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“no feedists in fat liberation” really echoes “no kink at pride” sentiment to me. feedists and freaks have been in both the fat and queer liberation movements since the beginning. the founder of the first fat acceptance organization, naafa (founded just 2 weeks after the stonewall riots), was a self proclaimed ‘fat admirer’ who wanted to create a better world for his fat wife. not to credit a thin white man for the legacy of fat lib, really the more influential figures branched off of naafa were the fat underground: politically radical, fat lesbians who had regular retreats & were very open about fat sexuality. we had the gay chub/chaser scene which originated with girth & mirth in new york and san francisco the 1970s, some of the first spaces where fat men could feel accepted and be desired openly. for as long as there’s been positive ideas about fat, there have been people who love it.

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honestly here’s a brain dump about all this:

1) the thin “I don’t actually gain I just imagine it cos it’s unhealthy” people in feedist spaces are always the most vitriolic when god forbid the fat people want to prioritise fat people. It’s almost like they believe thin people are superior and should be given higher status! Hmm! Wonder where I heard that one before!

2) Nobody has an issue with thin people being in feedist spaces but in the past year or so it feels like fat people are being pushed out of these spaces, and made to feel like they’re dirty or wrong for weighing 200lbs+ or not having a background of competitive sport and athleticism that they proceeded to “let go”. Like it or not a lot of fat people come to feedism from body positive communities, and after learning about fat liberation enter in with the suggestion that their body might be praised BECAUSE of the way it looks rather than in spite of it. Imagine how shitty that feels to be too fat for the fat admirers! And the tipping point for “too fat” gets smaller every year. I hover between 240-260 comfortably right now but have been up to 300lbs in the past. I have never been smaller than 200lbs as an adult. I was a fat child and a fat teenager. I have been told by multiple feeders that I would not be worth feeding because I’m too fat already, and it wouldn’t be a “real gain” because I never had the starter belly. I have also been told that I am too fat to identify as a FFA because that moniker apparently implies contrast, and can’t be a feeder either because I’m too fat to do it correctly. If the only valid way to practice feedism is thin feeder small fat feedee then what are the rest of us doing? Being expected to shut up and go away because we’re too huge and unfuckable? It’s just fat shaming rhetoric with extra steps.

3) I tend not to listen to people who can take their fat fetish off and put it away at the end of the day especially when their content focuses on how *huge* and *ruined* their bodies are. I’m sorry, I’m not going to feed into the delusion that someone who is 140lb is too fat to walk buy clothes or any other thing your smallfat of the month is telling you because they’re just TOOOO huge and disgusting!!! it’s just fat shaming rhetoric with extra steps!!!

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nah nah but like the "treat her like a princess fuck her like a slut" concept. devotional doms. doms that love sinking to their knees for their sub and kissing your legs and thighs and giving you head until you cry. doms that service and obey everywhere but the bedroom. keeping their sub up all night, making you beg for every touch, then taking you shopping the next day and carrying all your bags for you, refusing to let you lift a finger. doms that worship, not out of submission, but out of a loving devotion. doms who will say the filthiest things when you're falling apart beneath them and then whisper praises up your body. doms that kiss your stomach, your fingertips, the insides of your wrists, the back of your knees, the small of your back, all before leaving bruises and marks all over your pretty body. doms who tie you up as if it's prayer, tracing the ropes along every inch of you. doms who fuck you like a whore but love you like a devotee.

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Making a sweet little thing kneel at my feet, eyes wide and pretty mouth swearing to worship me for their whole life, before taking me whole in their mouth

Moaning my name over and over into and against me like a holy prayer until my cum blesses their throat and overwhelms their mind~

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Horny hours: I really need someone to come use my belly button like a toy <3

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I unblocked you but i cant find you :( Whoever you are. I dont hate you. I just have fat thumbs :(

OMFG I ACCIDENTALLY BLOCKED SOMEONE WHEN THEY FOLLOWED ME. IM SOOOOO FUCKING SORRY 😭😭😭

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OMFG I ACCIDENTALLY BLOCKED SOMEONE WHEN THEY FOLLOWED ME. IM SOOOOO FUCKING SORRY 😭😭😭

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Guys! First inflation of the year!

What could it be? 2L of pure matcha enema??

Maybe.....

When I walk around I can literally LITERALLY hear and feel the water slosh around in my belly. And bubbling now and then,rushing through my system.

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Not gonna lie. I need more stretch marks on my belly 😩 Like make my belly bright pink and tender please

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If its ok to ask; how do you feel about fat kinks? I havent seen any fat acceptance blogs talk abt it. /genq

I know it's a sore spot for a lot of fat liberationists (and yes, I'm quite familiar with why so please do not take to my inbox), I think people are scared to talk about it. personally, I think it is crucial that people with fat kinks are able to access fat liberation spaces so long as they leave the kink at the door. I say this not only because the majority of them are fat people, but because that community is steeped in a deep shame and feeling of brokenness for taking delight in fatness and/or weight gain, which perpetuates rampant fatphobia. and fat liberation is what will heal those wounds. I don't understand it when fat activists tell kinksters/fetishists/feedists, whatever you want to call them to stay out of the fat liberation movement. because what is the alternative? do you want them against the movement? that doesn't make sense at all. I think people are so uncomfortable, disgusted, or afraid of this community they don't understand, that they just wish they wouldn't exist. they aren't going away. kink is akin to sexuality, to identity, to queerness. I think what people really mean when they say feedists should stay out of fat lib is, "kink should stay within spaces designated for kink." we aren't talking about kink when it comes to who can belong in a movement, we are talking about people. it is wrong to equate every person who has a kink or a fetish to a predator. it causes very real harm to those people, because they internalize that message that their kink makes them a bad person who is inherently worthless, who has to hide. if feedists aren't welcome in fat liberation, they aren't welcome anywhere.

I think that people who love fat people, love feeding people, love their own fat bodies, who see their fattest selves as their most satisfying selves, would be natural allies to this movement once they find their way to it and feel safe and accepted here. I want to make it absolutely clear that ANYONE is welcome on this blog as long as they aren't harassing or harming anyone. so many of my followers and biggest supporters are kink blogs. some of my closest friends and fat liberationist allies are feedists. I know feedists who are way more educated and passionate about fat lib and body politics than most people I've met. I don’t wish for anyone to feel alienated on my blog - especially fellow fat folks and fellow fat allies. we are 100% FAT POSITIVE AND SEX POSITIVE on this blog, babey‼️

In fact I feel really glad when I see fat kink/feedism blogs engaging with my content bc it means that person is putting the work in to understand systemic fatphobia, how to be an ally to fat people (if they aren't fat themselves), but also healing their community through education and acceptance. and HOT TAKE, BUT: when it does happen?? when feedists aren't shrouded in internalized fatphobia, shame, and isolation, and instead start embracing this innate, powerful appreciation for fatness, it's literally so fucking beautiful? and so very queer?

choosing to gain weight on purpose as an act of self creation. because it feels Right for you. gaining weight to affirm the relationship you have with your body. getting fatter because you feel so much of your identity (even gender presentation!) is attached to your fat body. feeling sexiest when you're fat. someone else worshipping that about you. giving unlimited permission to nourish yourself and/or others - and taking carnal delight in it. releasing food rules and food guilt through centering pleasure. food and fatness as an erotic and sensory experience. finding feedist partners who also have this ingrained love of fatness that can't be replicated, partners who are willing and eager to support and adore your fat body, NOT merely tolerate it. reclaiming tropes used against you through kink, and turning a loving gaze inward. saying "fuck you" to the system and choosing to take up more space in a world that consistently tries to shrink you. never denying yourself pleasure even though everyone is telling you you don't deserve it. feedism is such an interesting facet of the endless spectrum of human sexuality and I think that once people in that community find liberation and heal their relationship to the kink, it can be one of the most radical forms of self acceptance and exercising complete bodily autonomy.

I already know that a love letter to feedism coming from a fat lib blog is gonna piss people off. I'm going to lose a lot of followers, I'm going to get a lot of hate. but. kink in general is SO demonized and SO misunderstood and as liberationists we should also be open to sexual liberation. so much of this discomfort around feedism comes from a lack of education and understanding about kink in general. feedism doesn't = fatphobia in the same way that bdsm doesn't = misogyny or abuse. quite the contrary, if practiced ethically, with informed consent. every community has assholes. especially when those communities are small, ostracized, and so young that there are next to zero resources for self acceptance, safety, education, and accountability. in fact, the assholes are the ones that you're going to SEE because every respectful person is staying away and out of your business. if you've been harassed by someone with a fat kink, that is so shitty and I'm sorry that happened to you. I know it happens a lot. try to remember that what you experienced was abuse, not kink.

what consenting individuals choose to do with their bodies is entirely their business and there is nothing wrong with kink. (and I will not stand for sex-negative, puritan bullshit in my inbox, thank you very much.)

reminder: fat pleasure is fat liberation.

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2. siren’s song / royalty