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[mookymilksims]

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[mookymilksims]

This is a strong reminder of how online hate campaigns usually start — with something petty, personal, and mishandled in public.

I’ve said it before: gossip becomes dangerous when it leaves the group chat and turns into an echo chamber of assumptions, cherry-picked receipts, and emotional manipulation. When you stop vetting sources and start dragging people to feed a narrative, you’re no longer "venting" — you’re launching a smear campaign.

The fact that this apology even exists — and is this honest — speaks volumes. It takes guts to admit your part in something cruel. We’ve all misstepped, but it’s what we do after that counts.

If you’re angry, talk to your friends. But don’t weaponize a moment of hurt into a war you can’t undo. Some of y’all don’t realize how close you are to real-life consequences until someone ends up doxxed, swatted, or worse.

There is real PTSD that comes from being harassed online. It is traumatizing. You struggle trusting people. Being open and vulnerable. Allowing people in. Not wanting to connect as much anymore. Keeping everyone at an arm's length. Knowing you are constantly being watched. Having people come into your space and follow you around the internet from the little hateful pockets of misinformation.

It's easy to brush it off until it happens to you or someone you care about. If you hear or see rumors of someone vet the source. If you conclude it is petty drama remove access for the toxic person to spread the hate. They can't run a smear campaign if they don't have an audience.

Recent events with work and how I interact with people have inspired and forced me to do some reflecting about myself. I look back at my time with the community fondly but I have had some moments that I am not to pleased with. I am a vindictive person. I don't wear this with a badge of honor but I won't hide that fact about myself. If I feel fucked over and hurt I will and did make a point to hurt that person just the same. I was cruel and I ment to be. I regret that deeply. Nothing on this app, no conversation or actuons should have ever made me so obsessively cruel to Ceci.

I was transphobic taking his no longer going by She after getting a slew of misogynistic and just hurtful attacks on his character for unnecessary reasons as his reason for going by he and they primarily. Ignorances at its finest. I have apologized to him about this and for being cruel regarding his mixed raced and background. Growing up dealing with abuse and colorism as a black women with darker skin, darker skin then my sister and parents, has put a bit of a damper on my empathy for my lighter skinned counterparts opinions and experiences with racism to a degree. I'm not unempathetic to the racism they experience. I am very aware what's its like to be the only black person in a room. I noticed the microagression my poc cousins deal with on a daily in this social climate. I am and, really was at this point, unempathetic to how being dismissive of someone race(s), especially in these environments hurts. How much that can hurt deeply. I joked(claimed) often about about how Ceci was white and on retrospect it was cruel especially knowing his life and experiences with his own blood.

Its cruel and I was intending it to be feeling vindicated because of my feeling about corpse and their racist behavior. I never learned why Yoonie never condemned them properly and was too upset at the time to properly have that conversation. it was simply not wanting to add on to the transphobic and potentially dangerous harassment corpse was faceing from lolcow along with the fact he him self was dealing with the scary threat of someone trying to hurt him with his personal information.

The dude was doxxed very recently and in such a creepy way. I just didn't really grasp how scary this was because I wasn't in his situation. You can say what you would've done in that situation, but you're not in it. I am truly sorry, man, for adding to that level of stress and anxiety to you life during such a difficult time. You didn't deserve to deal with that. I never realized how much I actually was affecting you. I condone people telling you to off yourself thinking the worst of you not fulling grasping the whole picture because I was just unmedicated, and the engagement, rewards feedback of those conversations were enjoyable. It's ridiculous how much you ignore or misinterpret because you're angry and feel vindicated that someone else holds the same view. I don't want to be that person anymore. I'm working towards not letting my emotions drive my actions, especially online. I have caught myself writing a rant and then stopping because I miss read something because I was giddy to see someone I personally just didn't like to get shit on. It feels incredibly hypocritical of me express this with my most recent post calling out gloomie and saturn supporter as I was friendly with them and I truely do still feel a way about them with the way we ended things. I'm a personality that's a bit difficult at times because I have no impulse control sometimes. I gotta tell you my opinion even if it isn't the right space.

I am condemning Tian for engaging in the conversation of calling Yoonie a Coon. You are a Latino Chinese man and had no place being in that conversation giggle with me and another black person who had personal ties to Ceci. Your issues with him was solely on you being upset that he found you creepy because of the type of posts you make. You sat in their discord and waited for the chat to to mention you to get upset. You were lurking and negging for this to happen. This is what happened and I enabled it. I shouldn't have let you engage with in that conversation and I truly think you need to get over people finding that fact you reference some underage hentai in your cc thumbnail. It's weird, it point to you engaging with underage porn and people have the right to be uncomfortable. I won't really forget you taking this ad for an anime sex game or something like that, with a very obvious underage girl, like middle school. She was flat chested and very tiny and in a freakin full bathing suit like she was at school in a weirdly sexual postion and being told no I dont see the issues because I had a freind who was looked at as a child for being flat chested and short. Mind Tian is 21 and I assume this was well before I met him so this was probably an actual teenager saying this. And this was consigned by his friends as well. It was a weird thing i pushed down and shut up ahoutm To stay on topic. Ceci, @yooniesim . I am sorry for how cruel I was to you over the years and continously opening that wound and engaging with any negative opinions about you publicly that were completely unnecessary and adding to the stalking and abuse you had to deal with in the aftermath of corspes exposure on my end. I regret that very much. I never want to be so cruel with no real justification outside of my own warped perspective. I hope you continue to thrive and prosper, man.

[mookymilksims]

Hello. I’m just going to get this out of the way. I have never harassed a man because he wasn’t interested in me romantically.

I was not involved in any “smear campaign.” My name was brought up, and I responded one time — on a single Reddit post. That response was at the request of several people, including a Skyrim moderator (who has since stepped down), and two individuals named Alarycia and Storm. They told me they were receiving death threats, and that Storm was actively suicidal at the time. They asked me to make a public statement, so I did.

The actual person who started the smear campaign was Alarycia, who is mentally ill and was romantically obsessed with Goredev. She weaponized her friend Storm to try and get him blocked across modding spaces, after he told her he was only interested in a physical relationship, not a romantic one. I was not involved in this; I had no idea what was being said or to whom.

When Goredev later reached out to me for closure, I cursed him out — on Alarycia’s behalf. I thought I was defending a victim.

I told her what happened and went to bed. I woke up to videos of her naked, screaming and running around her apartment complex at night. Her place was destroyed. She claimed Goredev had sent a hitman to kill her — and that I, his “mistress,” was involved.

That’s when I realized I was dealing with someone who is seriously unwell and had lied to everyone, including me. I reached back out to Goredev, and we had a long conversation clearing up the lies and confusion. From my understanding, we’re now on decent terms.

Eventually, all of Alarycia’s friends confronted her. She deactivated all her accounts and disappeared.

I left Goredev’s server because the energy in there was starting to feel catty and chaotic, and I didn’t want to get dragged into anything else. Alarycia followed me out, then used Storm to spread more rumors.

None of this had anything to do with romantic rejection. That’s just something you’re projecting onto a situation you clearly know nothing about.

You can’t “expose” me. You don’t know my situation. You googled me once. You don’t have the screenshots, the DMs, or the context that I do.

[mookymilksims]

yeah it's pretty embarassing how obvious of a hate campaign it was, too.

You all know each other.

You are all friends with the people who don't like the accused

You all called them out at the same exact time

You all referenced each others post as "proof" they have a history of being called out

You all support each others fall out posts to flip public opinion

The same people who started the campaign have created burners to act like innocent bystanders to take their own side

The real people behind the campaign are vaguely referencing leaving the community or not talking about it at all

Sure you may have gotten away with coordinated public takedowns in the past but this is just not the time to try and fake narratives. Idk like maybe if it was a year or 2 ago you would have been a little more successful but everyone is on to these formulas because it has been done too many times before.

Baby, I dont know who the fuck you are, but I was never in a server with any of these people (thank god!) so clearly you got a lot of shit wrong. That alone shows you're just making shit up. You might want to go back to the drawing board to think of some better lies bc I'm not the one. Keep yalls coordinated hate campaigns in your lil dedicated stalker servers bc you clearly ain't very good at it when you step out of the circlejerk. And no, dickhead, obviously no one is gonna hop on with your accusations when you have no proof! Especially when it's easily proven that they're NOT the same meshes. AND when it's so damn obvious this is an excuse to harass a guy yall generally dislike.

Point is, they didn't steal anything, yall KNEW they didn't steal it and just tried to run with it because you didn't like them as a person. You don't like this guy and so you're kekeing away planning in private about how you can attack him and get him to delete, right? Acting all coy like it's just a coincidence you just happened to notice, as if it isn't fucking obvious yall decided to do at the same time. Because you feel threatened or something? What, is there being another set of elf ears on tumblr siphoning away some of Saruin's modco revenue? Lmfao. All yall talking about the cc creators that are being "copied" not standing for this or whatever are also naive- you know they fucking know about it and probably brought it up behind the scenes. They're just letting their followers who are unknown do the attacking/take the heat so they can look innocent. But baby, they're not some inaccessible celebrities that cant say, "hey, this is unacceptable behavior, stop harassing people on my behalf". They just won't because that's the intention. Get with the program, yall, this is how simblr's big egos have worked since the dawn of time. I will believe it isn't intended only if they denounce this shit.

Also, yall are hypocrites talking about "just protecting our safe space" when yall have attacked at LEAST three servers for banning one of your friends because they weren't comfortable with them being in THEIR safe space. I'm not even gonna say why so I don't have to TW yet another post, but you know why. Yall have ganged up to block and harass people into deleting because they didn't want to associate with him, and I'd hazard a guess that's part of this too. And news flash, THAT guy is also a fucking mesh thief! But it's okay when it's your bro, right? You can get on your high horses about defending creators no matter what when you get off THAT dude's dick. Stop being hypocrites and get a damn life! You are adults and these are pixels! You tried to attack someone with no proof and you got caught and now you look stupid, so take that as a lesson. Grow up!

[mookymilksims]

"I don't need to open this in blender cuz im not a creator"

You lost me there, nothing else you say after that matters.

You can't accuse someone of something that can ruin their online reputation and your only evidence is a vibe.

Y'all wanna suck so hard on someone's dick. First of all, I don't start shit without reason. I don't post much and I mainly reblog quietly. I wouldn't have pointed out those ears if I didn't notice that it looked oddly familiar to some ears I've seen or downloaded before. I stared at those ears until I looked up different ears to figure out why they looked so familiar and realized they looked like Saruin's Frieren ears specifically. They are two different creators with two different styles so why TF does his ears look like an edited version of hers? From the start of the mesh, to the tragus and inside of the ear, they look similar enough to get pointed out.

To the ones asking, I'm not gonna open up blender because... I don't have blender and I'm not a cc creator so why would I? Not every cc enjoyer is gonna have blender just because, unless they dabble in 3D meshing themselves. But if people with eyes can clearly tell right off the bat that someone's cc looks suspiciously like someone else's then y'all should know something is up. And no, I'm not downloading it just for this reason when I have no space for it on my PC anyway.

Now lemme tell y'all something, no one gives a flying rat's ass about different creators getting inspo from the same things, or getting commissioned the same thing. Because if they actually meshed the cc themselves or gave credit to meshes they edited or recolored from, then there should be no issue. Hardly anyone gets called out for having similar cc or inspo. And that ain't new, if that was the case then people would be getting called out left and right. What makes y'all think that this was the reason?

Speaking of inspo, my call out has nothing to do with inspiration when both the ears are made from two different inspos to begin with, it was solely mesh related. Saruin's was a commission. J3lly started making his ears afterwards. There is no correlation there, but people want to insist on that. And yeah, no one owns shapes, but that's not the point for either call outs.

We love creativity. We love seeing different perspectives from the different creators we follow. But when one creator starts copying or stealing from others then that's where the issues and call outs begin. Not only did he take from Saruin and Gloomie, he's also taken from Hym and probably others, but those I know for sure. When there's no honesty in your work then it falls flat and it hurts the other creators you're taking from.

And since I don't personally have any proof, I'm dropping this after this post cause I got nothing else to say or give to y'all unless someone else wanna step up. In a reblog, I asked him to show the topography since he never showed that when trying to prove his innocence. He never did respond to that. I guess he don't have to, but for me, it doesn't help his case if you want people to wholeheartedly believe you aren't stealing.

Besides, even if one was to reference the UV maps, it would still not look the same especially if you're creating your mesh from scratch, your style is not going to match someone else's. He supposedly referenced multiple people's ears for the UV maps, yet the ear looks similar to Saruin's alone and not at least a mix. But if I'm fr in the wrong here then I'll own up to it, I don't care. Cause if I'm wrong, I'm wrong. But this definitely ain't a coincidence when there have been instances of other creators noticing their cc being copied by him as well as regular simblrs who download it.

I doubt anyone is calling him out left and right just for funsies. Because no one cares that much unless he did something for people to just fuck with him like that. There's clearly an issue here.

[mookymilksims]

[mookymilksims]

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[mookymilksims]

Hey I know you want me to leave you alone and I will. I just want you to know that Anonymously post you got from someone is not me. I know there's a giant chance you won't believe me. But I wanted to try I don't think it fair to let you believe that post belongs to me when it's not. I found out from a screen shot from my husband. (Nice to know he listens) but that don't matter how I found out I just want to let you know that's not me and I don't look at your tumblr because you have me ban and I respect that and that the only thing I saw but i felt bad for someone pretending to be me on your page and I'm sorry for that. feel free the ban this account too. I just want to let you know. Oh and if you are still reading I'm pretty sure you heard from Reddit what I put. Some of your follower noticed I was talking about you plus the shares. I just want to know how everyone feel about the Lurking rule. But they just called me a liar and asking for attention. I tired to make sure your name wasn't in it and made the pronouns anons but your followers know you every well. But you haven't I can send you the screenshot of the Reddit post and all of the replies. It end up being deleted because I forgot to mention it was sims 3. If you want if you do not want the screenshots. That's all, have a good day and This is the last you hear from me goodbye. Happy Simming

Lazy, I’m only going to say this one more time.

I don’t care about the anons. I honestly thought it was funny. The only thing I hoped was that you’d finally leave me alone.

I didn’t kick you from the server — you chose to leave.

I blocked you after the fact.

You’ve talked badly about me in multiple sim spaces for months.

Then, you made an entire Reddit post pretending to be a confused, concerned viewer. That’s why you were called a liar. You acted like you were blocked for being “too busy,” when the real reason was your behavior: starting a fight in the server and talking behind my back.

When Reddit called you out, you doubled down and pretended it wasn’t about me — even though everyone knew it was. You said nothing about the history or context. You made it look like I was just impatient and obsessed with engagement. That’s not just misleading — it was calculated.

And here’s the part you’re avoiding:

No one else in this community publicly posts about blocking lurkers.

No one else has a pinned comment about it on Patreon and Youtube.

And yet you still claimed you were “unsure” who the post was about?

You lied twice. I have the screenshots. Your post was removed for petty trash talking because it was petty and dishonest.

I have the screens of you lying to everyone.

You wanted to stir up a mob against me because you were blocked. You just didn’t expect people to catch on so quickly — and when they did, most of them deleted their comments. That speaks volumes.

For further clarity: this was your initial claim, which is why when the receipts came out - everyone turned on you.

This is the last time I’m addressing this. You’re not a victim here. You just didn’t expect your lies to unravel in public. If anything you proved exactly why I block people the way that I do.

Goodbye — again.

[mookymilksims]

Hey, I don’t really play The Sims anymore but I would like to support your Patreon and Discord. Would that be ok if I join even though there is a high probability that I won’t interact a whole lot other than most likely the occasional like on posts?

Yes. That is literally what most of my current Patreon and Discord members do. I’ve never asked for constant, back-to-back engagement on every post. What I’ve said clearly and repeatedly is: don’t lurk silently and hoard content. That’s it.

[mookymilksims]

Did the sims 3 community always have this much drama? 😭

Yes 💀 but I envy people like you. I wish I didn't know what I know. It's hard to turn back once you see the receipts so just don't go digging if it's too overwhelming. Some of this isn't drama and real people are really perpetuating harmful rhetoric onto marginalized communities, that's not drama to me that's a problem.

[mookymilksims]

My god girl how do you deal with all these people hahaha. You must feel stalked

Of course I feel stalked but I look at it like "wow my content must really be that fire" and continue creating and converting 💀

[mookymilksims]

im only asking for gitte you have a lot of info please delete it we will never say ur name again. please dont respond to this

So you had no problem talking about me, lying on me, harassing me, stalking me—for months.

But the moment you get exposed, now suddenly you can’t handle the heat?

I'm not deleting anything, leave me alone.

[mookymilksims]

hii lol please delet the post i promise i will leave you alone

Just leave me alone.

Also, I saw your burner account in my inbox. You forgot to hit anon when you first sent your message, then immediately blocked me so I wouldn’t see it. And now you unblocked me—what, to check what I said about you on Reddit?

You must’ve forgotten that unblocking also made the original message reappear.

Yeah. Just leave me alone.

[mookymilksims]

There’s a persistent lie going around that I require people to engage—comment, heart, and share—every single post. That is not true. What I have consistently asked is simple: don’t lurk. Don’t silently hoard my content.

If people keep spreading that I demand engagement on every post, it’s clear they are either misunderstanding me on purpose or deliberately lying. The reality is that no one on my Patreon likes, comments, or shares every post. In fact, none of my Patreon supporters have ever publicly shared my posts. When people do heart or comment, it’s because they genuinely like the specific content they just downloaded.

I have only ever asked to be treated the same way white creators are treated in this community. If you interpret that as demanding nonstop engagement on every single post, that says more about your own agenda than my words.

I have been painfully clear in pinned posts and messages to avoid any confusion or misinterpretation. The only people pushing this false narrative are those who have already been blocked—often multiple times and often for reasons other than lurking.

Lazycapricorn is not the only one pretending to be a confused victim or twisting the truth. Many people in this community behave this way. I just decided to speak up and show you how they really operate behind the scenes.

So please, stop spreading this lie. If you can’t respect me or my boundaries, then you do not belong in my space.

[mookymilksims]

🧍🏽‍♀️ Let’s Talk About “Getting Blocked for No Reason”

Every so often, someone will “come forward” about being blocked by me—usually paired with vague claims that I’m mean, dramatic, or don’t let people quietly exist on my Tumblr or Patreon.

So here’s the part they always leave out:

LazyCapricorn started a fight in my server based on the assumption that I was talking about her behind her back in the drama chat. This happened shortly after Gitte was kicked for speaking badly about me across other Sim spaces—after I finally told her to stop nitpicking my work.

Lazy called me a horrible person for blocking Gitte.

Then, in the same breath, she begged me not to block her on Tumblr because she still wanted access to my mods and CC.

After I explained everything and showed receipts of what Gitte had been saying, Lazy privately backtracked on everything she said about me.

Despite all of that, I still gave her a chance to speak her peace—not in general chat where she made a scene—but in a separate court channel where she could have a fair discussion with a jury of server members. She could’ve even had an attorney to help present her side. I told the server they would vote on whether she should stay, and I’d respect the group’s decision.

Why? Because Lazy had called me a horrible person. And if people really believe that, then let’s unpack what it takes to protect a space and make those decisions. Let people see how complex it actually is—and how much I’m willing to let go if someone’s honest and respectful.

But then Lazy backed out of the trial after all that drama she started.

People love to paint me as “block-happy,” but they never include the full context. So let me be crystal clear:

I’ve blocked people for being racist. I’ve blocked people for being queerphobic I’ve blocked people for blackfishing. I’ve blocked people for bullying others, even if they were fine with me personally. I’ve blocked people for lurking. I’ve blocked people for passive aggression, shade, and fake support.

I don’t go around publicizing every block. I don’t owe anyone a public reason.

But I don't appreciate those people acting like I did something to them because they lost access and left out their part of the story..

If someone’s going to speak on being blocked, all I ask is that you tell the full story before I do.

And the next person to speak on being blocked by me be prepared for the reciepts.

You can explain to everyone why you left out some key important details.

4 months ago aurora made a post about me blocking her on tumblr.

What she didn't tell you all was that I privately asked what issues was she having with the ui, considering it was a direct copy of mine.

She didn't respond for several hours despite being online.

Between that incident and the others I mapped out on this post. I blocked Aurora. Then she made the post which told me she saw my message chose to not to respond privately, but responded publicly as if to get ahead of something.

Then lazy comments about how I blocked her for complimenting a dress (left out the server fight she caused and all) and seemingly totes my block as a badge of honor.

1 months after the discord fight. She had been blocked for a month at this point.

Then 4 months after this post, makes a vague reddit post about being blocked by me once again.

This time, she changes the story and claims she got blocked for being a busy mom.

She keeps tabs on my posts, followers, and block list, despite being allegedly blocked.

This is obsessive.

She is engaging with others in subtle smear campaigns against me, because she is blocked.

She surrounds herself with people who openly dislike me and interact with them in a mocking tone against me.

She keeps showing up in comments and reblogs speaking about me.

We are now going on 5 months since the discord incident.

Should I give in? Should I just unblock her and let her download whatever she wants?

Is this the only way she will leave me alone?

Should I accept that if I do unblock her she will still digitally stalk me and talk shit about me any place that will listen?

How many different times have I made it clear I want to be left alone?

See, yall like to talk a lot of shit about me blocking people, but want you don't see is how much I'm stalked. Harassed. Gossiped about. Lied on.

There are a lot of obsessive people in this space.

No normal person would see all of this behavior and not feel creeped out and not block people like this.

[mookymilksims]

Greetings! I know it's been a long time since you've probably done one of these but could I perhaps kindly request or pay you to make a UI recolor? I've been desperate wanting some like ALVERDINE SIMS UI for the longest time but no luck :')

Haii there ^_^ I show how to make your own UI recolors in this video Sometimes I make exceptions for commissions if the member really wants it. You can email me or message me on discord and I will take a look at what you want and see if I can fit it into my workflow or how soon I can deliver.

[mookymilksims]

Hello Mooky! :D I'm currently getting back into the Sims 3 and I simply wanted to ask what you recommended as some nice default skins (any that you use?) and what is the eyeball mesh you use? (If you use any at all) :] 💕 Also, I absolutely adore your content, never change!

Haii ^_^ I don't use any eyeball mesh mods. I use Chinsims DR skins, I like the alpha look and it's easy to carve out unique facial features with the textures.