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Most ironic photos

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AUGUST IS OVER??????

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i am, once again, on the right side of twitter

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Me in the middle of being tortured : I hate this song can you skip it please

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lock the fuck in?? no way dude. I am TUCKED the fuck in :) good night

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When I say the world is your oyster this is what I mean

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what if it GETS her though 😥

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wizard advice 🔮

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once you start saying shit like "yayy" "yippee" and "hehe" theres no going back

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Fibre crafts are 50% soothing repetitive action and 50% "God Fucking Damnit"

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comic about slop

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every time I do a web search, right at the top I have AI info dumping on me

just give me the top result please

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One thing that has made me a much more well-adjusted person is a clip I once saw of Hank Green saying that anyone can be in amazing shape as long as being in amazing shape is one of their top three priorities.

(This is obviously a generalization that isn't true for everyone. But it is true for most people and I'm proceeding from there.)

This "top three priorities" framing has genuinely reduced my tendency toward jealousy and self-comparison a lot. Now when I feel envious of someone’s spotless, aesthetic home, I think to myself, “Having a spotless, aesthetic home is probably one of their top three priorities. It’s definitely not one of mine, so I shouldn’t expect my home to look like that.”

Or when I see an influencer with a body that takes a ton of work to maintain: “Maintaining that body is obviously one of her top three priorities, because it’s her livelihood. My livelihood is my brain, so I’m never going to prioritize my body like that.”

It also helps me to identify areas that I actually DO want to prioritize more. I realized in recent years that my envy for my friends who prioritized writing more than I did was NOT going away, so I started to prioritize writing more. (Not top three, but higher priority than it has been in the past.)

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skyrim steel weapons doodle

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Nature valentines.

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