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me being ganged up on by a group of girls when

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with the precious help of @maxuran (teaching all of us that the verbal teasing makes everything worse lol)

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First session✨

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Its actually so rude to use my own posts against me btw

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re: tickle sessions

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HEAR YE HEAR YE

Bella and I have just updated the Bella Bash website for 2025!

We have worked to update small things about verbiage but the bigger changes are:

Updating the dates to be accurate.

Updating the theme of the costume party on Saturday.

Costume party?? I hear you cry. Check it out on the website. 😉

Furthermore! After a lovely evening with Bella we have discussed the following: in her own words, how to contact/reach out to Bella:

“The rules are simple:

Be nice, don’t talk shit, don’t bring your Tumblr drama to real life, and don’t do crimes (at least not Bash weekend).

I’ve noticed that lately the newer people don’t know what to say when they first contact me. It’s simple. Just say “hi”, your name, that you’d like to come to the Bash, and include two references. References are people that I know who have been to the Bash. NOT your friend that I have never heard of. If you are brand new, tell me and we’ll go from there.

If you want your play partner or whomever to come, they need to write me individually. If they are too shy to write their own email, they are too shy to attend the Bash.”

That was Bella in her own words, dictated to me, and transcribed by me in italics and bold above.

Also from my good friend @sugarsoakertkl , some very good advice in the comments that I wanted to add:

“If you are using someone as a reference, please confirm with said person that they’re comfortable with you using them as a reference. 💕 I’ve heard a lot of people get named dropped over the years and they had no idea they were a “vouch” for someone. It’s awkward. Don’t do it.”

That said the website is:

Have fun! Enjoy! Reach out! And if you are going I will see you there! ☺️ (also signal boosting is appreciated)

Sincerely,

Brush

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If you REALLY want to fluster me, don’t call me cute, ticklish, a toy, a good girl…

Call me by my name.

I can hide behind the persona of a toy. Or a good girl. Or a plaything.

I can pretend to be this cute, adorable, ticklish little thing.

I can separate myself from the thing you want me to be—the thing you keep teasing me that I am. I can pretend to be a giggly little girl for a minute, or an hour, or a day.

But calling me out by name? There’s nowhere to hide. I can’t pretend to be someone else for a split second. You mean ME. The real me.

You find ME attractive. You like MY laughs. You like to see ME squirm.

At that point I’m no longer just A toy…I’m THE toy.

Now that…THAT’S flustering. 😵‍💫🫠

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It's all fun and games until suddenly the session is a few days away and you're wondering what the heck you got yourself into.

🙃

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i've said this time and time again, but just because someone is popular on tumblr, plays with a million different people, and posts content that gets a lot of notes does NOT make them a safe partner. there are a lot of things that go on in the background that nobody ever knows about and that never comes to light. do not idolize these people, and do not put them on a pedestal.

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Reminder this is an 18plus blog

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PSA to the lees and lers on here:

Always protect your energy.

I know it's tempting to put yourself out there and everyone here wants to do sessions with their favorites or people they meet here, but remember that it comes at a price... you must always be careful. I've seen too many people get hurt from this app. It's nice to make connections, but jealousy and envy can eat away at you and turn you into someone you don't want to be.

You can be your own worst enemy and overthink things and ruin good things. You can feel a certain way and someone shows their true colors and destroy your perception of them. You can try your best not to hurt someone and it still does. The road to Hell is paved with good intentions, as they say.

So ALWAYS communicate and be as transparent as possible. Be humble. Be good. And again, PROTECT your energy! Life is already a struggle. Don't let what you love also become a burden.

Much love to you all! ✌️

- Fetishimo 🪶

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Reblog if you genuinely support asexuals

It terrifies me that there’s so much raging passion in the lgbt+ community that insist on marginalizing asexuals and implying that asexuals don’t deserve to have safe spaces. There’s still so much acephobia so I just wanna know which blogs are genuinely supportive and a safe space for asexuals

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what's wrong? you can't take it? you want me to stop? but sweetheart, i want to keep going. i want to hear your panicked little noises. i want to hear your frantic begging and pleading. i want to hear you say sorry without knowing what for. i want to see how much you fight and struggle and thrash around, just from my touch alone.

you'll do anything, you say?

then be good and take it for me.

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Here me out! If you have a lee with a sailor’s mouth who just can’t stop swearing—even in the softest, fluffiest moments—make it a game! Every time they drop a curse word? TICKLES. Swear jar? Nah. Swear tickles. Let them curse through giggles if they want, but the more they swear, the longer the tickles go!

Set the rules: one curse = 1 minute. Bonus time if it’s especially creative or unnecessary. Do it when they're comfy in bed, in the kitchen, mid hug, or anywhere. Turn their mouthy streak into a giggly weakness. And if they get extra spicy? Sit them down, make them repeat sweet phrases like "I'm soft," " I don't have to swear", "I'm cute," or "I can be polite" while you tickle them silly.

Let their potty mouth be their downfall in the most deliciously teasy way possible. Who knew language correction could be this fun?

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Short little notice! This guy and I had one full conversation, and I wasn’t able to respond over the past couple of days because I’ve had some personal things go on. Anyway, that lead to an absolutely meltdown on his behalf.

ETA- THIS MAN IS A PEDOPHILE. I have added this to another reblog, I’m now adding to the main post. He goes by Jared Genesis/Jared Juggernaut on multiple platforms and gave an entire speech about how he’s okay connecting with someone as young as EIGHT YEARS OLD on a spiritual level. This is not a baseless claim, I have both the video saved to my device and the YT link. I’m making the conscious decision to not share it here as it is incredibly disturbing, however, if you reach out to me personally, I will be more than happy to share it.

I absolutely continued to ragebait him for a bit after the cut with job applications just to get it out of my system. Anyway, he went on to make remarks about how my dad and uncle must have molested me as a child and all of the regular incel stuff. Just want y’all to be aware of his face and username.

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"Do you wanna get tied up? I have a surprise for you."

Romance is never dead, people.

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if you put a girls toes in your mouth she'll probably moan about it