above to get reactions from followers. Namely, of the 9 great types of sex that we like to focus on (Solo Acts of Naughtiness, Couples, Lesbians, FFM 3-Somes, MMF 3-Somes, FMFM 4-Ways, Gang Bangs (or is it “Gangbangs?? Katie & Paul debated on that one, but Katie liked the extra space visually), Reverse-Gang Bangs, and Orgies).which is your absolute favorite?

And don’t be wishy-washy and give us the answer of “Oh Katie & Paul, we like all spectrum of sexual activity, the point is to keep it varied”, yes we know that, but we are having fun playing a game where if you could only choose one thing to really focus on Tumblr tonight, which of those 9 great acts would it be?

We helped you out by giving you 9 great descriptions above, arranged by Katie using blandly middle of the road person icons (look, if we posted all kinds of actual erotic imagery, you might not answer this post back, and that defeats the purpose lol!)

Answer us in any way you see fit–post a comment to this posting (easiest, and while you are at it, kindly re-blog!), or message us at GroupSexIsFun.tumblr.com . We’ll tally up the votes and use that to drive a future top 10 list! (But really we just want to know what really turns you all on!)

–Katie & Paul, GroupSexIsFun.tumblr.com

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10  things a Dom expects a sub to know without being told

1. He needs to be the priority. Make him your priority regardless of how horny you are. A true Dom/sub relationship extends beyond sex into all other aspects of the partnership.

2. He has emotions and needs them acknowledged. The internet (and Tumblr is especially egregious in this regard) has created the toxic stereotype of the Dominant as this calm, cold, unemotional Olympian figure who is always as in charge of himself as he is of his submissive. Accept that your Dominant is human, and it is only normal, and that he will occasionally have a moment of weakness, or self-doubt, or — horrors! — shedding a tear.

3. Know him better than others. If your Dominant is having emotional difficulties, or even something as “insignificant” as a bad day at work, you should be sensitive to that, just as he needs to do likewise for you. It’s a mutually-caring relationship after all.

4. Let him control things (including you). That is his responsibility. Yours is to obey.

5. Abide by the rules. Your Dominant constructs various rules, tasks, rituals, etc, for a purpose. That purpose may not always be obvious to you. It doesn’t have to be. Trust that he knows what he’s doing. If you’re not willing to put in the work, then you should do some soul-searching and evaluate how deep (or even genuine) your submission really is.

6. Remember that he is yours. This is always reciprocal. Just as he expects your total devotion and commitment and fidelity, you have the right to expect those things from him. To be clear, this is not the same as taking your Dominant for granted. Just as he has to earn those things from you every day, so you also have to earn them from him every day.

7. Appreciate the work he puts into you, and let him know that you appreciate it. Being a dominant (especially in a day-to-day rather than sporadic relationship) is hard work. Let him know how much it means to you that he considers you worthy of all that work and direction and energy.

8. Be mindful of your respective positions in the D/s relationship. He is your Dominant. Can you be affectionately playful and impish? Yes; any Dominant who doesn’t  relish such from his submissive on occasion has some significant self-confidence issues. Sarcastic or willfully bratty? No way.

9. Give the same respect you get. If he shows you that, despite the way your relationship might look to the vanillas, he holds you in the highest respect, then return that  respect. If you come to the conclusion that he does not hold you in the highest respect, you might want to reevaluate your relationship and possibly move on.

10. Above all else: he expects your submission to be whole and complete and without reservation, save for those things that the two of you negotiate as equals before you offer him your submission (and renegotiate from time to time as the relationship evolves). You don’t get to submit just when you’re in the mood. There are no half-measures.

And on the flipside

10 things a sub expects a Dom to know…without being told

1. She needs to be the priority. She doesn’t want to compete with others. If every woman is hot, she’ll find it hard to stand out….and she needs to stand out.

2. She has emotions and needs them acknowledged. Probably more than you bargained for.

3. She needs you to know her better than others do….if her friends notice she was in a slump, you should notice first.

4. There are some things some of us just can’t physically do…don’t expect her to do something just because your last sub could or you’ve seen another sub do it. Not every sub can take a dick all the way down her throat.

5. Don’t compare her. She’s her own individual. She’s unique. That’s probably why you chose her in the first place. She may not be the hottest sub or have pics of her pink parts spread out for the world to see. But she goes out of her way to be the best in your eyes. Show her that she is.

6. Let her control things. ( wait, don’t let your heads explode here). If you’ve delegated certain chores to her…give her the control to do them. If they are getting done, does it really matter that they weren’t done in the exact way you would’ve done them?

7. Enforce the rules. All the time. Not just when it makes you feel Domly. After all, she’s in this D/s relationship because she needs the structure of the rules. She might sigh or grumble… but rules are partly why she’s here.

8. Remind her she’s yours. Every day. Even if you haven’t collared her, she’s given herself to you. She wants to hear and see that you own her. (Example: a hand full of hair while firmly kissing her will remind her of that…and get her wet in the process ;). )

9. Appreciate the submission she gives you. It takes more for some to submit than just the act of doing what they are told. She might find that she has to submit herself every day.

10. Be hers. Just as she is yours. Let her know that you aren’t just a Dom…you are HER Dom.

These are two separate blog posting yet fitting for one. That way everyone that needs it has both  to understand both sides of the coin. 

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Beyond Dominance, Part 2: Selflessness

Most of us are familiar with the D/s hierarchy of fulfillment:

The submissive’s needs.

The Dominant’s needs.

The Dominant’s desires.

The submissive’s desires.

It seems like a straightforward organization on paper. The submissive’s requirements within the relationship must be met first. Only then may the Dominant focus on his or her own needs and pursue his or her wants and fantasies.  In practice, however, nothing in a relationship is ever quite that simple.  Any experienced Dominant will tell you that dominance is a full time job. It takes considerable and often draining work. Certainly, it’s fulfilling work, otherwise we wouldn’t bother. It is, after all, what we were born to do: lead.

But leadership is not a path. We are trailblazers, creating the path as we go so that our submissives may follow. The Dominant way, like a thick, dark wood, is littered with all manor of obstacles. The quicksand of depression. The dead-fall of failure. The brambles of past trauma. But the gravest danger awaiting the unwary Dominant are the vipers of egotism. Their bite is vicious. Their venom is deadly to a D/s relationship.

I often pepper my writing with these woodland metaphors because I love to hike. There’s a saying among safety-conscious backpackers: never step on anything you can step over, and never step over anything you can step around. Here in the South, this warning is not only a reminder to avoid ankle-turning missteps. Any stone or log could be a hiding place for a rattlesnake. The Dominant path is much the same. If you would avoid the sting of egotism, amidst the devotion and worship or your submissive, you must take preventative measures. Selflessness is the key to always seeing that your submissive’s needs are met, that you never up-end the hierarchy of fulfillment and spoil the careful balance of your relationship.

Only by putting each other first can you both be first. If your submissive is worth the label, you will always be their first priority. That’s their nature, after all. You must do the same in your own way. It is a careful balance of perspective and attitude. It requires constant reflection, self-analysis and critique, and mindfulness.

One of my teachers recommended to all his students that they take time every night, before bed, to review their day, looking for mistakes they made and ways they could improve. Journaling helps to process these findings and work out strategies for coping with them. One might ask oneself a series of questions each journaling session if writing doesn’t come naturally.

What did I do today to help my submissive progress toward achieving her goals?

Did I put forth my best effort in providing my submissive with an environment conducive to her happiness?

When my submissive knelt/prostrated/etc before me, did I respond with grace and gratitude, or with egoistic pride?

Did I punish my submissive out of anger?

Did I make every effort to show my submissive how much I value her submission?

A strategy that has always kept me humble is to constantly remind myself that, while my submissive loves me and holds me in high regard, it is not me that she worships, but the ideal that I represent. I am a symbol of the strength, security, and stability that she needs. I can never earn the level of devotion she shows me. I can never be worthy of her reverence. But I can accept it as a symbol of the fulfillment of her needs and aspirations. By constantly setting my small self aside, I am able to view my dominance, my leadership in her life, as a service to her, rather than a fulfillment of my own ego.

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Beyond Dominance, Part 1: Humility

It seemed appropriate that I kick off a series about non-stereotypical Dominant traits by talking about the polar opposite of the Domly Dom’s raging ego: humility. A Dominant must have confidence, yes. Confidence in their ability to lead, to make competent decisions, to guide their submissive’s growth. But if confidence becomes hubris, there will be disaster for both Dominant and submissive. The ego must always be tempered by humility.

A Dominant takes on enormous responsibility. Especially in the case of a 24/7, total power exchange dynamic, the Dominant member of the relationship must ensure their submissive’s needs are met, make decisions that affect the lives of both parties, see to the submissive’s training, lead the submissive in the pursuit of his or her goals - it’s a sizeable burden to shoulder. Because of this, all experienced submissives I’ve met have great respect for any good Dominant. Indeed, the Dominants I know are gracious to one another as a rule.

Between the adulation of admirers in their local community or on social media, and the intoxicating praise and devotion of their submissives, even good Dominants fall victim to their own sense of self-importance. Their egotism rolls over not just any opposition they may face, but, if unchecked, their friends and even their submissive. Pride in one’s prowess, taken to extremes, can strip one of the very achievements that inspired such haughtiness.

So a Dominant should, at all times, cultivate a humble attitude. Confidence should stop short of arrogance. Leadership, of tyranny. Desire, of gluttony. The attitude of servant leadership is especially helpful in reigning in one’s ego while nurturing a Dominant’s required skill set. A servant leader leads without desire for personal gain, without thirst for power over others. A servant leader teaches, guides, and inspires their subordinates, always leading by example, and with integrity. This way, a good Dominant always places their submissive first. The submissive’s needs are the Dominant’s needs. The submissive’s goals are also the Dominant’s. The Dominant seeks only to see their submissive succeed, caring nothing for praise and reward. A happy, thriving, successful submissive is the Dominant’s reward. No other prize is required, nor is it desired.

It can be helpful for a Dominant to keep in mind the classic D/s witticism: A Dominant without a submissive is just a lonely misanthrope barking orders at their cat. D/s does not exist in an individual. We call them “relationship dynamics” because they’re all about how we construct and run our relationships. Without a submissive, even the best Dominant has no outlet for their relationship skills, no means of practicing their craft. It’s only when Dominant and submissive enter into the endeavor together that the Dominant can shine. I would even argue that greatness in a Dominant is a direct response to greatness in a submissive.

In the end, this is about a relationship. We Dominants can indeed take pride in our hard work, our talent and ingenuity, and the achievements of our submissives. But we must always work to keep that pride in check. Otherwise, rather than hearing the roar of a lion when we speak, our listeners are likely to hear the grating howl of a scavenging jackal.

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हां मुझे भी चरित्रहीन औरतें पसंद हैं~ओशो

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हां मुझे भी चरित्रहीन औरतें पसंद हैं… बेहद… बेहद.. खूबसूरत होतीं है वो..

बेबाक, बेपर्दा, स्वतंत्र और उन्मुक्त…

कि उनका कोई चरित्र नहीं होता। केवल चरित्रहीन औरतें ही खूबसूरत होती हैं।

पिंजरे में कैद चिड़िया कितनी भी रंगीन हो, सुन्दर नहीं लगतीं…

चाहे कोई कितनी भी कविताएं लिख ले उनपर।

क्या होता है चरित्र…? चरित्र गुलामी है, एक बंधन… वो शर्तों से तय होता है।

चरित्र गैर कुदरती है…प्रकृति विरोधी…अप्राकृतिक

चरित्र है… किसी तथ्य पर थोपीं गई शर्तें..शायद

हवा का चरित्र क्या है ? शांत, धीमे, तेज कि आंधी …!!

पानी का चरित्र क्या है…? गर्म, ठंडा या बर्फ..!!

और मिट्टी का चरित्र ? मूरत या ईंट…!!

जो चरित्रहीन होते हैं, सुंदर वही होते हैं…आजाद लोग ही खूबसूरत होते हैं….

कौन सुंदर है…?

कोने में अपनी ही कुंठाओं में दबी खामोश औरत चरित्रवान औरत….!!!

या किसी खुले में अपने मन से ठहाके लगाकर हंसती चरित्रहीन औरत ?.

कौन है सुंदर ?

वो जो चाहे तो आगे बढ़कर चूम ले… बोल दे कि प्यार करती हूँ…..

या वो जो बस सोचती रहे असमंजस में और अपने मन का दमन किए रहे…

दमित औरतें निसंदेह सुंदर नहीं होती, पर स्वतंत्र चरित्रहीन औरतें होती हैं खूबसूरत…

सोचना कभी …., जब अपनी टांगे फैलाई तुमने अपने पुरुष के सामने…अगर वो केवल पुरुष के लिए था तो ही वो चरित्र है….लेकिन वो तुम्हारे अपने लिए था तो चरित्रहीनता…. अपने लिए, अपने तन और मन के लिए खुल कर जीती औरते सुन्दर लगती है….हम उसे चरित्रहीन ही पुकारेगें

बच्चे चरित्रहीन होते हैं… उनका सबकुछ बेबाक… आजाद होता है। वो हंसते हैं खुलकर, रोते हैं खुलकर, दुख सुख, खुशी गम… सब साफ सामने रख देते हैं। वो दमन नहीं करते अपना।

चरित्र दमन है… पहले अपना, फिर अपनों का, फिर अपने समाज का….

गौर करना….जो जितना चरित्रवान होता है, वो उतना ही दमित होता है, और फिर उतना ही बड़ा दमनकारी होता है। हां, चरित्रहीन औरते सुंदर होती हैं..

वो, जिसका मन हो तो अपने पुरुष की हथेली अपने स्तनों तक खींच ले….

वो, जिसका मन हो तो वो अपने पुरुष को अपनी बांहों में जोर से भींच ले….

वो, जिसका मन करे तो रोटियां बेलते, नाच उठे…वो जिसका मन करे तो जोर से गा उठे वो, जो चाहे तो खिलखिलाकर हंस सके। वो जो चाहे तो अपने प्रिये की गोद में धंस सके। वो, जो चाहे तो अपने सारे आवरण उतार फेंके। वो, जो चाहे तो सारे कपड़े लपेट ले। वो, जो चाहे तो अपने बच्चे को स्वतंत्रता से अपना स्तन खोल दूध पिला सके, उसे दुलरा सके।

बच्चे को जन्म देते जब वो दर्द में चीखती है तो वो चरित्रहीनता है….आसपास की औरतें उसे चुप करातीं हैं। आवाज नहीं निकलाने की सलाह देती हैं…. सारा दर्द खामोशी से सहने को कहती है…चरित्र का ये बंधन कबूल नहीं होना चाहिए। प्रसव पीड़ा… तकलीफ है, सृजन की तकलीफ… तो उससे धरती गूंजनी चाहिए।

अपने पुरुष के साथ उसके मदमस्त खेल का दमन भी गैर-कुरदती है। इसे भी मुक्त होना चाहिए, उसे भी चरित्रहीनता होना चाहिए……

सुना है कभी किसी औरत को अपने परमानंद के क्षणों में एकदम खुलकर गाते ?

क्यों नहीं बोल पाती वो, अपने भावों को स्वरों में ? क्योंकि ये उसे चरित्रहीन साबित करेगा पर ऐसी औरतें ही सुन्दर लगती हैं….

धरती की हर चीज का सुख लेते, अपने भीतर और बाहर हर चीज से खुलकर खुश होते….प्यार में डूब सबकुछ से प्यार करती आजाद औरत।

हां, उस चरित्रहीन औरत से खूबसूरत कुछ भी नहीं।

हां मुझे भी चरित्रहीन औरतें सुंदर लगती हैं. बस वही सुंदर होती हैं…

कुंठित, गिरहबंद, बंद चरित्रवान औरतें तो कुरूप होती है, बेहद बदसूरत, बनावटी।

मुझे कुदरत पसंद हैं और उससे चरित्रहीन कुछ भी नहीं, उसका कोई चरित्र नहींl

चरित्र के मायने बंधा हुआ कैद जो मुझे नपसंद….

~ *ओशो* ✍

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