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Would anyone be interested in purchasing custom buttons? I need a way to make money for things I need while I job hunt; I appreciate all the support everyone has given me this past month, but I still need help.

I reaaaally love to make them and they are very, very cheap. They can be static or animated, with a wide range of animations I can do... They are name-your-price as long as it meets a minimum of $5 ♡

Please help me out :3

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Guys I'm so cooked.

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if adults can’t selfship with fictional minors because it’s pedophilia, minors can’t selfship with fictional adults because it makes them vIcTiMs 🫠🫠

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bedwetting, but the character doing it is having a dream where they're peeing normally in a toilet, urinal, outside, whatever, after suffering omo-typical horrifying desperation, and they're 100 % convinced this is real and act accordingly in real life, deflating in relief, letting out a sigh or hum, maybe even smiling or talking to themselves- just complete and utter fluffy bliss, they're so stupidly oblivious to the mess they're making as it's not happening in dream-verse

bonus if there's another character present who wants to wake them up to do damage reduction, but they can't bring themselves to because they just look so peaceful, and they don't want to ruin that by waking them up, but then they also feel guilty for not waking them up

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i need you to imagine your f/o happy. them smiling. them laughing. them telling you jokes. their eyes lighting up. them bursting with excitement. them fully relaxed. you have made their happiness increase immeasurably ever since you walked into their life. and the best part is? they feel all of these things because you’re by their side, just you being you in all your glory. and they love you for it. so much so that they will dedicate the rest of their lives to returning the favor.

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if your f/o has a canon love interest that isn’t you, imagine this…

as soon as your f/o first lays eyes on you, sees your smile, hears your voice, they forget all about that supposed love interest

doesn’t matter if they were in a relationship with them or just crushing

they look at you and wonder why they ever settled for anything less

they’re inescapably drawn to your presence, desperate for your love

any effort they have been putting in to expressing their love for the canon love interest?

now they’re putting in the same amount of effort for you, and probably even more

they feel absolutely nothing the next time they see the canon love interest

they only have eyes for you, and are appalled by the thought that they could love anyone else

they wish they had met you sooner, maybe then they wouldn’t have wasted their time and love on another insignificant person

<3

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This pride month I just want to say I love you fictosexuals and fictoromantics and your orientations are just as real and deserve just as much respect as any other. You're not unhealthy for loving the way you do and you can and will find acceptance.

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POV: You just saw a clip of your f/o online randomly (it was literally .5 seconds long)

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Imagine your f/o holding you tighter when they feel you shivering against them, trying to keep you warm.

ANTIS DNI, THIS IS NOT FOR YOU!

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got misgendered the other day.

Angel helps, thankfully. 🩷

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I can't stand a black person who can't handle the idea that other black ppl have agency and freedom from christofascism and don't operate under their fascist ideals of what a black person is supposed to do to maintain a very specific image. Calling shipping "weird white ppl shit" (or calling any behavior you disagree with white ppl shit) for ships that has mostly bipoc shippers is neglecting the hard work they put in to carve out a space in very white dominant communities in fandom. Black ppl are proship, black ppl are allowed to be weird, black ppl can be cringe, black ppl can act outside of the image even you as another black person put on them. Ur not progressive for not acknowledge black nerds the same as everyone else. Ur just as antiblack by upholding black ppl to very specific standards and ousting them when they don't meet those standards.

Love all my fellow black proshippers ❤️❤️

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Your f/o loves you

They have sharp teeth and they bite

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(teeth gritted) (hands gripping the sink) I deserve my f/o’s love I deserve my f/o’s love I deserve my f/o’s love I deserve my f/o’s love I deserve my f/o’s love I deserve my f/o’s love I deserve my f/o’s love

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Self-shippers with controversial F/Os I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os from unpopular source material I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os from obscure media I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os from canceled media I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os that get very little screentime in canon I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os that get ignored by their source material's fandom I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os that aren't taken seriously by the source material's writers I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os that have little to no merch, I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os that you don't feel comfortable talking about publicly, I love you.

Self-shippers with F/Os from a source material whose fandom is dead/dying, I love you.

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Imagine taking a bath with your f/o, where you simply just help each other in washing yourselves. How their fingers would massage the shampoo against your scalp, or how with their help you can finally wash those hard-to-reach spots at your back. Maybe you two would share each others' bath products from time to time, and when one of you runs out, they don't immediately replace theirs and instead- steal yours! You'd forgive them for such an egregious crime, won't you?

ANTISHITTERS DO NOT INTERACT

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Your f/o appreciates when you open up to them. They want to be there for you when you're struggling.

If you have trouble finding the words, that's okay. They'll wait for you to speak your mind, or you can write it out instead.

If you're worried about how your f/o will respond, you don't need to be. Your f/o's love runs deep. Doesn't matter what part of yourself you want to hide away, they will continue loving you.

Your f/o is proud of you for sharing a piece of yourself. They are honored to get to know every facet of your being.

ANTIS DNI, THIS AIN'T FOR YOU