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could mean nothing

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reading old fall out boy lyrics I bet this guy has a normal and healthy relationship with sex

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patrick stump walking into an ikea and telling a helpful ikea employee what he’s shopping for today

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ryan ross alive

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The truth is that I am learning a lesson right now. And this experience is too familiar. Aside from the few remaining friends and family I have in my life, there was another portion of people who reacted to my sickness in two different ways. The first decided it was too heavy and they didn’t even wanna touch it and they disappeared. The second was angry with me that I was too sick to TAKE from anymore so they were cruel to me instead. I was SO lonely. I went to treatment alone. So many times. I sat there wishing I would talk to someone or tell someone or ask for help. I just can’t help but feel like that’s happening all over again here, in this part of my life. I dedicated 12 years of my life to connecting with people and helping them. Thousands of people told me I “saved their life” and then I returned to those same people only to hear that they don’t care that I almost lost mine. What a reveal. I can’t explain in words the misery and suffering of those years. Hating myself and blaming myself for “ruining everything”. I worked so hard to be here and I had to stop because of something against my will. And now I’m back. And I know you don’t like the song and that’s okay because you don’t have to like everything I make. That’s not why I make it. I made it to tell my story. But what I can’t get past is the disconnect. You know what I learned yesterday? I learned that only 1% of my active fans have even bothered to listen to the song. But the conversation about me is SO loud and SO wicked and it’s coming from a MUCH larger percentage than that. So right now there’s millions of people who call themselves my fans who are just ripping into me, and barely any of them have even bothered to check out the song. It’s not about the music, it’s about me as a concept and as a projection for some of my fans to rip to shreds. But it’s not about the music anymore. And I can’t do this if it’s not about the music anymore. I’m too weak, I’m too fucking tired, and you’re right. I’m not who I used to be. I’m different now. Because I went through a life altering experience that almost killed me, and killed off some parts of me instead. I really thought returning to the thing I love would make me feel better but it doesn’t at all. And I’m SO sorry to those of you who are so kind and supportive and lovely and incredible and I wish I could hug you and thank you. But this is a mess. It’s a fucking mess. I’m gonna keep moving forward because I worked too hard on this album to walk away. But once it’s all said and done it might be said and done. I hope things get better and I can enjoy sharing this album with those of you who are left 🤍

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does anybody remember fun. Nobody even remembers fun. anymore, give me a second I— I need to get my story straight my friends are in the bathroom getting higher than the empire state my lover she's waiting for me just across the bar my seats been taken by some sun glasses asking bout a scar but I know I gave it to you months ago I know you're trying to forget but between the drinks and subtle things the holes in my apologies you know I'm trying hard to take it back so if by the time the bar closes and you feel like falling down I'll carry you home

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Katie Ruark Photography 

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here’s ryan ross performing do the panic with phantom planet. i hope you’re all feeling as unwell as i am (x)

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Babygirl I know bandom lore I couldn't pay you to care about

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I AM GOIFN TO. THIS IS UNSPEAKABLE. I NEED TO DIE

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you're not a REAL emo until your birthday is tied to the death of a wrinkly old racist fuck sorry :/

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imagine if "poor little meow meow" had been in the popular vocabulary in 2006

pete wentz would have called himself this in a livejournal blog post

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people intentionally misunderstanding the conversation about halsey and their record label as 'boohoo rich person complaining' make my skin crawl. the point of them being transparent is to protect younger, less popular, less visible artists. it's starting a conversation about the place of a record label in the industry. this is not about them and they have been so clear that they know that

i feel like im watching the taylor swift vs streaming services debate again and im done

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britney could do mama and mcr could do toxic send post

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PHOEBE BRIDGERS Wonderland Magazine Photographed by Brad Torchia

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new jersey??? you know they invented that for the my chemical romance backstory right