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Proving and Questioning Self Worth

Proving and Questioning Self Worth

So we’ve all been there before, right? Questioning our value based on what someone else thinks of us, trying to prove that we are worthy—STOP DOING THAT! But keep reading to learn what you can do instead…. Nothing to Prove Read that subtitle again…you have nothing to prove! I have people in my life who think they know me better than I know me. NEWS FLASH—they don’t! No ones opinion of you…

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Far Away Friends

So…I’ve wanted to write a blog about friendship for quite sometime but I was unsure of the direction I wanted to take it. I recently traveled to NYC to spend some quality time with my bestie. I also got to see one of my college friends who I haven’t seen in about 3 years. This trip made me realize that maintaining friendship (much like any relationship) is hard work. In this blog I will discuss…

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I enjoyed being able to see my friend @sierranicolle while I was in NYC! It had been way too long 🤍 I am forever thankful for the relationships I am able to maintain even while living miles and miles away from them. Do you have long distance friendships? If so,how do you maintain them? FaceTime has been key for maintaining my long distance friendships…this week on the blog (Wednesday) I will talk more about friendship highs and lows. #byvjimoh #longdistancefriendship #bsubabes #collegefriends #nyc #weekendtravel #weekendtrips #blackgirlmagic #mondaymotivation #healthyfriendships https://www.instagram.com/p/CRO5ueBsTco/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Bumping Into a New Job

Bumping Into a New Job

Pregnancy is such a beautiful thing. Finding out I was expecting was one of the happiest days of my life! But that happiness quickly turns into worry and anxiety. Worrying about how your baby will develop, scared that you might possibly miscarry, wondering how you will fit the baby’s things into your home, questioning whether or not you will be a good mom, and a whole slew of emotions are fresh…

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𝙂𝙤𝙤𝙙𝙗𝙮𝙚! Had a wonderful last day at the place I’ve worked for the last 5 years. Saying 𝙝𝙚𝙡𝙡𝙤 to the new opportunity waiting for me! #lastdayofwork #happyfriyay #newbeginnings #newjobnewlife #itsupport #byvjimoh #goodbyes #hellosunshine #careergrowth #advancement https://www.instagram.com/p/CQjpScisgOF/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Happy Juneteenth! I enjoyed spending time with my mom, brother, sister, hubs, and my fav auntie! It had been a minute since my entire little crew was together. I also, had my grilling debut (shoutout to my brother for teaching me)! #juneteenth #freedomisntfree #freedomofspeech #byvjimoh #bbqfood #saturdaze #blackjoy #blackgirlfashion #familyadventures #june19 https://www.instagram.com/p/CQUrBD5FFU-/?utm_medium=tumblr

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𝑊ℎ𝑎𝑡’𝑠 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑚𝑜𝑡𝑖𝑣𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑏𝑒ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑑 𝑤ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑝𝑜𝑠𝑡? 𝐴𝑟𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢 𝑑𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑖𝑡 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝑦𝑜𝑢, 𝑏𝑒𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑟𝑢𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑦𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑠𝑒𝑙𝑓, 𝑜𝑟 𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑤𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑜𝑢𝑡 𝑓𝑜𝑟 𝐼𝐺? Note to self: do it for you! Yes if you are here in this space and posting on social media, you would love for people to engage with your content. However, I am not making content solely for the benefit of my audience. Majority of the things I share are scribbles from my journal, random mantras I say to myself to get through the day, or one of the many thoughts that run through my hectic Virgo brain. It is a blessing that I can share my genuine thoughts and also have people love what I have to say. There are many things that I could do to be more popular but those things aren’t inherently me. At the end of the day, you could post the most popular things to get the most engagement but you will be unhappy because you’re selling a false version of you. It’s not worth it! Here’s what I know for certain…there is a place for everyone on this app. From the cookie cutter aesthetics, to the food blogger, the writer, the influencer, or even the people who only post their pets! Just be true to yourself and everything else will come💕 #motivationiskey #byvjimoh #encouragementquotes #fridayfeelings #selfimprove #selfdevelopmentjourney #selfdevelopmenttools #honestyquotes #growthquotes #doitforyourself https://www.instagram.com/p/CP-r-SWlhxP/?utm_medium=tumblr

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Just a friendly reminder that you are doing what is best for you and you will meet your goals in due time! Keep at it…the only person you need to best is yourself. Success is on the way 💖 I spoke about this topic in my stories last Wednesday. If you missed it, I’ve saved it in the ᑭIᑎK ᗯᗴᗪᑎᗴᔕᗪᗩY highlight! 💕Comment: “I’m doing me and I’m successful” if you received this message!💕 Like/Save/Share, I appreciate it! #pinkwednesday #roadtosuccess #successtip #successfoundation #humpdayvibes #happywednesday #womensupport #midweekpickmeup #midweekmotivation #onwednesdaywewearpink https://www.instagram.com/p/CP5Zd7ml64Q/?utm_medium=tumblr

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☀️𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐀𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐌𝗼𝐧𝐭𝐡☀️ Believe it or not, I am a fairly negative person and I have to work extra hard to remain positive. I keep a positive word & scripture wall at work to keep me grounded and I start my day with reciting some powerful affirmations. I also pray and meditate every night! 𝐇𝗼𝐰 𝐝𝗼 𝐲𝗼𝐮 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐫𝐭 / 𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐲𝗼𝐮𝐫 𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐩𝗼𝐬𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐲? Save this thread and share the one that speaks to you in your stories! #therapyiscool #therapysession #mentallystrong #mentalhealthisimportant #mindsetreset #mindsetiskey #mentalhealthawarenessmonth #mentalhealthmonth #positiveaffirmation #byvjimoh https://www.instagram.com/p/CPBLb1HFatH/?utm_medium=tumblr

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★𝐅𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠𝐬★⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Women (read humans in general) are trained from very early on that being nice is synonymous with being easy to get a long with and never saying no. How many of us feel bad after saying no to something we know we don’t want to do? 🙋🏾‍♀️ I use to be so guilty of doing this but not anymore. Stand strong in your no people. If it doesn't align with your spirit, don't agree to it!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ 𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭’𝐬 𝐲𝗼𝐮𝐫 𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐤𝐞𝐧𝐝 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐧𝐬? My plan today is to say no to doing anything besides pampering myself and tomorrow, I’m getting glammed up for a wedding. I’ll be sure to let share a sneak peak of my glam process in my stories tomorrow!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Remember it is #mentalhealthawarenessmonth—do ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ something just for you!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #byvjimoh #writergram #justsayno #womensupport #womenempowermentquotes #mentalhealthmonth #mentalhealthquotes #ummaylss #honestyquotes #growthquotes #selfdevelopmenttools https://www.instagram.com/p/CO2w_jZnF4o/?igshid=1sg0hn5flhbt5

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#pinkwednesday you know what they say, “haters gonna hate” and I say, “let them!” 🤷🏾‍♀️ 𝐍𝐎𝐁𝐎𝐃𝐘 can tell you 𝐰𝐡𝗼 𝐲𝗼𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞, 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐲𝗼𝐮 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐝𝗼, 𝗼𝐫 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐲𝗼𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐠𝗼𝐢𝐧𝐠! Drop a 💗 in the comments if you agree. Also, has this week been super long to anyone else, or is it just me?👀 #pinkpinkpink #pinkpower #pinkpositivity #humpdayvibes #happywednesday #womensupport #choosingjoy #midweekpickmeup #midweekmotivation https://www.instagram.com/reel/CONpH81Jxsv/?igshid=jvc7305fnbxr

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Monday Motivation

This week we need to remember to take nothing at face value. Dig deeper, ask questions, challenge yourself, and remember we only see and show what we want to see and show. Treat people with kindness, stop judging, show grace, and most importantly, check yourself first!

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A babe with a book on the beach. 🌎 #byvjimoh #earthday2021 #earthday #lovetheearth #mothernaturesbeauty #mothernaturerocks #beachview #bookstagram https://www.instagram.com/p/CN-pGwwl_hj/?igshid=1vjroetfxjmhu

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I am guilty of holding my breath. Is breathing easy for you? It’s late on Wednesday but if you’re seeing this, take a moment to focus on your breathing. If meditation is your thing @liberatemeditation is an app specially for BIPOC. Note to all: we deserve to revel in the inhale and exhale. Save/Share💖 #pinkwednesday #humpdayvibes #byvjimoh #womensupport #choosingjoy #spokenwordpoetry #onwednesdaywewearpink #spokenwordartist #reellife #reelsofinstagram https://www.instagram.com/reel/CN8vy1BpsEG/?igshid=1vwz4qwdecgw7

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Happy Monday beautiful souls! If you’ve been following my stories, I’ve been having vision issues for 2 weeks. The official culprit is uveitis and while my eye looks way better (this photo is from today) my eye doctor confirmed this morning, my eye is still NOT OKAY. Sometimes what looks good on the outside is not so pretty on the inside. You have to zoom in and take a closer look to see the full picture or you will likely miss something. Keep that in mind as you go through the week. We (yes, even me) are so quick to judge what we see while having no clue what someone is dealing with on the inside. 👀the girl who posts a selfie everyday might not be vain, she might be trying to convince herself that she is worth being seen. 👀the person who posts their workout videos and progress might not be doing so to brag, but to hold themselves accountable and encourage someone else 👀the couple who posts about successful marriages might be doing so because they have been through hell and back 𝐆𝗼 𝐛𝐞𝐲𝗼𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞. Challenge yourself to see beyond what you actually see.💖 #byvjimoh #uveitis #visions #eyesight #magnify #magnifyingglass #blackjoy #beyondtheboundary #mondaymantra #newdaynewstart https://www.instagram.com/p/CN2gsqYFMuh/?igshid=v6ck6stvy0v5

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All the things I love or recommend can be found here. You’re shopping anyway–use these links to purchase! Treat Yourself! Electronics! Reading and Writing!

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Top of the morning to ya! As we continue on and close out the first week of April it is important to remain focused on your daily tasks to reach your BIG goals! For me, focus starts in the morning when I add a spoon of @maryruthorganics Almond Butter and Jelly Smoothie to my tea. I typically like a lot of sugar and honey with my tea but I was able to cut some of the sugar by substituting with the Almond Butter and Jelly Smoothie. This gives me added energy and cognitive function to focus at my day job and then come home to focus on my website and writing. Speaking of writing, how are you all doing on your writing goals for this month? If you’ve got a new story, blog, poem, or quote you would like me to read, tell me how I can support you below. In the mean time, swipe for new words by yours truly inspired by @mjcarstarphen for Tree Tuesday. Also, visit my website to read chapters 1 & 2 of my short story and other blogs. Thanks for your support! #ad #gifted #maryruthpartner #byvjimoh #timefortea #focusonyourself #apr6ume #focusonthegood #biggoals #writerssupportingwriters #treetuesday #thewanderingtree https://www.instagram.com/p/CNU1kpTlR6C/?igshid=13hvbhj77vsk3