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Because even as the self-proclaimed "apex species" we are but an aimless herd, desperately clawing at any opportunity to find a leader who can provide us with the comfort of an answer to the perpetual query that is the meaning of life.

written by me ꨄ~

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if it's good enough for you, then it deserves to be made. don't let anyone else decide if your story is worth it or not.

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Writers when it's time to write the story no one forced them to come up with in the first place 🙄

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If you want to live a happier life in your 60s and beyond, start saying goodbye to these 8 habits.

There’s a clear divide between simply growing old and truly living a fulfilling life in your golden years.

The difference? It’s all about habits.

Hanging onto certain habits can weigh you down, while letting go of others can lift you up.

If you’re seeking a happier life in your 60s and beyond, it’s time to say farewell to some of these old routines.

In this piece, I’ll share eight habits you should consider ditching.

Let’s get started.

1) Limiting yourself based on age

Age is just a number, right? Well, not always.

Too often, people entering their 60s start to impose limitations on themselves solely based on their age.

“Maybe I’m too old for this,” or “I wish I had done that when I was younger,” become common thoughts. But who says you can’t pick up a new hobby or learn a new skill in your 60s?

Restricting yourself based on age is a habit that can steal your happiness and limit your potential.

Believe me, you’re never too old to explore, learn and grow. So it’s time to say goodbye to this self-imposed barrier and embrace the possibilities that each new day offers.

Take it from me: Age doesn’t define your capabilities unless you let it.

2) Neglecting your physical health

Let’s be honest, we’ve all been guilty of this at some point, myself included.

I remember there was a time when I used to put everything else before my health. Work, family, chores…you name it. I would always tell myself I didn’t have time to exercise or cook a healthy meal.

But as I reached my 60s, I realized that neglecting my physical health was not doing me any favors. In fact, it was only making things harder.

I took small steps to change this habit – started walking for 30 minutes each day and gradually incorporated more fruits and vegetables into my meals. And let me tell you, the difference it made was astounding!

Not only did I start feeling better physically, but my mood and energy levels improved too.

Taking care of your physical health is a key component to living a happier life in your 60s and beyond. So bid farewell to the habit of neglecting it. After all, as they say, health is wealth!

3) Resisting change

Picture this – you’re in a boat, paddling upstream against the current. It’s hard work, isn’t it?

This is what resisting change feels like. It’s like fighting a losing battle against the natural flow of life.

The truth is, change is the only constant. Research even shows that our brains continue to develop and change throughout our lives.

Resisting change can lead to unnecessary stress and unhappiness. So why not embrace it instead?

Adapting to new circumstances can bring fresh opportunities and experiences. So it’s time to wave goodbye to this habit and start enjoying the ride downstream.

4) Holding onto grudges

We’ve all been wronged at some point in our lives. And it’s only human to feel hurt and angry.

But holding onto those grudges? That’s like carrying a heavy bag of rocks around with you everywhere you go. It weighs you down, both mentally and emotionally.

The key to unburdening yourself lies in forgiveness. It’s not about forgetting or pretending it didn’t happen, but rather choosing to let go of the anger and resentment for your own peace and happiness.

It’s not always easy, I know. But releasing these grudges can provide a sense of relief and freedom like no other.

5) Neglecting your passions

In the hustle and bustle of life, it’s easy to lose touch with the things that set our souls on fire.

Whether it’s painting, gardening, hiking, or simply reading a good book, these passions often take a backseat as we grow older. But who says that should be the case?

Your passions are a part of who you are, they bring joy and add color to your life. Ignoring them can leave a void, a feeling of emptiness that’s hard to shake off.

Why not reignite those flames? Make time for the things you love. Trust me, the joy it brings can make all the difference to your happiness in your 60s and beyond.

6) Trying to please everyone

Once upon a time, I found myself constantly saying “yes” to others, even when I wanted to say “no”. I was juggling multiple commitments, stretching myself thin, all in an attempt to please everyone around me.

But here’s the thing I learned – you can’t pour from an empty cup.

Trying to meet everyone else’s expectations left me feeling drained and unhappy. It was a wake-up call. I realized it was time for me to start prioritizing my own needs and happiness too.

It’s okay to say “no” sometimes. It’s okay to put yourself first.

Letting go of the habit of trying to please everyone can be liberating. Give it a try, and see for yourself how it contributes to a happier life in your 60s and beyond.

7) Dwelling on the past

The past can hold valuable lessons, yes. But living in it? That’s a different story.

Dwelling on past mistakes, regrets, or missed opportunities can rob you of your present happiness. It’s like driving while constantly looking in the rearview mirror – you’re bound to miss what’s right in front of you.

The truth is, we cannot change what’s already happened. But we can choose to learn from it, let it go, and focus on the present moment.

Start saying goodbye to the habit of dwelling on the past. Instead, embrace the present and look forward to the future with optimism and hope.

After all, life is happening right here, right now. Don’t miss it.

8) Forgetting to practice gratitude

Gratitude is a powerful habit that can transform your life. It shifts your focus from what’s missing to what’s already present, from lack to abundance.

By appreciating the small things – a sunny day, a good meal, a phone call from a friend – we cultivate positivity and contentment.

Practicing gratitude doesn’t mean ignoring life’s challenges. It simply means acknowledging the good that exists in every situation.

Start embracing gratitude today. You’ll be surprised at how it can lead to a happier life in your 60s and beyond. Trust me, there’s always something to be thankful for.

by Tina Fey

Photo by Silvia Machado

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is there any andre stans out there fr.. i feel bad for my boy he aint do nothing literally did NOTHING

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RAY FISHER as DARRIAN BLOODAXE REBEL MOON ‧ 2023

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My partner critiques my fics in memes, I felt this on a very personal level.

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Right!!? ITS TIME TO BRING HIM BACKKKK 💞💞

𝐁𝐚𝐜𝐤 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐟𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐡 | Ambrose Spellman

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"I like you." Pretty, dusk fingers fooled with Ambroses silver necklace, twirling the charm and then grazing his chest. Tapping against the collarbone just to stay near.

He looked into your brown eyes, a thought on his mind.

"Did that scare you." You mumble and the hesitant silence is answer enough.

"Mhh, you don't look well.. " the warlock sighed when you let out a chuckle.

"I'm fine." He smirked, faintly.

"Right. You have your horror stories."

"Hey.. " He mutters in hopes of reminding to keep the conversation at bay.

"Ambrose, I like you." You emphasized, but the longer the silence stretched the more things became clear.

And you mentioned again, "God, You really are scared." He looked towards the ceiling, eyes slipping shut.

"You don't know me."

"So is that my cue to leave and get dressed?"

"You are starting a fuss.. "

"An important conversation is the correct term but what'll it be? " you tested.

"Yes."

"Yes?"

"Yes." Ambrose blinked.

"No?" You looked along Ambrose like he was stupid and pulled the covers over your chest. He snapped his eyes open and started to sit up.

"I don't want to sound like a man but you wanting me leave isn't going through my ears right. If you want to talk.. or you want me to stay.. just say so."

"I already told you what I wanted."

"No you lied for your sake because you like me too and you're scared to explore it."

".. I don't appreciate you acting like-"

"Say you like me too, c'mon I dare you?" Ambrose glared down at you and then started laughing.

"You are.. impossible."

"Ambrose," you sat and held the cover to your chest, hand combing your kinks from your forehead.

"Did you really listen to those songs I played for you? The CD's?"

"What, yes, I did." His eyes fluttered.

"Mh, I don't think so."

"....."

"Listen, you're a good woman."

"I was just starting to wonder if you knew that too?" he deadpanned.

"But.. your way of life will be threatened because of me."

"And why is that." You became a little serious as he rolled onto his side and took a fair breath in.

"You a witch or something?" He froze.

"Am- am I witch? Warlock is the term... but-"

"So you're a warlock. Ok. Nice. Is that the secret?" Your response made his eyes as wide as an owl.

"This is real. Warlocks are real."

"I know." Ambrose was taken aback.

"You have great awareness and adaptability.."

You looked at him strangely. "That changes things. Slightly." Ambrose mutters to himself.

"But it changes things?" You look back at him closely. "So could you say it.." He watched you lean forward until your body was fully situated over him.

"Or do I have to coax it out of you somehow." He smiles when you do and fools with the kinks of your hair.

"I'd like to see your method?"

"Ok Mr. Wizard~" You cupped the side of his face.

"Warlo-" and shut him up with a kiss.

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We don't talk enough about this fashion icon who is on house arrest for 75 years and lives in pyjama pants and silk robes

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🄱🄰🄲🄺 🄾🅁 🄵🄾🅁🅃🄷 | Ambrose S.

"I like you." Pretty, dusk fingers fooled with Ambroses silver necklace, twirling the charm and then grazing his chest. Tapping against the collarbone just to stay near.

He looked into your brown eyes, a thought on his mind.

"Did that scare you." You mumble and the hesitant silence is answer enough.

"Mhh, you don't look well.. " the warlock sighed when you let out a chuckle.

"I'm fine." He smirked, faintly.

"Right. You have your horror stories."

"Hey.. " He mutters in hopes of reminding to keep the conversation at bay.

"Ambrose, I like you." You emphasized, but the longer the silence stretched the more things became clear.

And you mentioned again, "God, You really are scared." He looked towards the ceiling, eyes slipping shut.

"You don't know me."

"So is that my cue to leave and get dressed?"

"You are starting a fuss.. "

"An important conversation is the correct term but what'll it be? " you tested.

"Yes."

"Yes?"

"Yes." Ambrose blinked.

"No?" You looked along Ambrose like he was stupid and pulled the covers over your chest. He snapped his eyes open and started to sit up.

"I don't want to sound like a man but you wanting me leave isn't going through my ears right. If you want to talk.. or you want me to stay.. just say so."

"I already told you what I wanted."

"No you lied for your sake because you like me too and you're scared to explore it."

".. I don't appreciate you acting like-"

"Say you like me too, c'mon I dare you?" Ambrose glared down at you and then started laughing.

"You are.. impossible."

"Ambrose," you sat and held the cover to your chest, hand combing your kinks from your forehead.

"Did you really listen to those songs I played for you? The CD's?"

"What, yes, I did." His eyes fluttered.

"Mh, I don't think so."

"....."

"Listen, you're a good woman."

"I was just starting to wonder if you knew that too?" he deadpanned.

"But.. your way of life will be threatened because of me."

"And why is that." You became a little serious as he rolled onto his side and took a fair breath in.

"You a witch or something?" He froze.

"Am- am I witch? Warlock is the term... but-"

"So you're a warlock. Ok. Nice. Is that the secret?" Your response made his eyes as wide as an owl.

"This is real. Warlocks are real."

"I know." Ambrose was taken aback.

"You have great awareness and adaptability.."

You looked at him strangely. "That changes things. Slightly." Ambrose mutters to himself.

"But it changes things?" You look back at him closely. "So could you say it.." He watched you lean forward until your body was fully situated over him.

"Or do I have to coax it out of you somehow." He smiles when you do and fools with the kinks of your hair.

"I'd like to see your method?"

"Ok Mr. Wizard~" You cupped the side of his face.

"Warlo-" and shut him up with a kiss.

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DYLAN SPROUSE in Daddy (2019) dir. Christian Coppola

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Miles Morales, were he to become live action…

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۶ৎ 𝙲𝚘𝚖𝚎𝚍𝚒𝚌 𝚁𝚘𝚖𝚊𝚗𝚌𝚎 𝙿𝚛𝚘𝚖𝚙𝚝𝚜

I'll attempt

You're fighting someone in fourty-five minutes and a friend of a friend wants to help you win. But what could they possibly accomplish within that span of time? (College AU)

You just witnessed the most craziest thing, a student with supernatural abilities. What might be more crazy though is the fact that they want you to document their progress in properly using them. Since you're the only one who knows. (Supernatural AU)

After a failed invasion, the military leuianant in charge of it alongside others is punished with marriage to the queen, which is you.. but it'll be temporary. (Space Aliens AU)

During a vacation your fiancé planned you witness something strange at midnight. Turns out they didn't only come here to spend quality time with you but to handle something else. (Spy AU)

Your partner is striving to marry you and although you want to marry them back theres one more secret test you need to put them through. (Awful but Eye-opening Christmas AU)

As time traveling partners, and awkward what-are-we's you and a colleague travel back to the past to find out a big lie has been told about cowboy history. (Mutants & Cowboys AU)

As an adrenaline junkie you decide to go on a trip to las Vegas in a hippie van. The drivers cute and everyone's chill so it's fine but as the hours go by you realize they're not so hippy after all and there's a reason they're fleeing going to Las Vegas too. (Roadtrip AU)

A person decides to take a trip and ends up falling deeply in love with someone therw but they can't afford to stay for more than two weeks. (Foreigner AU)

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What happened to quirky, awkward, mind conflicting romance.